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Gender Double Standard w/ Infidelity?
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Topic Started: Mar 29 2016, 02:07 PM (543 Views)
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Ronroyce
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Apr 5 2016, 01:17 PM
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In response, likely to the public backlash and her overflowing Instagram notifications, Kehlani, a new artist deleted her entire Instagram page, losing all of those followers. While she never addressed the picture directly, deleting an entire Instagram page, particularly as a new artist, is very close to an admission of guilt.
What happened afterward has been quite annoying. Men from all corners of the earth (read: young, Black men in America) have been blasting Kehlani and the rest of “these hoes” who don’t know how to handle or appreciate “a nice guy.” Not having the full story about the current status of the couple’s relationship, not knowing if Irving is indeed a “nice guy.” And what I find particularly irritating is that when male artists, entertainers and athletes cheat on their wives and girlfriends, there is no trending topic. Men don’t call these other men hoes. They don’t express their allegiance to the “good girl” who was hurt privately and publicly humiliated. Instead, men shrug their shoulders and offer explanations about biology, monogamy and access when you have money like these public figures. Hell, some of them might even celebrate the man for being “out here.”
The discussion about PartyNextDoor and his foul ways have yet to cross my path.
At the very end of the day, I feel sorry for Kehlani. Not because I’m excusing her infidelity; if that’s really what happened, but more so because I’m thinking about her career and her mental health. Having scads of angry, disconnected people from all over the internet trying to speak on your morals and character is enough to drive any sane person mad. Working on the internet, I know that feeling well. So even if she did make a mistake, I hope she has some positive and uplifting people in her corner who are keeping her off of social media and reminding her of all the good qualities she possesses. And I hope she’s truly internalizing that message.
But then there’s the career piece as well. No one, who is serious about their craft as an artist, wants scandal to be associated with their name before they’ve had a chance to prove themselves and blow up in the industry. But today, sadly, that’s the position in which Kehlani finds herself. Sadly, there will be tons of people who will hear about her for the very first time today, in relation to these allegations of cheating.
Hopefully, she can bounce back from all of this. Use this laser focus on her life either to her career advancement or to reconnect with the people who will continue to ride for her and her artistry. But in the meantime, the fellas out there, looking to throw the first stone, should back back.
http://madamenoire.com/622591/kehlani-ayesha-curry-and-the-double-standard-when-women-cheat/#disqus_thread
Here is where I see the double standard. How often do male celebrities find their cheating ways trending? How often do men put other men on blast like this? Cheating celebrity men are almost seen as acceptable, but this young woman was held to a higher standard. None of it has to do with any double standards.. It's because Men understand how it is to take a woman worth nothing and couple with her, so it's simply highlighted more... But amongts broke people, it's common place and accepted that the majority cheat.. Men and women and no one cares..
But men with Money that Wife broke women should get special passes and their women should get held to higher standards...
How often do women put other women on blast like this?
What about Heidi Klum when she cheated on that Black dude? It was seen as acceptable..
How many female celebrities do you know that were chastised?
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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Apr 5 2016, 01:33 PM
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In response, likely to the public backlash and her overflowing Instagram notifications, Kehlani, a new artist deleted her entire Instagram page, losing all of those followers. While she never addressed the picture directly, deleting an entire Instagram page, particularly as a new artist, is very close to an admission of guilt.
What happened afterward has been quite annoying. Men from all corners of the earth (read: young, Black men in America) have been blasting Kehlani and the rest of “these hoes” who don’t know how to handle or appreciate “a nice guy.” Not having the full story about the current status of the couple’s relationship, not knowing if Irving is indeed a “nice guy.” And what I find particularly irritating is that when male artists, entertainers and athletes cheat on their wives and girlfriends, there is no trending topic. Men don’t call these other men hoes. They don’t express their allegiance to the “good girl” who was hurt privately and publicly humiliated. Instead, men shrug their shoulders and offer explanations about biology, monogamy and access when you have money like these public figures. Hell, some of them might even celebrate the man for being “out here.”
The discussion about PartyNextDoor and his foul ways have yet to cross my path.
