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| 52 Year Old Missing Child Case Solved?; *Updated 6-18-09* | |
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| Topic Started: Jun 18 2009, 09:20 AM (16 Views) | |
| SusannahRose | Jun 18 2009, 09:20 AM Post #1 |
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If he IS the missing boy, that's going to open a whole new can of worms as to why and how this happened. Especially as his Father says he was born the year the other boy went missing, which creates a 2 year age difference. KALKASKA, Mich. – The father of a Michigan man who believes he was snatched from his real parents in New York half a century ago called the speculation "a bunch of foolishness." John Barnes has long suspected the couple who raised him were not his biological parents, and now he's awaiting DNA tests to find out if he was the 2-year-old boy who disappeared outside a bakery in Long Island, New York while his mother shopped inside. "I'm his dad," John's father, Richard Barnes, told The Associated Press on Wednesday. He replied, "No, no," when asked by a reporter whether he had kidnapped John Barnes. He called the notion "a bunch of foolishness." John Barnes on Thursday brushed off the comments from his father in an interview with NBC's "Today" show. He said he's "pretty confident" that the tests will indicate he was the missing boy. "I've always wanted to know who my real relatives were and where I came from," he told the interviewer. Cheryl Barnes, Richard's daughter, said she was "flabbergasted" by John's claims and was willing to undergo DNA testing to prove they are biological siblings. "I can't begin to know why he would think this," said Cheryl Barnes, 50. "Everybody in my family thinks John looks just like my dad." For his part, John Barnes said he never really bonded with the mother and father who raised him. He said they didn't look like him and just didn't seem like family. "I just had a hunch that something was fishy," said Barnes, a laborer who is now in his 50s. "I never asked them if they kidnapped me. I asked them why I was so different from them," he said of his parents. Police in Nassau County, N.Y., have said a Michigan man contacted their office in the past few months saying he believed he was the missing toddler. Barnes said the FBI took a sample of his DNA via a cheek swab in March. "I don't know if I'm related to the Dammans or the Barneses. I'm just waiting for the DNA results," he said during an interview at his mobile home, located on a dirt road in Kalkaska, almost 200 miles northwest of Detroit, where he lives with his wife and dog. Years earlier, Barnes started his own investigation and found some potential answers on the Internet — a few pictures that led him to conclude he could be the missing toddler, Stephen Damman. Barnes said pictures of the missing boy's mother when she was a young adult resembled what he looked like at the same age. "I thought I looked like her, so I had something to sink my teeth into," he said. The mother, Marilyn Damman, left the boy and his 7-month-old sister waiting outside a bakery while she went inside to shop on Oct. 31, 1955, according to police and news accounts at the time. Marilyn Damman came out of the bakery after 10 minutes but could not find her children. The stroller, with only her daughter inside, was found around the corner from the market a short time later. A flier at the time said the boy walked with his toes turned out and had a small scar under his chin. "Yeah, I do have a scar," John Barnes told the AP as he pointed to a faint line, less than an inch, that runs below his chin and slightly up the right side of his face. Barnes said he was born in 1955 — the same year a 2-year-old Stephen Damman disappeared — but only saw his birth certificate once and doesn't have a copy. He said the FBI is looking into the discrepancy as part of its investigation. Richard Barnes is retired and lives eight miles from his son, although the two have not talked in about a year. He said his son was born in a Navy hospital in Pensacola, Fla., on Aug. 18, 1955. "We brought him home two days later, and he's never been out of our sight," the elder Barnes said, referring to John's childhood. Cheryl Barnes, who lives with her father, said John had never been close to the rest of the family and previously had suggested he'd been switched at birth. "He wanted to be by himself, do his own thing, be a loner," she said. "I feel bad for him that he feels this way. I feel bad for my dad. This is going to leave a lasting scar on him." During his research on the kidnapping, the younger Barnes said he drove to Newton, Iowa, where Jerry Damman, the father of the missing boy, lives. But they did not meet. Physically, Barnes resembles somewhat the Iowa farmer he believes could be his biological father, though they are far from identical. Both men have fair skin with a ruddy complexion, blue eyes and wide, round faces. Reached Wednesday in Iowa, Damman told the AP "it's almost too good to believe" that Barnes could be his son. Barnes said he has become close with the woman who could be his sister, Pamela Horne of Kansas City. Horne said on the "Today" show Thursday morning that she felt an instant bond with John Barnes. "When we first talked, it was just an immediate friendship," Horne said. "Like we had known each other for years." They did a home DNA test in March and he said it indicated they could be related. "I'm really glad that I'm finally finding all of this out, finding out who I'm related to," Barnes said. "Because I didn't want to get old and die and not know." ___ Associated Press writers Frank Eltman and Amy Westfeldt in New York, Nigel Duara and Melanie S. Welte in Iowa, and AP researcher Susan James contributed to this report. http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090618/ap_on_re_us/us50_years_missing |
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| SusannahRose | Jun 18 2009, 08:14 PM Post #2 |
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*UPDATE* DETROIT - DNA testing confirmed that a 54-year-old Michigan man is not a toddler kidnapped in Long Island, N.Y., in 1955, the FBI said Thursday. The FBI said testing showed John Barnes of Kalkaska, Mich., is not Stephen Damman, who disappeared at age 2 from outside an East Meadow bakery while his mother shopped. "DNA samples analyzed by the FBI laboratory in Quantico, Virginia, show John Barnes and Pamela Damman Horne do not share the same mother," the FBI said in a statement, referring to the sister of Stephen Damman. Story continues below ↓advertisement | your ad here Barnes has said he has long suspected the couple who raised him are not his biological parents, and the FBI took his DNA sample. He said he began investigating his origins years ago and found photos on the Internet that led him to believe he could be Stephen. On Thursday, Barnes told TODAY’s Meredith Vieira how confident he was that the DNA tests would prove he was indeed Stephen Damman. He also told Vieira that even when he was growing up, he didn’t feel as if he was the biological son of the family that raised him. He had a brother and a sister, but he never felt related to them. “I didn’t fit in with my family, I didn’t look like them. They were all dark-complected, brown eyes, dark hair, shorter than I was. They had different personalities. I’ve always known that, and that’s what got me started a long time ago,” he said, speaking very deliberately. Barnes said pictures of the missing boy's mother when she was a young adult resembled what he looked like at the same age. In Iowa, Stephen's father, Jerry Damman, called the news about the DNA test results disappointing. "It's too bad we had to go through all of this for actually nothing in the end," he told The Associated Press. Barnes said he was born the same year the boy disappeared, but that he only saw his birth certificate once. Barnes' father, Richard Barnes, has called the speculation "a bunch of foolishness." He said John Barnes was born in a Navy hospital in Pensacola, Fla., on Aug. 18, 1955. Police in Nassau County, N.Y., said a Michigan man contacted their office in the past few months saying he believed he was the missing toddler. Barnes said the FBI took the DNA swab in March. Damman said it's frustrating not knowing what happened to his son, even after all these years. "I guess we don't know any more than we did," he said. "It's been very hard to bring this all up after all those years. It's been hard." This story contains information from TODAYshow.com contributor Mike Celizic and The Associated Press. |
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