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| Tweet Topic Started: Oct 29 2011, 05:40 AM (745 Views) | |
| kawaiidebu | Oct 29 2011, 05:40 AM Post #1 |
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Spill it. You guys in long term relationships? Married? Single? Serial-dater? Casually knocking boots? Come on, fess up. I'll go first. Despite my natural predilections I'm currently dating/living with a relatively slim chick. We've been together for about two years now, though we were acquaintances long before that. I actually up and moved to live with her after we had visited each other a number of times. We had met online before that on a webcomics forum, though we didn't really talk on that very much at all. We were both talking to each other while involved in other long term relationships as well, though our other relationships were both pretty destructive and shitty and generally unhealthy to be in. Liz (my current gf) is only what I'd call my third "serious" relationship, there's been little false starts here and there along the way, flings, etc. We're pretty serious though, and we're looking at eventual matrimony some time down the way (if she ever finishes her damn school). She's also fully aware that I am "kawaiidebu" and my personal preferences. Pretty much nothing I could tell her would take her by surprise at this point, and she's something of a hentai connoisseur herself so she's used to much worse than fat chicks on the fetish scale. That's about all for my current state of affairs, but some time I might tell you guys about my earlier ridiculous relationships. |
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| HocusPukeus | Oct 29 2011, 12:15 PM Post #2 |
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sure....i'll fess up... I'm single at the moment. however, i got a couple of chicks who are trying to get with me. gonna see how things work out though. |
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Whatcha gonna do when the round begins? SHORYUKEN! What? SHORYUKEN! Whatcha gonna do when the block that hit? SHORYUKEN! Yes. SHORYUKEN! Whatcha gonna do when your opponent's full screen spamming tiger shots preventing you from proceeding SHORYUKEN! Yes keep on beasting, cause eventually you'll crush the precent cause YOU'RE A MASTER! | |
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| Moonvamp | Oct 29 2011, 02:44 PM Post #3 |
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I've been single for over eleven years now. I never really had any girls interested in me for a very long time. Kinda lonesome, but oh well. XD |
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| HocusPukeus | Oct 29 2011, 02:48 PM Post #4 |
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@ Moonvamp. I've been single for longer than that...the thing is sometimes, you gotta make the move. Can't always wait for the girl to fall on your lap (no sexual meaning behind that i promise) |
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Whatcha gonna do when the round begins? SHORYUKEN! What? SHORYUKEN! Whatcha gonna do when the block that hit? SHORYUKEN! Yes. SHORYUKEN! Whatcha gonna do when your opponent's full screen spamming tiger shots preventing you from proceeding SHORYUKEN! Yes keep on beasting, cause eventually you'll crush the precent cause YOU'RE A MASTER! | |
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| Nexis | Oct 29 2011, 03:29 PM Post #5 |
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Been single for some odd years, although I did date a gal for some months back in college, however we had a mutual split so as of now I've been riding the singles train. |
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| DoWhatNow | Oct 29 2011, 03:39 PM Post #6 |
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I never dated. Just never crossed my mind in my teenage years because of school, work and other things. Now I feel like I won't be ready to connect with anybody unless I build up my confidence. |
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| HocusPukeus | Oct 29 2011, 03:51 PM Post #7 |
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@ DWN confidence is always the issue...usually there's a fear that holds people back. I know it was fear for the longest that kept me from making moves...i mean, the worst that can happen is a simple "no. not interested." Once that issue is dealt with, the confidence will come up. |
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Whatcha gonna do when the round begins? SHORYUKEN! What? SHORYUKEN! Whatcha gonna do when the block that hit? SHORYUKEN! Yes. SHORYUKEN! Whatcha gonna do when your opponent's full screen spamming tiger shots preventing you from proceeding SHORYUKEN! Yes keep on beasting, cause eventually you'll crush the precent cause YOU'RE A MASTER! | |
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| kawaiidebu | Oct 29 2011, 04:40 PM Post #8 |
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Most of the time I've been casual acquaintances with the girl first. During highschool and college being involved in plays or theatre groups was a good way to meet ladies. I had gone to an all boys highschool, so I started going to the sister school we had for their drama club and since they had an all girl campus it was pretty much shooting fish in the barrell. With women I've sometimes had a tough time balancing my bravado with my quieter side. The bravado always gets a bigger response in my experience, but there's the risk in setting someone up to be ill-prepared regarding the other facets of your character. Going in quiet or self-conscious has definitely never worked for me. Basically in every interaction it's always helpful to be mindful that anyone else is just a person like yourself, I think. No sense in getting too worked up. |
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| Running Wild | Oct 29 2011, 07:05 PM Post #9 |
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I've been single forever. In a few years I'll be 30 and I still have zero experience. I want to find a woman that shares my interest for games and animation, stuff like that, but it's next to impossible. Most women are looking to settle down at a young age, get married, have kids (or already have kids), they already dated enough guys to know what they want. Meanwhile I know nothing. I can't win. If they make a 40 year virgin 2, I'm gonna have a starring role in it and it'll be based on a real life story. Edited by Running Wild, Oct 29 2011, 07:05 PM.
