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Topic Started: Nov 3 2014, 12:40 AM (1,276 Views)
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I was either 27 or 28 when my son was born (the only child I know of) and it's been mostly awesome since then =]

Go knock her up and then run off just so you can say you've done it, you can reconnect with the kid when it's in it's twenties and act like it was all the Moms fault that you weren't there.
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Nov 5 2014, 03:58 PM
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Nov 5 2014, 03:56 PM
ATroms
Nov 5 2014, 03:50 PM
spasgur
Nov 5 2014, 03:48 PM
How old are you Atroms? Not meant as a demeaning question or to set up a joke, just curious.
28
Alright, then it seems a bit soon to get kids.


You say that, yet most people under that age here (North America) have several kids!
Which seems so strange to me. No way I'd want the shackles of parenthood where I'm at in my life right now. Right now I can't imagine having kids before 35. There's just too much I wanna do and quite frankly I'm loving the freedom I have right now, I'm having a blast! Hell, even being in a serious relationship seems too hindering right now hehe.

I have a friend my age who became a father last winter and every time we meet he bitches about how he misses being able to go out when he wants to and how he kinda regrets having a baby this early in his life. I mean, I want to do what I want when I'm still young and in my twenties. I remember talking to him about all this stuff before his girlfriend got pregnant and he said he wouldn't mind being a parent already. His thoughts on that have definitely changed since then.

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Nov 5 2014, 03:41 PM
I don't consider it a win though either. & I wasn't trying to be petty.. I just truly felt I did the right thing by being there for Mum instead of partying.. & truly felt she was wrong by holding that against me, while peppering me about a guy who was advancing on her.. I wasn't going to just do whatever was necessary to smooth it out. Had to stand my ground, glad I did..

& anal = overrated

Been there done that..
You don't/shouldn't have to apologize for putting your Mom first in that scenario, nor would I imagine that is the real problem she has.

What you CAN do is apologize for not being open with her about WHY you had to put Mom first this time. Not only will you be addressing a concern every woman has (be more open), but you can apologize with sincerity and still know you did the right thing with your Mom. If you pull a Zardoz, you'll be doomed. Maybe instead you should START COMMUNICATION and see what happens.

Now, if you don't want to, that in and of itself should tell you something and make you consider where your relationship stands. It's OK to be uncomfortable about it, but you should still want to have someone to share it with. If you can open up to us bunch of idiots, you should be picking a life partner who you have at least teh same level of comfort (ideally a bit more :p )
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Like Tallica just said, get her pregnant.
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Nov 5 2014, 03:00 PM
Out of curiosity - do you have kids? My guess is no - as no one who has kids would say that (because it's not true)
wtf has the world come to? the words of wisdom is coming from BD, instead of old CB. lol. or maybe it's old cb who's turned heel and is the one trolling. :p
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Nov 5 2014, 04:44 PM
ATroms
Nov 5 2014, 03:41 PM
I don't consider it a win though either. & I wasn't trying to be petty.. I just truly felt I did the right thing by being there for Mum instead of partying.. & truly felt she was wrong by holding that against me, while peppering me about a guy who was advancing on her.. I wasn't going to just do whatever was necessary to smooth it out. Had to stand my ground, glad I did..

& anal = overrated

Been there done that..
You don't/shouldn't have to apologize for putting your Mom first in that scenario, nor would I imagine that is the real problem she has.

What you CAN do is apologize for not being open with her about WHY you had to put Mom first this time. Not only will you be addressing a concern every woman has (be more open), but you can apologize with sincerity and still know you did the right thing with your Mom. If you pull a Zardoz, you'll be doomed. Maybe instead you should START COMMUNICATION and see what happens.

Now, if you don't want to, that in and of itself should tell you something and make you consider where your relationship stands. It's OK to be uncomfortable about it, but you should still want to have someone to share it with. If you can open up to us bunch of idiots, you should be picking a life partner who you have at least teh same level of comfort (ideally a bit more :p )
it's funny how tromie is all emo and open on here with us, but with his gal, he's all macho and hard nosed. :p
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Nov 5 2014, 03:50 PM
spasgur
Nov 5 2014, 03:48 PM
How old are you Atroms? Not meant as a demeaning question or to set up a joke, just curious.
28
i thought u were in your 30's tromie. lol who u callin pumpkin? :p
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Nov 5 2014, 05:58 PM
BDW
Nov 5 2014, 03:00 PM
Out of curiosity - do you have kids? My guess is no - as no one who has kids would say that (because it's not true)
wtf has the world come to? the words of wisdom is coming from BD, instead of old CB. lol. or maybe it's old cb who's turned heel and is the one trolling. :p
Cbear trolling? NO WAY.
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Cbear claimed he's never wrong like a week ago. I don't think any post could ever parallel that in terms of absurd trolling statements.
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I can't believe you slap-dicks think I'm an emo hipster..

I'll need to dedicate a night to this place hammered on bourbon. You'd never see me the same way
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I can't imagine why anyone would assume someone listening to Foxygen would be an emo-hipster....
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Nov 5 2014, 07:53 PM
Cbear claimed he's never wrong like a week ago. I don't think any post could ever parallel that in terms of absurd trolling statements.
I would rethink my stance on fatherhood just so I could adopt you, make you go mow the damn yard and clean the leaves off the roof and then disown you afterwards.

Word.
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Nov 5 2014, 05:58 PM
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Nov 5 2014, 03:00 PM
Out of curiosity - do you have kids? My guess is no - as no one who has kids would say that (because it's not true)
wtf has the world come to? the words of wisdom is coming from BD, instead of old CB. lol. or maybe it's old cb who's turned heel and is the one trolling. :p
Kids are great, but they are not for everyone. Bulldogs advice to a relationship problem is to get the woman pregnant.....whew! That's a nuclear bomb solution and who is to say it doesnt tear them apart rather than bring them together? I think more planning should go into having kids and the couple should be one in the decision but the reality is that for most people is an "oops". The biggest move in your life is an "oops." That seems rather crazy to me, but very common.
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Nov 5 2014, 08:46 PM
Ash
Nov 5 2014, 07:53 PM
Cbear claimed he's never wrong like a week ago. I don't think any post could ever parallel that in terms of absurd trolling statements.
I would rethink my stance on fatherhood just so I could adopt you, make you go mow the damn yard and clean the leaves off the roof and then disown you afterwards.

Word.
And you would have to mow the yard at 12 noon in the full sun and for lunch I would give you meatloaf.

I'm kinda liking this fatherhood thing.

Word.
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Nov 5 2014, 08:51 PM
dhk1980
Nov 5 2014, 05:58 PM
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Nov 5 2014, 03:00 PM
Out of curiosity - do you have kids? My guess is no - as no one who has kids would say that (because it's not true)
wtf has the world come to? the words of wisdom is coming from BD, instead of old CB. lol. or maybe it's old cb who's turned heel and is the one trolling. :p
Kids are great, but they are not for everyone. Bulldogs advice to a relationship problem is to get the woman pregnant.....whew! That's a nuclear bomb solution and who is to say it doesnt tear them apart rather than bring them together? I think more planning should go into having kids and the couple should be one in the decision but the reality is that for most people is an "oops". The biggest move in your life is an "oops." That seems rather crazy to me, but very common.
HugeMMAFan, is that you? :huh:
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