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Topic Started: Nov 3 2014, 12:40 AM (1,278 Views)
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Ask her to marry you.

Problem solved.
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dhk1980
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u can only use that bullet once. lol so what happens the next time tromie is involved in another drama?
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dhk1980
Nov 3 2014, 03:31 PM
u can only use that bullet once. lol so what happens the next time tromie is involved in another drama?
Get herpes. Give her herpes.
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dhk1980
Nov 3 2014, 03:31 PM
u can only use that bullet once. lol so what happens the next time tromie is involved in another drama?
He can get her pregnant and have kids.

That's a gun that can be reloaded several times.
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Nov 3 2014, 03:42 PM
dhk1980
Nov 3 2014, 03:31 PM
u can only use that bullet once. lol so what happens the next time tromie is involved in another drama?
Get herpes. Give her herpes.
It already worked for one member =P
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Nov 3 2014, 12:40 AM
Anybody??

:-/
I probably have a very different outlook on relationships then most people. I was never particularly successful with women, and I have only had two serious relationships, one of which is with my current wife.

Disclaimers:
- My specific set of life experiences is different then yours. While I may be sure that my advice is excellent, you may think it is retarded.
- Taking relationship advice from random guys on an MMA Forum is probably not the best life decision you could make.

Short version: Trying to not talk about your fucked up family life is already causing problems. You probably have to either talk about it directly, or get the hell out of the relationship. You should probably consider getting the hell out while the getting is good.

While discretion is generally a good call, I would have serious doubts about the success of any relationship where one side is uncomfortable about sharing key personal details with the other. If you are not comfortable talking about that kind of thing with her, then the relationship is either not that serious, or it is probably dysfunctional.

When she got pissed at you, your response was to talk about other guys that would hit on her. Exactly what sort of 'win' do you expect to get from that? Doing that is only going to imply that you think she would cheat on you. If that is not something you actually believe, saying it is fucked up. If it is something that could happen, that just raises more questions.

Honest question: Why the hell are you with this woman in the first place?

No need to answer here, but take some time to really think about that.

If you want a serious relationship with her, then it is clearly not working because you do not trust her enough to talk openly about your family issues when the situation reasonably calls for it, and you possibly do not trust her not to cheat on you. So you need to either sack up, and get ready to have some spectacularly uncomfortable relationships, or you need to do both of you a favor and seriously consider getting the hell out.

If you just got into this relationship in order to have a reasonably convenient way to get laid on a regular basis, then now might be a good time to get the hell out of it and find the next one.

END COMMUNICATION
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I think Lord Z had the most well thought out post of this thread, ATroms. I also agree with him that his question isn't one that you need to answer here on the forums.

Self-admittingly, I probably have one of the most cynical views on marriage that you'll come across, but I've witnessed so many cases of divorce that it's hard not to. I believe you can love someone, but at the same time, they may not be a great long-term match for you. More than just love is required for a strong long-term relationship.

Just keep in mind that if you and your girl pursue this relationship, these will probably be the LEAST stressful times of your relationship. Wait until you are arguing about kids, mortgages, finances, retirement, etc. Your fight about missing a Halloween party looks juvenile in comparison.

Of course, the flip-side is that there will be fights in any relationship and you could make the argument that it is how you handle the aftermath that is more telling than the fights themselves.

Either way, best of luck to you.
Edited by Wahoo08, Nov 6 2014, 12:04 AM.
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I agree with Lord Z - get her pregnant.
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Nov 4 2014, 11:44 AM
I agree with Lord Z - get her pregnant.

Bulldog's Cliff's Notes, don't trust them!!!

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Whenever you're involved in some sort of domestic dispute with a woman, just ask yourself WWSCSAD? (What would Stone Cold Steve Austin do?)
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Wahoo08
Nov 3 2014, 11:51 PM
I think Lord Z had the most well thought out post of this thread, ATroms. I also agree with him that his question isn't one that you need to answer here on the forums.

Self-admittingly, I probably have one of the most cynical views on marriage that you'll come across, but I've witnessed so many cases of divorce that it's hard not to. I believe you can love someone, but at the same time, they may not be a great long-term match for you. More than just love is required for a strong long-term relationship.

Just keep in mind that if you and your girl peruse this relationship, these will probably be the LEAST stressful times of your relationship. Wait until you are arguing about kids, mortgages, finances, retirement, etc. Your fight about missing a Halloween party looks juvenile in comparison.

Of course, the flip-side is that there will be fights in any relationship and you could make the argument that it is how you handle the aftermath that is more telling than the fights themselves.

Either way, best of luck to you.
i'm sure you've posted thousands of great posts like this. too bad they just disappeared into thin air back in the old board. :p
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He was never a member of the old board. He just came on briefly at the end there. Check out his join date and post count. Obviously a noob.
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Well, were all made up! I held strong, & she broke.. admitted that she was being a bitch & apologized up/down. Next, went for the trademark makeup sex.. AND.. on her rag = Ugh!! Might explain a little of her blasphemy though?

Thanks again for the insight fellas, appreciate it!
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Glad to hear it worked out!


Just for the record, does this mean you're not going to get her pregnant now?
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Nov 4 2014, 09:03 PM
Glad to hear it worked out!


Just for the record, does this mean you're not going to get her pregnant now?
Well, clearly Bulldog/Strongo provided the best feedback out of the lot. Ask her to marry me.. Put a Gi on her.. Knock her out.. Knock her up..

Zardoz reassured me what a good idea it is to take the advice of the fine chaps around here, so ill probably do all of the above, in random order!
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