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Van/Jake and Facebook
Topic Started: Sep 30 2009, 12:32 AM (15,762 Views)
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Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(

Van has not answered any of the two, (two and half?) PMs I've sent him, Jake has answered every single one. Every single one. And he's answered quite awesomely. And it doesn't make me love Van any less. I guess I can ask Van questions like, "what's your favorite food?" And he'll probably definitely answer. Or questions like, "how many pets did you have growing up?" But I don't. He's not my friend, and for me personally, it feels weird asking him questions that don't directly involve his career or the show. The PMs that I've sent him directly involves the show and upcoming storylines. So I guess that's why he hasn't answered cause he's probably not allowed to. Or he hates Asians (ha! :P ). Whatever the reason, it doesn't make me love him less.

And the past few comments on this thread have sort of been making me uncomfortable.
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andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:18 PM
Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(

Van has not answered any of the two, (two and half?) PMs I've sent him, Jake has answered every single one. Every single one. And he's answered quite awesomely. And it doesn't make me love Van any less. I guess I can ask Van questions like, "what's your favorite food?" And he'll probably definitely answer. Or questions like, "how many pets did you have growing up?" But I don't. He's not my friend, and for me personally, it feels weird asking him questions that don't directly involve his career or the show. The PMs that I've sent him directly involves the show and upcoming storylines. So I guess that's why he hasn't answered cause he's probably not allowed to. Or he hates Asians (ha! :P ). Whatever the reason, it doesn't make me love him less.

And the past few comments on this thread have sort of been making me uncomfortable.
I made it a point not to bring up PMs in my last post. I don't like or hate either of them because of their replies. I couldn't give less of a shit about that.

Don't know if MY post made you feel 'uncomfortable', but if it did, sorry. I was just stating something totally unrelated. Maybe that shouldn't be in this thread then? I don't know. I'll remove it then if it really bothers you that much. Don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable.
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Dec 5 2009, 09:22 PM
andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:18 PM
Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(

Van has not answered any of the two, (two and half?) PMs I've sent him, Jake has answered every single one. Every single one. And he's answered quite awesomely. And it doesn't make me love Van any less. I guess I can ask Van questions like, "what's your favorite food?" And he'll probably definitely answer. Or questions like, "how many pets did you have growing up?" But I don't. He's not my friend, and for me personally, it feels weird asking him questions that don't directly involve his career or the show. The PMs that I've sent him directly involves the show and upcoming storylines. So I guess that's why he hasn't answered cause he's probably not allowed to. Or he hates Asians (ha! :P ). Whatever the reason, it doesn't make me love him less.

And the past few comments on this thread have sort of been making me uncomfortable.
I made it a point not to bring up PMs in my last post. I don't like or hate either of them because of their replies. I couldn't give less of a shit about that.

Don't know if MY post made you feel 'uncomfortable', but if it did, sorry. I was just stating something totally unrelated. Maybe that shouldn't be in this thread then? I don't know. I'll remove it then if it really bothers you that much. Don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable.
No no no. Don't want anyone deleting ANYTHING. I just want to make sure it doesn't get out of hand. As in, it started off all fun, but someone might come in and say, "I totally know what you mean! Van or Jake didn't answer my PM but Van or Jake answered mine, I totally think it's cause Van or Jake is better than the other!"

Does that make sense?

ETA: I just saw you deleted it. DORK. You totally didn't have to.
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andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:24 PM
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Dec 5 2009, 09:22 PM
andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:18 PM
Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(

Van has not answered any of the two, (two and half?) PMs I've sent him, Jake has answered every single one. Every single one. And he's answered quite awesomely. And it doesn't make me love Van any less. I guess I can ask Van questions like, "what's your favorite food?" And he'll probably definitely answer. Or questions like, "how many pets did you have growing up?" But I don't. He's not my friend, and for me personally, it feels weird asking him questions that don't directly involve his career or the show. The PMs that I've sent him directly involves the show and upcoming storylines. So I guess that's why he hasn't answered cause he's probably not allowed to. Or he hates Asians (ha! :P ). Whatever the reason, it doesn't make me love him less.

And the past few comments on this thread have sort of been making me uncomfortable.
I made it a point not to bring up PMs in my last post. I don't like or hate either of them because of their replies. I couldn't give less of a shit about that.

Don't know if MY post made you feel 'uncomfortable', but if it did, sorry. I was just stating something totally unrelated. Maybe that shouldn't be in this thread then? I don't know. I'll remove it then if it really bothers you that much. Don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable.
No no no. Don't want anyone deleting ANYTHING. I just want to make sure it doesn't get out of hand. As in, it started off all fun, but someone might come in and say, "I totally know what you mean! Van or Jake didn't answer my PM but Van or Jake answered mine, I totally think it's cause Van or Jake is better than the other!"

