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| Tweet Topic Started: Oct 14 2008, 12:35 PM (217 Views) | |
| Cabann | Oct 17 2008, 09:46 AM Post #11 |
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I am so sorry. I just don't understand why family can't help one another. I to often ask myself "What is it about me" to be treated the way that they do. The last time I asked my mom for help, to let me use her car so I could get my daughter to her orthopedic surgeon. She has out grown her brace and needed a new one made. I asked everybody around me first and nobody could give up their car for the day. So I call my mom and ask her if she could drive down so I could borrow her car. Nope she was too busy. Then the next day she informed me that she was heading to my sisters to help her out. And she lives futher away. That was the last time I am ever asking my family for help. Again I am sorry. edited to add: Are you sure we don't have the same family.lol Edited by Cabann, Oct 17 2008, 11:27 AM.
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| Ravenlost | Oct 17 2008, 11:47 AM Post #12 |
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What is it about you? It's because you LET THEM. Only you can control how you react to the actions of others. I think it's time you stopped giving them what they want...stop giving them any control over you...stop caring about what they do, what they say, what they think. Start caring about what YOU do and what YOU think. Don't let their actions bring you down. So your Dad gave your mother, his ex, items he'd promised to you. It's just STUFF and deep in your heart you knew he probably wouldn't keep his word. Why keep clinging to any hope that he will keep his word? Let it go...let him go. You have a tough enough time, so why let this man mess with your head? So what if they're running to make a big fuss over your aunt? Let them act like selfish idiots, it has no bearing on YOU. Let it go...you have your own life to live and you shouldn't even give them a second thought. Stop thinking of yourself as garbage and others will stop treating you like garbage. It doesn't happen over night, but it will eventually. You have to rise above their selfish, petty behavior and let it slide off you like water off a duck. BE STRONG and soon the people around you will see you as a strong person and treat you accordingly. And if they don't? Walk away. You don't need that in your life. |
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| ladybugbhb | Oct 17 2008, 12:25 PM Post #13 |
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((((hugs))) |
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| Ravenlost | Oct 18 2008, 11:42 AM Post #14 |
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Oh my, I hope I didn't sound harsh. I certainly didn't mean to be. I care about you a great deal and want you to feel better about yourself! |
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| MsLynn | Oct 19 2008, 10:22 PM Post #15 |
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its ok raven, it's just that in the past 6 months i've been "thrown away" so many times by so many people who are supposed to love me, and if these are the people who "love" me I can imagine how other people feel. I shouldnt' have even posted it.. I'm just so mad at my mom... i wish i could get completely away from her but i have to have a sitter for my 8 year old when i work. THEY DON'T SEEM TO TREAT ANYONE ELSE THIS WAY... so thats what i don't understand. OH HELL, never mind, i'm rambling again and this is my problem, not anyone else's |
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| Ravenlost | Oct 20 2008, 12:23 PM Post #16 |
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You need to vent so don't apologize for posting! You can vent here all you need to...we're here for you! |
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| ladybugbhb | Oct 21 2008, 05:23 AM Post #17 |
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that is right, post away, we wil listne and it willmake you feel somewhat better to get it all out! ((hugs)) |
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