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Friendzone; and some politics thrown in
Topic Started: Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 11:56 AM (2,194 Views)
moldonhold
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...so I says to myself, I says, this place needs a girl advice topic...

Anyone here had unlucky experiences with ladies who think you're "just a friend"? I hear it's very difficult, but nonetheless possible, to get out of the zone. Does anyone have any advice to get a guy out of this hellhole? :'(
Edited by moldonhold, Thursday Nov 6 2008, 07:27 PM.
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Wipe that face off your head, bitch.
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Touch her shoulder
Put a shoe on your head
Do a barrel roll
Give her the ol' yawn and stretch.
Edited by famicommander, Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 12:05 PM.
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Holy sh- I never tried the yawn and stretch. You might be on to something here.
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Just tell her, and hope it doesn't backfire.

I'm sorry, my experience is limited, I don't even understand your feelings. :D
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Just tell her? That's crazy talk! I could've "just told her" years ago. -_-
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slowly start making more sexual refrences.
it all starts with sex, its not about love or anything beyond primitive wants.
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You know what's worse than friendzone? Being several thousands miles apart and neither party able to go and see the other and form a proper relationship.
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Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 02:45 PM
You know what's worse than friendzone? Being several thousands miles apart and neither party able to go and see the other and form a proper relationship.
OR, being in a proper relationship then being subjected too criticism the whole time >_>
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Nah.
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H8sMikeMoore
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 01:42 PM
slowly start making more sexual refrences.
it all starts with sex, its not about love or anything beyond primitive wants.
I'm not in it for the sex man. I'm really not! :O
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Foxhound_Fox
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 02:45 PM
You know what's worse than friendzone? Being several thousands miles apart and neither party able to go and see the other and form a proper relationship.
long distant relationships can totally work out. It's tough, but you can do it.
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everyones in it for the sex. actual compassion and love dosent happen until way later.
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If I was in it for the sex then there are several other candidates to consider. But I don't. :P
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*high school anecdote from Dave*

New girl moves in next door during the summer. I go over and say hi. School starts a few weeks later. We share a few elective courses. I sit beside her purposefully. We start gathering a group of friends and hanging out on a daily basis.

The end of the term arrives. By this time we're easily friends. Have a lot in common. Hanging out is good. I ask her is she wants to go to see the first Lord of the Rings movie (winter 2001). She agrees. It's all good. We go. I pay. good movie. I let her borrow my jacket. I take her home. Goodnight kiss. You kinda know at that point that you're past the friend zone.

I know it's not too descriptive but it's only my experience I'm going on.
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moldonhold
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 03:42 PM
If I was in it for the sex then there are several other candidates to consider. But I don't. :P
most guys who says that think it makes them more sexually attractive to girls.
unfortunately the nice guy thing rarely works out.
trust me, ive been there.
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I feel for you dude. It's a horrible spot to be in when you don't want to be and I can honestly say I know of no human who has gotten out of it. I mean, I know it has happened, but I do not personally know anyone who has. He must be a god among men...
But back to you, just because it doesn't happen often doesn't mean you can't be the first! I mean, you're Mold dude!! Do I have any advice for you? No, not really but I guess you can try avoiding activities that are "friend-like" and pursue activities that are "couple-like" (buttsecks?) Making your intentions clear is really all you can do apart from being blunt. The rest is up to her, but it doesn't mean you stop working on your part.

Of course my advice could be all bs, but this post was more of an ego-boost for you and a time-killer for me... Go Mold!!

Ok, I've lost interest....
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Zar you are absolutely hilarious.... :D

BTW, Obama won! 340-198 I'm fuckin calling it.
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whoozwah
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 06:32 PM
*high school anecdote from Dave*

New girl moves in next door during the summer. I go over and say hi. School starts a few weeks later. We share a few elective courses. I sit beside her purposefully. We start gathering a group of friends and hanging out on a daily basis.

The end of the term arrives. By this time we're easily friends. Have a lot in common. Hanging out is good. I ask her is she wants to go to see the first Lord of the Rings movie (winter 2001). She agrees. It's all good. We go. I pay. good movie. I let her borrow my jacket. I take her home. Goodnight kiss. You kinda know at that point that you're past the friend zone.

I know it's not too descriptive but it's only my experience I'm going on.
Dude, that's awesome. Glad to see that it worked out.

Okay, I'm gonna keep going for this....
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H8sMikeMoore
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 06:47 PM
moldonhold
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 03:42 PM
If I was in it for the sex then there are several other candidates to consider. But I don't. :P
most guys who says that think it makes them more sexually attractive to girls.
unfortunately the nice guy thing rarely works out.
trust me, ive been there.
That's.... not good. I try to be the nicest guy ever. :O

But you have a point. I've seen plenty of women ditch the nice guy for assholes.
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moldonhold
Tuesday Nov 4 2008, 10:14 PM
BTW, Obama won! 340-198 I'm fuckin calling it.
See, I was going to call it, but I didn't feel like starting a new topic, so I think I'll just hi-jack this one.
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