Does that make sense?
Yeah, sure, that makes sense. I decided to delete mine anyway. It didn't have anything to do with PMs, just a personal opinion of mine and how I feel about them. Doesn't really belong here anyway.
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andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:18 PM
Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(

Van has not answered any of the two, (two and half?) PMs I've sent him, Jake has answered every single one. Every single one. And he's answered quite awesomely. And it doesn't make me love Van any less. I guess I can ask Van questions like, "what's your favorite food?" And he'll probably definitely answer. Or questions like, "how many pets did you have growing up?" But I don't. He's not my friend, and for me personally, it feels weird asking him questions that don't directly involve his career or the show. The PMs that I've sent him directly involves the show and upcoming storylines. So I guess that's why he hasn't answered cause he's probably not allowed to. Or he hates Asians (ha! :P ). Whatever the reason, it doesn't make me love him less.

And the past few comments on this thread have sort of been making me uncomfortable.
Thank you, Moey.

I had a knee jerk reaction exactly like this early today. I even replied but it sounded a little mean so I deleted it. I was coming back to try again being less combative and I find you said better then I could so thank you thank you thank you!

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andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:18 PM
Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(

Van has not answered any of the two, (two and half?) PMs I've sent him, Jake has answered every single one. Every single one. And he's answered quite awesomely. And it doesn't make me love Van any less. I guess I can ask Van questions like, "what's your favorite food?" And he'll probably definitely answer. Or questions like, "how many pets did you have growing up?" But I don't. He's not my friend, and for me personally, it feels weird asking him questions that don't directly involve his career or the show. The PMs that I've sent him directly involves the show and upcoming storylines. So I guess that's why he hasn't answered cause he's probably not allowed to. Or he hates Asians (ha! :P ). Whatever the reason, it doesn't make me love him less.

And the past few comments on this thread have sort of been making me uncomfortable.
Well, I didn't even read the deleted post, but I was feeling this way already, too. We need that giant thumbs up emoticon. :)
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Dec 5 2009, 10:02 PM
We need that giant thumbs up emoticon. :)
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Is this giant and crazy enough? :D
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I hope I didn't make anyone uncomfortable. It was pure fun to me. I would never love one of the guys more just because he replies pms quicker, longer, at all. Yeah, it's nice to get replies but that's not the reason I love the guys. It sure as hell isn't the reason why I love Jake a little, tiny bit more.

PS. It sucks ass to type a message in English with my iPhone which is set on German :D .
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Dec 5 2009, 10:15 PM
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We need that giant thumbs up emoticon. :)
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Is this giant and crazy enough? :D
OMG HA.

That's... actually kind of scary. EHH. :P
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Dec 5 2009, 10:33 PM
I hope I didn't make anyone uncomfortable. It was pure fun to me. I would never love one of the guys more just because he replies pms quicker, longer, at all. Yeah, it's nice to get replies but that's not the reason I love the guys. It sure as hell isn't the reason why I love Jake a little, tiny bit more.

PS. It sucks ass to type a message in English with my iPhone which is set on German :D .
It's all good, Nads. I think part of what was making me uncomfortable was what it could have lead to. I just didn't want anyone coming in and flat out saying one boy is better than the other. It is a Van and Jake board for a reason. :) I mean, obviously you are allowed to love one boy more than the other. But seeing as we don't know any of them personally, I didn't want the thread to turn into how much nicer, cooler, awesomer, etc. Van or Jake is than Van or Jake. Hopefully that makes sense. :D
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Dec 5 2009, 10:39 PM
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Dec 5 2009, 10:15 PM
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We need that giant thumbs up emoticon. :)
:thumbsup

Is this giant and crazy enough? :D
OMG HA.

That's... actually kind of scary. EHH. :P
Heee. I changed it. :D

It was pretty crazy. Mahahaha.
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andyfeltrad
Dec 5 2009, 09:18 PM
Hi hi hi, guys.

I know this all in fun and everything. But it seems like people are judging whether or not they love Van and Jake based on whose PMs are longer and which one actually PMs them back. And it's sort of making me really sad. :(
Oh no no nooooooooo, I hope no one would ever actually do that (and I don't think anyone here would, 'cause we all rock :D ). As you said, it's all in fun. I love both of the boys like crazy, and silliness like answering a PM or not isn't going to change that.

