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Is she playing a game with me? - Need advice
Topic Started: Aug 23 2009, 03:13 PM (459 Views)
TeraHammer	Aug 23 2009, 03:13 PM Post #1
Forum Darling Posts: 1,611 Group: Global Moderators Member #3 Joined: Nov 21, 2008	I've been mailing for two weeks now with a nice young woman (and she's tall :-) and we're going to meet on tuesday. She seems to be looking forward to it and mentions her anticipation to meet me in her last mails. However, I gave her my telephone number two mails back, kinda expecting her to get hers in return. When she didnt give it I asked for it because "just in case". And now I got her last email and she completely ignores that request, she doesnt say anything about it. Is she playing a game with me? Or did she just read over it? She is a person to flirt and tease however. When I gave her my number she said she wouldnt call me yet because she's too shy to do that. Maybe she wouldnt like to have a telephone call with me just yet and is afraid that I would call her (which I indeed would). I'm not travelling to her city if she can't give her number to me, but I'm not gonna beg for it either. Any advice you can give me? Edited by TeraHammer, Aug 23 2009, 03:16 PM.
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stresd	Aug 23 2009, 03:57 PM Post #2
Cellist Posts: 116 Group: Game Admins Member #65 Joined: Dec 5, 2008	So you have not ever talked to her or have you talked online [Skype] or on a phone other than a Cell phone..Have you heard her voice is what im getting at?



TeraHammer	Aug 23 2009, 07:00 PM Post #3
Forum Darling Posts: 1,611 Group: Global Moderators Member #3 Joined: Nov 21, 2008	Nope, haven't heard her voice yet.
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Smekkie	Aug 23 2009, 07:14 PM Post #4
Pursemaker Posts: 60 Group: Members Member #215 Joined: May 10, 2009	Uhm, how did you met her? I guess through internet. (Game, dating site whatever). If you have a pic of her that looks real, she is not playing games with you I think. I guess she read over, forgot it, or just doesn't like having contact by telephone, because she's afraid for a painful silence or something like that. I would ask her another time if you really want her number before going to her city. Edited by Smekkie, Aug 23 2009, 07:19 PM.
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Sahara	Aug 23 2009, 07:55 PM Post #5
Blacksmith Posts: 111 Group: Members Member #211 Joined: May 5, 2009	Hmm if I was serious about meeting you then I would definatly give a phone number so that you could contact me just incase of any emergancy! But you never know she may just give it you in a couple of days nearer to the time like tomorrow but I hope it all works out well for you! And whats wrong with short people?



TeraHammer	Aug 23 2009, 08:44 PM Post #6
Forum Darling Posts: 1,611 Group: Global Moderators Member #3 Joined: Nov 21, 2008	Yeah she sent me 3 pics that have to be her. Good point Smekkie. And yeah I met her through a dating site. I'll ask it with an email the tomorrow morning. Thx sahara, and yeah that were my thoughts; if she was serious to meet me, why wouldnt she give her number :o) In case you didnt know, I'm 2,03 meter ;-) Edited by TeraHammer, Aug 23 2009, 08:46 PM.
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ovesh	Aug 23 2009, 09:04 PM Post #7
king of the world Posts: 993 Group: Members Member #43 Joined: Nov 29, 2008	WHAT you are 2 meters? I hate you I am only 1.64 all of you dutch(I have always thought of you as dutch) are super tall
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JRich	Aug 23 2009, 10:42 PM Post #8
Futurist Posts: 737 Group: Members Member #81 Joined: Dec 9, 2008	Hmm I've never hooked up with anyone online before. But the best of luck to you man!



Xclusive	Aug 23 2009, 10:42 PM Post #9
Moneylender Posts: 140 Group: Members Member #137 Joined: Feb 12, 2009	I'm like 1.60 to, and i'm dutch. .. So what? Not ALL are. but, a lot of them are, so for me girls are even a harder subject because i'm freaking smaller then most of them .. urghz.



Brithor	Aug 24 2009, 12:52 AM Post #10
Lil' Chico Posts: 971 Group: Members Member #4 Joined: Nov 24, 2008	I dunno, maybe she's just weary. Maybe she's not comfortable with sharing her phone number with people she hasn't met personally. If she doesn't give it to you before you meet I'm sure she'll give it to you after you do (If it's not a total disaster).