At the very end of the day, I feel sorry for Kehlani. Not because I’m excusing her infidelity; if that’s really what happened, but more so because I’m thinking about her career and her mental health. Having scads of angry, disconnected people from all over the internet trying to speak on your morals and character is enough to drive any sane person mad. Working on the internet, I know that feeling well. So even if she did make a mistake, I hope she has some positive and uplifting people in her corner who are keeping her off of social media and reminding her of all the good qualities she possesses. And I hope she’s truly internalizing that message.
But then there’s the career piece as well. No one, who is serious about their craft as an artist, wants scandal to be associated with their name before they’ve had a chance to prove themselves and blow up in the industry. But today, sadly, that’s the position in which Kehlani finds herself. Sadly, there will be tons of people who will hear about her for the very first time today, in relation to these allegations of cheating.
Hopefully, she can bounce back from all of this. Use this laser focus on her life either to her career advancement or to reconnect with the people who will continue to ride for her and her artistry. But in the meantime, the fellas out there, looking to throw the first stone, should back back.
http://madamenoire.com/622591/kehlani-ayesha-curry-and-the-double-standard-when-women-cheat/#disqus_thread
Here is where I see the double standard. How often do male celebrities find their cheating ways trending? How often do men put other men on blast like this? Cheating celebrity men are almost seen as acceptable, but this young woman was held to a higher standard.
None of it has to do with any double standards.. It's because Men understand how it is to take a woman worth nothing and couple with her, so it's simply highlighted more... But amongts broke people, it's common place and accepted that the majority cheat.. Men and women and no one cares.. But men with Money that Wife broke women should get special passes and their women should get held to higher standards... How often do women put other women on blast like this? What about Heidi Klum when she cheated on that Black dude? It was seen as acceptable.. How many female celebrities do you know that were chastised? I stand my by assessment.
I simply don't agree with your assessment.
I am totally fine if you don't agree with mine.
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Apr 5 2016, 08:48 PM
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In response, likely to the public backlash and her overflowing Instagram notifications, Kehlani, a new artist deleted her entire Instagram page, losing all of those followers. While she never addressed the picture directly, deleting an entire Instagram page, particularly as a new artist, is very close to an admission of guilt.
What happened afterward has been quite annoying. Men from all corners of the earth (read: young, Black men in America) have been blasting Kehlani and the rest of “these hoes” who don’t know how to handle or appreciate “a nice guy.” Not having the full story about the current status of the couple’s relationship, not knowing if Irving is indeed a “nice guy.” And what I find particularly irritating is that when male artists, entertainers and athletes cheat on their wives and girlfriends, there is no trending topic. Men don’t call these other men hoes. They don’t express their allegiance to the “good girl” who was hurt privately and publicly humiliated. Instead, men shrug their shoulders and offer explanations about biology, monogamy and access when you have money like these public figures. Hell, some of them might even celebrate the man for being “out here.”
The discussion about PartyNextDoor and his foul ways have yet to cross my path.
At the very end of the day, I feel sorry for Kehlani. Not because I’m excusing her infidelity; if that’s really what happened, but more so because I’m thinking about her career and her mental health. Having scads of angry, disconnected people from all over the internet trying to speak on your morals and character is enough to drive any sane person mad. Working on the internet, I know that feeling well. So even if she did make a mistake, I hope she has some positive and uplifting people in her corner who are keeping her off of social media and reminding her of all the good qualities she possesses. And I hope she’s truly internalizing that message.
But then there’s the career piece as well. No one, who is serious about their craft as an artist, wants scandal to be associated with their name before they’ve had a chance to prove themselves and blow up in the industry. But today, sadly, that’s the position in which Kehlani finds herself. Sadly, there will be tons of people who will hear about her for the very first time today, in relation to these allegations of cheating.
