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Sex Before Marriage - Yes or No
Topic Started: Jan 29 2010, 12:42 PM (6,842 Views)
THEPUNK101
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Wanna debate in my topic zombies werewolves vampires other. My opinions abou that are much stronger but don't involve theology.
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Vassago
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May 14 2011, 01:32 AM
The whole common ground thing meant because my reason for believing sex before marriage is immoral is because God said so. If you believed in the God of the Bible then I would use his word to convince you. What I will say is a furfilled life is one that glorifies God not seeks selfish pleasure.
Okay, fine, i accept that.

My God told me that sex before marriage is just, sanctioned, and holy. My God tells me that seeking pleasure for the reason of seeking pleasure is the way of the righteous. What makes me wrong?

And yeah, if you take up an argument based upon whether people are going to have common ground with you on a subject or not, you're going to have a hard time in arguments. If people agree with you it's not really hard to win, ya know?
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THEPUNK101
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I'm a liberal i voted for Obama
Edited by THEPUNK101, Jun 27 2012, 08:44 PM.
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Alfeo Depogos
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Unfortunately I have no stake in this argument. I think it's pointless once it comes down to it. I am from a Christian home so I have common ground with you, however there are two things I think you'd have to answer. One is that depending on whether you believe in monogamy or polygamy. The Bible obviously supports polygamy and a concubine, which Abraham had, is not a wife therefore isn't that sex before marriage?

Another issue I'd like to point out is that I believe the 10 commandents state thou shalt not commit adultery and thou shalt not fornicate. Now clearly sex before marriage is not adultery so the only argument there is whether fornication and sex are the same thing. Personally, I'm a believer and I've had sex and no I'm not married. I feel as though other people have faced the same dilemma and come to the conclusion that there are many viewpoints; this would be one of those gray areas of the Bible. In my humble opinion.
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Tenken
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Hoennese and proud!

I voted yes for this simply because I am Tenken and I approve of sex in any way, shape or form.

:D
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THEPUNK101
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Edited by THEPUNK101, Aug 28 2011, 09:21 PM.
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I voted yes for this simply because I am Tenken and I approve of sex in any way, shape or form.

how do you feel about pedophile rapists? sorry had to ask
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I was talking to some random religious people the other day, and found something quite interesting. Apparently on the Vatican website there is a section on sin, and which ones are really bad etc. It said that if you're a mass murderer and you repent your sins then you are forgiven by god and all that jazz. Though what i found interesting, and it explains the reason for this anecdote, is that there was one sin apparently worse than murder etc that could never be forgiven. If you wanna know what this sin was, well look at the topic title.

Yes it was the one and only sex before marriage! Hurry.

So this revival of the thread has come at a great time since,although I believe in the sexy time before that old ball and chain , this little comment got me thinking!

I'm not the most religious person and so find it a bit silly that sex before marriage is thought as such a sin, i mean did god marry Jesus' mother before Jesus was made, I mean we all know where babies come from. Are you telling me that a couple who have been together for decades should go to help because they wanted to be 'one flesh' with the person they love without the pressure of marriage. And that couple that have been abstinate or whatever till they marry have more of a right to get some of the goodstuff even if the marriage was arranged, a marriage of opportunity or a doomed one, do they have more of a right than the other. I mean some people marry because of their religion and sex but isn't that abusing the 'morality' of marriage.

Plus didn't god give free will to all, why is such a strict rule put in place, Nevermind it being a control mechanism of the churches through fear. AnywAY I'm rambling and am on my phone so I will stop here. But yeah, go the sex before the marriage.
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Zeros
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Sex is never pointless, sex is beautiful, sex is exciting, sex is like the best thing in the entire world, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Thats why I make is a goal to have sex at least 5 times a week. Personally I think people who don't like sex or people who want to wait are just fucking stupid
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Tenken
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May 14 2011, 07:38 AM
I voted yes for this simply because I am Tenken and I approve of sex in any way, shape or form.

:D
Allow me to clarify my position:

I approve of all consenting sex between two adults in any way, shape or form.

Rape and paedophilia are never justified in any setting. Ever. People who do so need death in their faces.
Like right now.

And while I don't understand stuff like necrophilia or bestiliaty I'm not going to condemn it I'm just not going to personally go there ever.

>.<




As for the Bible (and I don't want to sound offensive so I'm going to word this as carefully as I treat all religious issues) but isn't the idea behind "no-sex-before-marriage" a human convention? I mean the Bible is written by man not God and man always has a way to put a spin on things for their own personal beliefs even if they don't mean it.
It's called uninhibited bias, and it happens with everyone. Literally.

Further, don't most Christians take the messages in the Bible as metaphorical rather than literal? Most of my Christian/Catholic friends do and they're all for sex before marriage; a few of them even [CENSORED].

Further, marriage isn't always religious (see that other topic) as it can be civil so if someone isn't religious or they just want to bone anyway then they should go for it.




EDIT: Also, not sure if I'm re-hashing what someone else said but aren't the commandments "thou shalt not commit adultery" and there's something about "thou shalt not fornicate"?
So by that token wouldn't protected sex (not fornication) before marriage (not adultery) be fine???
Edited by Tenken, May 15 2011, 11:31 PM.
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