Rhino	Aug 24 2009, 12:56 AM Post #11
Shearman Posts: 488 Group: Members Member #172 Joined: Mar 27, 2009	Brithor Aug 24 2009, 12:52 AM I dunno, maybe she's just weary. Maybe she's not comfortable with sharing her phone number with people she hasn't met personally. If she doesn't give it to you before you meet I'm sure she'll give it to you after you do (If it's not a total disaster). I agree, im not saying your a stalker and etc but its possible that if she gave her number out willy nilly then who knows will ring her one night randomly just breathing down the phone. I think its very sensible of her if this is her main reason for not giving it.
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Zink	Aug 24 2009, 02:49 AM Post #12
Drawer Posts: 1,959 Group: Members Member #64 Joined: Dec 4, 2008	Ok in all seriousness she may be a he....and she doesn't want you to hear his voice...I mean that probably isn't the case but...be careful



Ken	Aug 24 2009, 05:21 AM Post #13
Charioteer Posts: 567 Group: Game Helpers Member #5 Joined: Nov 25, 2008	Remember TH, your back door should remain a back door!



Sahara	Aug 24 2009, 08:32 AM Post #14
Blacksmith Posts: 111 Group: Members Member #211 Joined: May 5, 2009	Yeah some girls are funny about hearing their voice until you actually meet them because they sound different in real life. Like they might sound more manly on the phone and wouldn't want to put you off! and 2 metres Woah you sure ate all your veg!



ReidE96	Aug 24 2009, 09:54 AM Post #15
Mr. Romance Posts: 1,404 Group: Members Member #89 Joined: Dec 17, 2008	...am I the only one finding it ironic that TH asked about this on the website of a game? Gotta love our stereotype slaughtering.
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Smekkie	Aug 24 2009, 10:41 AM Post #16
Pursemaker Posts: 60 Group: Members Member #215 Joined: May 10, 2009	TH, don't be nervous, she just didn't gave her number cause she maybe had a bad experience with giving her number before one of her dates. It's a dating site after all, and girls are just more cautious when they hand out their numbers to people. Yeah, you're kinda tall. Even for a dutchie, as I am 1,81, and that's about average for my age around here. BTW, good luck with your date! ^^ Edited by Smekkie, Aug 24 2009, 10:44 AM.
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TeraHammer	Aug 24 2009, 11:00 AM Post #17
Forum Darling Posts: 1,611 Group: Global Moderators Member #3 Joined: Nov 21, 2008	Thx! And she just sms'd me her number so I'm all happy now :-] And lol you, don't make me fantasize about her having a penis
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Sahara	Aug 24 2009, 11:19 AM Post #18
Blacksmith Posts: 111 Group: Members Member #211 Joined: May 5, 2009	Wahoooo! Good luck!



Mhuahaha	Aug 24 2009, 01:03 PM Post #19
Herder Posts: 2,712 Group: Forum Admins Member #1 Joined: Nov 21, 2008	There are so many variables in here, you shouldn't worry so much about it. It is a dating site after all. (And I said this before but, the avarage hight of the dutch is 1,85m. And yeah, I am a relatively small dutchman.)
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Brithor	Aug 24 2009, 02:21 PM Post #20
Lil' Chico Posts: 971 Group: Members Member #4 Joined: Nov 24, 2008	TeraHammer Aug 24 2009, 11:00 AM Thx! And she just sms'd me her number so I'm all happy now :-] Happy marriage!



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Is she playing a game with me? - Need advice

Topic Started: Aug 23 2009, 03:13 PM (459 Views)

TeraHammer

Aug 23 2009, 03:13 PM Post #1

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I've been mailing for two weeks now with a nice young woman (and she's tall :-) and we're going to meet on tuesday. She seems to be looking forward to it and mentions her anticipation to meet me in her last mails.
However, I gave her my telephone number two mails back, kinda expecting her to get hers in return. When she didnt give it I asked for it because "just in case". And now I got her last email and she completely ignores that request, she doesnt say anything about it.

Is she playing a game with me? Or did she just read over it? She is a person to flirt and tease however.

When I gave her my number she said she wouldnt call me yet because she's too shy to do that. Maybe she wouldnt like to have a telephone call with me just yet and is afraid that I would call her (which I indeed would). I'm not travelling to her city if she can't give her number to me, but I'm not gonna beg for it either.

Any advice you can give me?

Edited by TeraHammer, Aug 23 2009, 03:16 PM.

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stresd

Aug 23 2009, 03:57 PM Post #2

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So you have not ever talked to her or have you talked online [Skype] or on a phone other than a Cell phone..Have you heard her voice is what im getting at?

TeraHammer

Aug 23 2009, 07:00 PM Post #3

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Nope, haven't heard her voice yet.

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Smekkie

Aug 23 2009, 07:14 PM Post #4

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Uhm, how did you met her? I guess through internet. (Game, dating site whatever).

If you have a pic of her that looks real, she is not playing games with you I think.
I guess she read over, forgot it, or just doesn't like having contact by telephone, because she's afraid for a painful silence or something like that.

