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| Topic Started: Sep 26 2008, 07:57 AM (213 Views) | |
| Deleted User | Sep 26 2008, 07:57 AM Post #1 |
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Yes, I need advice. So, me and two friends (one who is of no relevance) were in the library the other day during a free period. We were discussing stuff, then the conversation became about this new girl in our class (who, atm was in class). So one of my friends likes her. He and I are good friends of her now. So he asks her out, and since she's kind of new, she gets awkward, but eventually accepts. He calls me jealous and crap. I kid with him by saying that she said yes to me and no to him (although I never asked her). I later said I was kidding. He gets violent and crap, but calms down. Later in the day, he calls me, abuses me, leaves some messages on my MSN and stuff. Next day, I find that he and the girl both aren't talking to me, and he keeps cussing me whenever he sees me. I didn't react. I find out that he told her that I told him the girl went out with the whole school in her old one. She doesn't take kind to this (and no, I said no such thing. In fact, it was another girl who tells me this, and I told it to her that very day. But that's a different story). So she thinks I'm bad-mouthing her behind her back and doing crap... She does talk later, and I tell her. She still can't decide and/or believe. This is really ticking me off. I'm figuring he's jealous or something and trying to break our friendship or something. I haven't talked to my friend yet though, but I've just shrugged him away, and ignored him rudely a few times. I swear, I could punch a whole through my door right now. What to do? I'd rather not be friends with a dude like him after he did this. I'm really ticked with the girl too, and I've told her off on MSN a few times. I told her that the fact she didn't trust me was just sad. She still can't decide who to believe, and I blocked her that very moment... The dude is trying to apologize, or so it seems. But I'm hell confused... I don't want to end up in an argument or fight. I don't want to talk to him either. I'm really stuck.. |
 
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| Sayf Udeen Ismaeel | Sep 26 2008, 12:24 PM Post #2 |
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Wow bro. The friend who turned her on you is trying to apologise? I'd acceptt it for the sake of a resolution, but let him know it's not on and you're still not happy about it. As for the girl, all you can do is tell her you said no such thing and hope she believes you, but I guess that could put her relationship with him in jeopardy an throw any chance of peace off balance.  I'll make du3a. Just look for ANY opening for peace, but don't let him think that you're easy going enough to let it slide!! |
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| Bunny | Sep 29 2008, 07:46 AM Post #3 |
A Godless life seems sweeter
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Point her to semotic, and we'll vouch for your trustworthiness =D |
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| lusion01 | Sep 29 2008, 12:41 PM Post #4 |
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Just say that if he's going to be this way, don't bother being friends. As for the girl, just hope for the best. |
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| sYkIk | Oct 1 2008, 01:57 PM Post #5 |
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yeah point her to semiotic.. anyway my sykik powers tell me that the matter has been resolved..  woo hoo! 
Edited by sYkIk, Oct 1 2008, 01:58 PM.
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| Bunny | Oct 2 2008, 05:26 AM Post #6 |
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A Godless life seems sweeter
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Are you the friend? Just wondering... |
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