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| Tweet Topic Started: Oct 14 2008, 12:35 PM (216 Views) | |
| MsLynn | Oct 14 2008, 12:35 PM Post #1 |
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I'm Back Well i've popped in and out on occassion, but these past few months have been total hell. ya'll all knew my dad kicked me out and let my cousins move into the house he"gave" me, well having to rent a place put me in a total financial bind, so mom said when your lease is up, you can move in here and stay till you're back on your feet. I'd gotten lucky enough to find a house i could have a 3 month lease on, so the end of june i put everything in storage and moved in to my moms.. well the 7th of july my mom/stepdad went to colorado to their cabin for over a month, and i was left at their house to take care of my stepdads mom/sister. one is 94 and the other is 77. well as soon as they go home they started looking for me a place to move too. finally found a place someone had started fixing up and then decided it was too much effort. so i've been trying to get it done. and i'm almost there. I was just so mad.. i feel completely betrayed. especially now, that my dad called her a couple weeks ago and gave her (mind you he divorced the woman 30 years ago) a big screen tv, all his old cowboy hats. i'm talking hats that cost $$$$ and lots of it. all kinds of things that were my grandmothers... AND SHE HAS NO CLUE WHY THIS WOULD BOTHER ME... I just don't get it.. I don't understand people. I'M TIRED OF BEING DISPOSABLE... I'M DONE HELPING ANYONE.. SOON AS I DO, THEY ARE GONE, OR WANT ME GONE!!!!!!!!!!... Took my dad to radiation treatments EVERY DAY for months... and then what happens, he throws me out.. soon as i'm done watching the old women for my mom... she's trying to get rid of me.. hell even my "mr man" got rid of me on what would have 6 years of us seeing each other" oh hell yeah, the holidays are gonna be great.. I GIVE UP. |
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| Cabann | Oct 14 2008, 01:08 PM Post #2 |
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Of course you were missed. I know exactly were you are coming from. I want to give up too. I hope it all works out for you. Edited by Cabann, Oct 14 2008, 01:10 PM.
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| shana1 | Oct 14 2008, 04:48 PM Post #3 |
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Of course I missed you. And I totally understand what you mean. |
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| Jolie Rouge | Oct 14 2008, 10:44 PM Post #4 |
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Of course we missed you. I know what you mean about family ... :hugs: |
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| psimer | Oct 15 2008, 11:34 AM Post #5 |
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Sometimes family just sucks. It's always better to be on your own. At least when things go wrong you know who to blame. And when things go great you know who to congratulate. |
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| Quaker Parrots | Oct 15 2008, 05:38 PM Post #6 |
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I thought that might have been his motive for kicking you out. Sounds like the cousin is a real winner to let your dad do that, and you with kids and all. |
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| Ravenlost | Oct 16 2008, 03:39 PM Post #7 |
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Yes we missed you! I've been wondering what was going on with you. And you can't give up. What would happen to your boys? Instead of giving up on life I'd suggest you give up on your parents! Two things come to mind. The first is something my hubby says to me all the time and the second is a paraphrase of an Albert Einstein quote... People can only use you if you allow them to and... Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome (or something close to that). The only person in life you can ever completely depend on is yourself. |
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| MsLynn | Oct 16 2008, 10:32 PM Post #8 |
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well its only me and my youngest now.. since i had to send my oldest to his dad.. my middle son decided he liked his dads money and is living there taking karate lessons, and being on the golf team and going to dollywood and with all his dads big influential friends. they will be coming home for christmas but since now i'm the one paying child support it won't be much, but i'll do what i can... I just want one person to be able to tell me why its so easy for someone to be able throw me away.. My parents after years and years... mr man after 6 years, just out of the blue decides... "I'm done"... my ex after 5 years... I just don't understand why I'm so disposable. I don't even have one person I can consider a REAL friend. Just waiting for my 8 year old to decide he'd rather live with his dad. |
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| Cabann | Oct 16 2008, 10:47 PM Post #9 |
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I feel your pain. I have helped my family numerous times. I let my family move in with me. I helped my mom out after my dad passed and again when my step-dad was dying. I also opened up my home to all family when they came to town. When it comes to me needing anything from them, no matter how little it is, I get shot down. Also it isn't that my kids are moving out, but my 20 year old is moving back home. He asked his dad if he could move in with him and he was told no. Believe me my stress level is sky high right now. I have learned to not count on my family and unfortunetly my 20 year old has learned to not count on his dad. As Paula said (and it is a hard lesson to learn) "The only person in life you can ever completely depend on is yourself". |
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| MsLynn | Oct 17 2008, 06:21 AM Post #10 |
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trust me, I learned this at a very early age. and i Don't depend on anyone...I did manage a couple of rent free months... and yes i figured this would happen. I just have so much goin on right now.. I was pretty much over what dad did, till he called and gave mom so many things he'd promised to me for years... yeah i knew when he promised that i'd probably never get them, but the fact that he offered them to someone he divorced over 30 years ago, AND SHE ACCEPTED THEM... knowing what he'd done to me and the boys. and the "Mr. Man" pulling his thing on what would have been 6 years for us... and my aunt is in the hospital with a massive stroke, everytime they think they can get her to Rehab, something else goes wrong. now the same parents that couldn't come for me when my son (their grandson) was in neo natal icu, run to her bedside everyday and sit for hours... you should hear how they complained about htis woman.... she's addicted to pain pills and wine, and they were thinking of ways to get her to take to many... HOW FREAKIN SAD IS THAT..... i guess they didn't know anyone in OKC so if they came to see me, no one would know what a sacrafice they were making and tell them how wonderful they were for doing it. I'm sorry I know I'm rambling... Not had much sleep lately, and I don't get more than 8 hrs off at a time till like Thursday..and yes thats my fault for having so many jobs, but i'm having trouble sleeping now when i do have time to lay down. like i said, i'm just trying to figure out what it is about me that makes people think they don't have to keep their word to me, mind you if something happens, even if its major and easily proven that it really happened, they have a coniption fit on me. Why is it so easy for someone to Toss me out like garbage and never even give me a second thought. thats all i want to know, what is it about me, that makes EVERYONE think this is acceptable. |
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