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| The Hug Corner | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Tue Aug 23 12:53:24 GMT 2011 (711 Views) | |
| Evening Woolf | Tue Aug 30 23:54:11 GMT 2011 Post #11 |
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Vic: m'lady, it's been so long since I've spoken to you, but you were there back in the day when I needed someone. I return my blessings. I hope you're doing alright. Jax: Can you get a second opinion from another physician? My mom has trouble with that all the time, and it's gotten to the point to where I have to go with her so they don't bully her into a diagnosis she has to accept, even if it doesn't feel right. We had to deal with a cocky PA once... It wasn't pretty. I feel you on that frustration. :( Zooey: I'm sooo with you on that. All of it. *hug* don't give up! It will come. Aeryn: Put his crap in boxes... Unless his name is on the lease. If you both are, annoy the crap out him until he leaves. Stand your ground, woman! Amy: I would think if something had happened, people would be informed. So, if there is silence, then there's no news to be told. But *hug* anyway, dear. |
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| Evening Woolf | Wed Aug 31 0:04:12 GMT 2011 Post #12 |
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As for myself... I try not to put too much out. Simply because if I make it bigger than it is, I slip into a depression before I find a way to solve my own problems. I know how to solve the issue of living with my condescending dad, but that second job just hasn't found me yet. I know how to solve the issue of getting this guy I like to talk to me, but I'm still... Awkward. Most other problems are pretty minuscule and easily downplayed to minor annoyances. I think the one insolvable thing I have going on is losing a friend because I don't feel the same way he does about me, and it's been four years. And he can't handle it or something. I don't know. I'll get over it... But it's gonna suck for a while. *shrug* |
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| Evening Woolf | Wed Aug 31 8:08:51 GMT 2011 Post #13 |
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Actually. I would like to retract that statement. Do me a favor, would you? Hold my hair back as I vomit, or take them bullets out of my gun. You get to choose, but for God's sake, do not hug me. At this very moment, there is a sickening violence churning in my belly, threatening to consume my normally tranquil nature and maim anything else that opposes it. This morning, I had the rudest awakening I've ever experienced. My dad jerks me out of sleep and starts yelling at me. He'd spent the last few hours going through the whole of my Facebook profile. Understand this about me and realise how bad that was: I'm outspoken. I don't hold back. I curse, I forgive, I love, I hate, and above all else, I am unrelentlessly expressive. And Facebook is my sounding board. I have emotions that come and go, but I'll be damned if they don't leave banging pots and pans. I no longer believe in living quietly under someone's thumb. And my stepdad doesn't like this. Not. One. Bit. He read everything. Everything. He read rants, the messages, the statuses, the comments... all of it. Now, before anyone says, "Why didn't you log out?" or "Why don't you censor yourself," delete old messages, yada yada... I don't believe in censorship. I believe in the right to freely express oneself and I will defend it to the death, and I solemnly believe in the strength in the human will to rise above petty, commonplace actions. My dad let me down. I don't know how to forgive this. There was a lot of things he should have never seen. They were not for him. There's not a lot I want to put here, because I don't need to prove that I'm not just being an angsty teen pissed off about my dad on my page. But he did it for control. I feel violated. They say no one who's really been raped talks about it because it's a "sensitive subject." Sure. It could be, but I talk about it because I refuse to be victimized by it. But what does that have to do with this situation? That feeling I got from it returned when my dad started yelling at me about his findings. My safety, my privacy, my existance felt betrayed by someone I was supposed to trust. And when any of the above happen, I don't get sad. I don't get scared. I get angry. Angry is not what I want to be. I've spent the past two years managing my anger and resentment for my stepfather. So for something like this to happen... I don't know. I just don't know. |
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| Aeryn Lilyth | Wed Aug 31 8:51:17 GMT 2011 Post #14 |
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Alright, no hugs, but I'm here if you need to talk. |
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| Amy See | Wed Aug 31 11:14:06 GMT 2011 Post #15 |
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Forget that, idc if you bite me for it, but *hugs* anyways. No, double hug. And a cappuccino. |
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| Evening Woolf | Wed Aug 31 13:33:24 GMT 2011 Post #16 |
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Oh man. Ladies. Love you. After a few hours and some sushi, I've come down to the fact that I now just pity the spineless coward. Anyone who is suspicious of someone enough to pull that 16-year-old-psycotic-clingy-boyfriend mess is beyond help. I've suggest counseling four times in the last year, but he believes he is above it. I just... pity his spinelessness now. I just feel awful that my mom got any of it. He yelled at her about it rather than bring the fight directly to me. Disgusting coward. |
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| Amy See | Wed Aug 31 15:58:02 GMT 2011 Post #17 |
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All I can say is wow. I cant relate, because my parents have never been in my business like that. I have my mom on FB now, but half the time she doesnt even know about stuff I post until I say something, like if I put a video up or something. Even now that Im out of the house, she doesnt snoop on me, and never has. Im glad that you're no longer seeing red, but I don't blame you one bit for how you feel. Id feel the same way if I was in your shoes. Freedom of speech. First Amendment. |
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| Victoria Jacent | Thu Sep 1 5:16:28 GMT 2011 Post #18 |
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Yikes, even my folks trust me enough to leave my FB profile alone (except the occasional nosy I'M BEING YOUR DAD post he leaves :P) When a parent feels they must dive into every corner of their children's life, I feel like there is some sort of irrational fear going on behind the clockwork, if the kid hasn't given any reason to cause suspicion, of course. Can I ask why your stepdad seems so wired up about you? |
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| Dexter Drake | Fri Sep 2 3:03:02 GMT 2011 Post #19 |
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Ah, my mum is always snooping in and out of my profile which is rather annoying, It's as if she can't trust me, but I keep telling her I'm 22 I'm old enough to do whatever I want. I haven't anything to hide at any rate. She's rarely on FB anyway. In other news, I'm going back to University next week, which means more work, more drink, and more badly prepared food, I think I need a hug for that... :) |
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| Aeryn Lilyth | Fri Sep 2 5:22:59 GMT 2011 Post #20 |
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You can have a *hug* for that, if I can have one too :P Although I'm actually excited to get back. |
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