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Dec 5 2009, 10:47 PM
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Dec 5 2009, 10:33 PM
I hope I didn't make anyone uncomfortable. It was pure fun to me. I would never love one of the guys more just because he replies pms quicker, longer, at all. Yeah, it's nice to get replies but that's not the reason I love the guys. It sure as hell isn't the reason why I love Jake a little, tiny bit more.

PS. It sucks ass to type a message in English with my iPhone which is set on German :D .
It's all good, Nads. I think part of what was making me uncomfortable was what it could have lead to. I just didn't want anyone coming in and flat out saying one boy is better than the other. It is a Van and Jake board for a reason. :) I mean, obviously you are allowed to love one boy more than the other. But seeing as we don't know any of them personally, I didn't want the thread to turn into how much nicer, cooler, awesomer, etc. Van or Jake is than Van or Jake. Hopefully that makes sense. :D
Makes total sense, Moey. Unfortunately, elsewhere people compare Van and Jake how each one of them handles their fans. Some people need to get into their heads that Van and Jake are two different people and therefore handle their fans differently.

And people need to learn how to read. BIG TIME!! Maybe I should explain that one. Right from the start, Jake said that he'll limit responses to pms. That he won't reply to wall posts, but some people just don't get that and keep asking questions on his wall. :rollseyes

And just because I feel like saying it:

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:headbang :headbang

I just have to mention what some complete idiot just posted on Van's wall.

"J. B. Oh God... is this another site that talks too much about Jake Silbermann simply because he is on the same show? If so... I'll be deleteing on the same day I joined. They are not siamese fucking twins!"

:postal

What the heck is wrong with that person? Anyway, I don't know why but I responded and said this


"Uhm, in case you haven't noticed yet, Jake is not just simply on the same show as Van, but his character Noah is very close with Van's character Luke. So of course people like to talk about Van AND Jake. Plus, as far as I can tell people don't just talk about Jake on here .

But why am I wasting by breath here anyway? Looks like you already set up your mind. "


Maybe you are wondering why I am posting this here, but I just had to vent a little. I hate people like that. sigh


Edit: That idiot just replied

"J. B. The name on the page says Van Hansis not Van Hansis/Jake Silbermann. Bye assholes."


Do I need to say more? That person is a complete idiot :headbang :postal :pullhair
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Ahahahahahha. Not gonna lie, I want to see if Van replies to that. Because yeah..... hahahahahahahahha. :rotfl
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Dec 7 2009, 03:02 PM
Ahahahahahha. Not gonna lie, I want to see if Van replies to that. Because yeah..... hahahahahahahahha. :rotfl
Oh, I would love to see Van replying but I doubt he will. Don't know why. Well, we all know how Van feels about Jakehaters.
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I wish Van would reply, but yeah, I don't think he will. I have a feeling he tries to avoid that sort of thing. But good gosh, what the heck was up with that? Looks like he already deleted himself... Hallelujah.
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Dec 7 2009, 03:02 PM
Ahahahahahha. Not gonna lie, I want to see if Van replies to that. Because yeah..... hahahahahahahahha. :rotfl
Oh, I would love to see Van replying but I doubt he will. Don't know why. Well, we all know how Van feels about Jakehaters.
Would love to see him go all VAN SMASH about it. Heeeeeeee.

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Ahahahahahha. Not gonna lie, I want to see if Van replies to that. Because yeah..... hahahahahahahahha. :rotfl
Oh, I would love to see Van replying but I doubt he will. Don't know why. Well, we all know how Van feels about Jakehaters.
Just saw that. Who is this idiot?
Did Van ever respont to a Jake-hater?
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Ahahahahahha. Not gonna lie, I want to see if Van replies to that. Because yeah..... hahahahahahahahha. :rotfl
Oh, I would love to see Van replying but I doubt he will. Don't know why. Well, we all know how Van feels about Jakehaters.
Just saw that. Who is this idiot?
Did Van ever respont to a Jake-hater?
He didn't reply to one on FB but I think he was asked about Jakehaters or commented on some statement with "they have to get the fuck over it" or something.
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Oh hahahahaha that's good! Go Van! Who's gonna tell this idiot on FB? ;-)
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I'd love it if Van kicked his ass, but on the other hand, sometimes it's just better to ignore
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That guy already deleted himself again anyway. He wouldn't see Van's reply.
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pffff realy wierd guy!
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That guy already deleted himself again anyway. He wouldn't see Van's reply.
I know, I was almost disappointed. I really wish I could see Van react. I love how he didn't think it was actually Van.


Oh, and... Baaaa Baaaa
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