Hopefully, she can bounce back from all of this. Use this laser focus on her life either to her career advancement or to reconnect with the people who will continue to ride for her and her artistry. But in the meantime, the fellas out there, looking to throw the first stone, should back back.
http://madamenoire.com/622591/kehlani-ayesha-curry-and-the-double-standard-when-women-cheat/#disqus_thread
Here is where I see the double standard. How often do male celebrities find their cheating ways trending? How often do men put other men on blast like this? Cheating celebrity men are almost seen as acceptable, but this young woman was held to a higher standard.
None of it has to do with any double standards.. It's because Men understand how it is to take a woman worth nothing and couple with her, so it's simply highlighted more... But amongts broke people, it's common place and accepted that the majority cheat.. Men and women and no one cares.. But men with Money that Wife broke women should get special passes and their women should get held to higher standards... How often do women put other women on blast like this? What about Heidi Klum when she cheated on that Black dude? It was seen as acceptable.. How many female celebrities do you know that were chastised? Pretty much.
We especially saw it when the lightskinned Alicia Keyes recently stole another woman's husband...Alicia Keyes kept going after dude, until she finally convinced him to leave his darkskinned wife.
Of course, since his wife was darkskinned...then Alicia Keyes got praised and cheered on, by AmeriKKKa, for committing adultery and breaking up a married couple.
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Apr 7 2016, 07:15 AM
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Whats the double standard?
That women are more likely to take a cheating bum back, but men wil not?
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Apr 7 2016, 07:16 AM
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Cheating period is seen as acceptable these days. Its simply not a big deal anymore.
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Apr 7 2016, 09:19 AM
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Cheating period is seen as acceptable these days. Its simply not a big deal anymore. How do you know?
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Ronroyce
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Apr 7 2016, 11:17 AM
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In response, likely to the public backlash and her overflowing Instagram notifications, Kehlani, a new artist deleted her entire Instagram page, losing all of those followers. While she never addressed the picture directly, deleting an entire Instagram page, particularly as a new artist, is very close to an admission of guilt.
What happened afterward has been quite annoying. Men from all corners of the earth (read: young, Black men in America) have been blasting Kehlani and the rest of “these hoes” who don’t know how to handle or appreciate “a nice guy.” Not having the full story about the current status of the couple’s relationship, not knowing if Irving is indeed a “nice guy.” And what I find particularly irritating is that when male artists, entertainers and athletes cheat on their wives and girlfriends, there is no trending topic. Men don’t call these other men hoes. They don’t express their allegiance to the “good girl” who was hurt privately and publicly humiliated. Instead, men shrug their shoulders and offer explanations about biology, monogamy and access when you have money like these public figures. Hell, some of them might even celebrate the man for being “out here.”
The discussion about PartyNextDoor and his foul ways have yet to cross my path.
At the very end of the day, I feel sorry for Kehlani. Not because I’m excusing her infidelity; if that’s really what happened, but more so because I’m thinking about her career and her mental health. Having scads of angry, disconnected people from all over the internet trying to speak on your morals and character is enough to drive any sane person mad. Working on the internet, I know that feeling well. So even if she did make a mistake, I hope she has some positive and uplifting people in her corner who are keeping her off of social media and reminding her of all the good qualities she possesses. And I hope she’s truly internalizing that message.
But then there’s the career piece as well. No one, who is serious about their craft as an artist, wants scandal to be associated with their name before they’ve had a chance to prove themselves and blow up in the industry. But today, sadly, that’s the position in which Kehlani finds herself. Sadly, there will be tons of people who will hear about her for the very first time today, in relation to these allegations of cheating.
Hopefully, she can bounce back from all of this. Use this laser focus on her life either to her career advancement or to reconnect with the people who will continue to ride for her and her artistry. But in the meantime, the fellas out there, looking to throw the first stone, should back back.
http://madamenoire.com/622591/kehlani-ayesha-curry-and-the-double-standard-when-women-cheat/#disqus_thread
Here is where I see the double standard. How often do male celebrities find their cheating ways trending? How often do men put other men on blast like this? Cheating celebrity men are almost seen as acceptable, but this young woman was held to a higher standard.