I would ask her another time if you really want her number before going to her city.

Edited by Smekkie, Aug 23 2009, 07:19 PM.

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Sahara

Aug 23 2009, 07:55 PM Post #5

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Hmm if I was serious about meeting you then I would definatly give a phone number so that you could contact me just incase of any emergancy! But you never know she may just give it you in a couple of days nearer to the time like tomorrow but I hope it all works out well for you!

And whats wrong with short people?

TeraHammer

Aug 23 2009, 08:44 PM Post #6

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Yeah she sent me 3 pics that have to be her. Good point Smekkie. And yeah I met her through a dating site. I'll ask it with an email the tomorrow morning.

Thx sahara, and yeah that were my thoughts; if she was serious to meet me, why wouldnt she give her number :o)

In case you didnt know, I'm 2,03 meter ;-)

Edited by TeraHammer, Aug 23 2009, 08:46 PM.

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ovesh

Aug 23 2009, 09:04 PM Post #7

king of the world

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WHAT you are 2 meters? I hate you

I am only 1.64

all of you dutch(I have always thought of you as dutch) are super tall

I asked God for a bike, but I know God doesn't work that way. So I stole a bike and asked for forgiveness.

We live in a society where pizza gets to your house before the police.

Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.

JRich

Aug 23 2009, 10:42 PM Post #8

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Hmm I've never hooked up with anyone online before. But the best of luck to you man!

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Aug 23 2009, 10:42 PM Post #9

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I'm like 1.60 to, and i'm dutch. .. So what?

Not ALL are. but, a lot of them are, so for me girls are even a harder subject because i'm freaking smaller then most of them .. urghz.

Brithor

Aug 24 2009, 12:52 AM Post #10

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I dunno, maybe she's just weary. Maybe she's not comfortable with sharing her phone number with people she hasn't met personally.
If she doesn't give it to you before you meet I'm sure she'll give it to you after you do (If it's not a total disaster).

Rhino

Aug 24 2009, 12:56 AM Post #11

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Brithor
Aug 24 2009, 12:52 AM
I dunno, maybe she's just weary. Maybe she's not comfortable with sharing her phone number with people she hasn't met personally.
If she doesn't give it to you before you meet I'm sure she'll give it to you after you do (If it's not a total disaster).

I agree, im not saying your a stalker and etc but its possible that if she gave her number out willy nilly then who knows will ring her one night randomly just breathing down the phone. I think its very sensible of her if this is her main reason for not giving it.

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Zink

Aug 24 2009, 02:49 AM Post #12

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Ok in all seriousness she may be a he....and she doesn't want you to hear his voice...I mean that probably isn't the case but...be careful

Ken

Aug 24 2009, 05:21 AM Post #13

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Remember TH, your back door should remain a back door!

Sahara

Aug 24 2009, 08:32 AM Post #14

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Yeah some girls are funny about hearing their voice until you actually meet them because they sound different in real life. Like they might sound more manly on the phone and wouldn't want to put you off!

and 2 metres

Woah you sure ate all your veg!

ReidE96

Aug 24 2009, 09:54 AM Post #15

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...am I the only one finding it ironic that TH asked about this on the website of a game? Gotta love our stereotype slaughtering.

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Smekkie

Aug 24 2009, 10:41 AM Post #16

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TH, don't be nervous, she just didn't gave her number cause she maybe had a bad experience with giving her number before one of her dates. It's a dating site after all, and girls are just more cautious when they hand out their numbers to people.

Yeah, you're kinda tall. Even for a dutchie, as I am 1,81, and that's about average for my age around here.

BTW, good luck with your date! ^^

Edited by Smekkie, Aug 24 2009, 10:44 AM.

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TeraHammer

Aug 24 2009, 11:00 AM Post #17

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Thx!

And she just sms'd me her number so I'm all happy now :-]

And lol you, don't make me fantasize about her having a penis

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Sahara

Aug 24 2009, 11:19 AM Post #18

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Wahoooo! Good luck!

Mhuahaha

Aug 24 2009, 01:03 PM Post #19

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There are so many variables in here, you shouldn't worry so much about it. It is a dating site after all.

(And I said this before but, the avarage hight of the dutch is 1,85m. And yeah, I am a relatively small dutchman.)

Don't ask....

I AM MERELY A FORUM ADMIN. I HAVE NO IN-GAME POWERS.

Brithor

Aug 24 2009, 02:21 PM Post #20

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TeraHammer
Aug 24 2009, 11:00 AM
Thx!

And she just sms'd me her number so I'm all happy now :-]

Happy marriage!

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