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| DoWhatNow | Oct 29 2011, 07:49 PM Post #10 |
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I thought you had a girlfriend. |
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| Running Wild | Oct 29 2011, 08:13 PM Post #11 |
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No sir, not me. At the rate I'm going, I'm going to have waifu's. |
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| Aerial Rave | Oct 30 2011, 12:28 AM Post #12 |
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Nova End Highway!
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Single for six years, and possibly more. So far, no woman in my area fits my picky tastes. |
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| kawaiidebu | Oct 30 2011, 12:52 AM Post #13 |
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Running, where do you live? |
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| Running Wild | Oct 30 2011, 02:59 AM Post #14 |
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I live in upstate NY. |
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| Tytoon101 | Oct 30 2011, 03:56 AM Post #15 |
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Hmm, and here I thought you lived near Long Island Running. |
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You feel through the wall Shockmaster. | |
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| Tweeps | Nov 2 2011, 06:14 AM Post #16 |
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Special Agent Tom "Tweeps" Kingsley
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Oh man, this is thread is just a hop and a skip away from becoming Sgt. Debu's ronrey hearts club. Never had a "serious" relationship with anyone to where we officially do boring things cuddled together like watch cartoons in the afternoon or set stereotypic dinner dates at popular couple locations. I at least do not think of myself as a cold fish, but something about people makes me fluid. Depending on who it is and what is going on in my life, I become a completely different person then I intend to be and it gets me anything from a black eye to eating breakfast in a stranger’s bed; and with some, both these extremes in relative order and repetitive cycles between them. I do not wake up every morning to ponder about whom I will to lie to that day; I grew up reserved and awkward as hell. To figure out how to interact with people face-to-face I, in theory, learned how to quickly read interests and shape myself to them. Unfortunately, it mutated into something I can’t easily control with new acquaintances without crafting a new persona around them. I’ll admit the ride can be wild at times and thankfully I haven’t perfected a way to become Don Juan yet, but I can tell you horror stories of receiving the most intimate series of text messages or words one day and sweating bullets over how goddamn far my dumbass took it with what’s-her-face last night Edited by Tweeps, Nov 2 2011, 06:18 AM.
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| Flak, don't take this the wrong way but I got a sausage over here with your name on it. | |
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| Korota37 | Nov 3 2011, 06:23 AM Post #17 |
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Haven't had a relationship because I've never bothered looking, partly due to a lack of self-esteem/confidence, partly because I feel like there's more important things to do with my life first. Maybe someday, but I just haven't felt the need. Most likely I will start looking just so it doesn't appear progressively more pathetic to other people as I age that I've never had a significant other. |
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| debulover | Nov 19 2011, 01:49 AM Post #18 |
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I dated a big girl back in my Junior year in high school. It lasted for about 8 months because I broke up with her. I just felt like I was doing all the work in the relationship because I was the one who was always calling her and picking where we would go for about 95% of the time. I just wanted a girl who is not only big and has many things in common as me, but one who would take the initiative to do things with me. Relationships need to be a two way road! |
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| BorisGrim | Nov 19 2011, 06:10 PM Post #19 |
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I'm currently in the happiest relationship I've ever been in. it's been a good year since the last but its the same person, I'm taking more time learning and understanding my baby grape. We met at VA comic-con in Richmond, and became super fond of each other's company. she's the best companion I've ever had hands down. |
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