None of it has to do with any double standards.. It's because Men understand how it is to take a woman worth nothing and couple with her, so it's simply highlighted more... But amongts broke people, it's common place and accepted that the majority cheat.. Men and women and no one cares.. But men with Money that Wife broke women should get special passes and their women should get held to higher standards... How often do women put other women on blast like this? What about Heidi Klum when she cheated on that Black dude? It was seen as acceptable.. How many female celebrities do you know that were chastised?
I stand my by assessment. I simply don't agree with your assessment. I am totally fine if you don't agree with mine. No doubt but I'm not simply saying I dont agree..
I'm saying exactly why..
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Apr 7 2016, 11:20 AM
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In response, likely to the public backlash and her overflowing Instagram notifications, Kehlani, a new artist deleted her entire Instagram page, losing all of those followers. While she never addressed the picture directly, deleting an entire Instagram page, particularly as a new artist, is very close to an admission of guilt.
What happened afterward has been quite annoying. Men from all corners of the earth (read: young, Black men in America) have been blasting Kehlani and the rest of “these hoes” who don’t know how to handle or appreciate “a nice guy.” Not having the full story about the current status of the couple’s relationship, not knowing if Irving is indeed a “nice guy.” And what I find particularly irritating is that when male artists, entertainers and athletes cheat on their wives and girlfriends, there is no trending topic. Men don’t call these other men hoes. They don’t express their allegiance to the “good girl” who was hurt privately and publicly humiliated. Instead, men shrug their shoulders and offer explanations about biology, monogamy and access when you have money like these public figures. Hell, some of them might even celebrate the man for being “out here.”
The discussion about PartyNextDoor and his foul ways have yet to cross my path.
At the very end of the day, I feel sorry for Kehlani. Not because I’m excusing her infidelity; if that’s really what happened, but more so because I’m thinking about her career and her mental health. Having scads of angry, disconnected people from all over the internet trying to speak on your morals and character is enough to drive any sane person mad. Working on the internet, I know that feeling well. So even if she did make a mistake, I hope she has some positive and uplifting people in her corner who are keeping her off of social media and reminding her of all the good qualities she possesses. And I hope she’s truly internalizing that message.
But then there’s the career piece as well. No one, who is serious about their craft as an artist, wants scandal to be associated with their name before they’ve had a chance to prove themselves and blow up in the industry. But today, sadly, that’s the position in which Kehlani finds herself. Sadly, there will be tons of people who will hear about her for the very first time today, in relation to these allegations of cheating.
Hopefully, she can bounce back from all of this. Use this laser focus on her life either to her career advancement or to reconnect with the people who will continue to ride for her and her artistry. But in the meantime, the fellas out there, looking to throw the first stone, should back back.
http://madamenoire.com/622591/kehlani-ayesha-curry-and-the-double-standard-when-women-cheat/#disqus_thread
Here is where I see the double standard. How often do male celebrities find their cheating ways trending? How often do men put other men on blast like this? Cheating celebrity men are almost seen as acceptable, but this young woman was held to a higher standard.
None of it has to do with any double standards.. It's because Men understand how it is to take a woman worth nothing and couple with her, so it's simply highlighted more... But amongts broke people, it's common place and accepted that the majority cheat.. Men and women and no one cares.. But men with Money that Wife broke women should get special passes and their women should get held to higher standards... How often do women put other women on blast like this? What about Heidi Klum when she cheated on that Black dude? It was seen as acceptable.. How many female celebrities do you know that were chastised?
Pretty much. We especially saw it when the lightskinned Alicia Keyes recently stole another woman's husband... Alicia Keyes kept going after dude, until she finally convinced him to leave his darkskinned wife.Of course, since his wife was darkskinned...then Alicia Keyes got praised and cheered on, by AmeriKKKa, for committing adultery and breaking up a married couple. Yea.. exactly...
I'm sure if we were to search and try to recall the number of female celebrities that cheated and caught no slack for it, we would far surpass males.
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Apr 7 2016, 03:24 PM
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Cheating period is seen as acceptable these days. Its simply not a big deal anymore.
How do you know? I know everything
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Apr 7 2016, 03:40 PM
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Cheating period is seen as acceptable these days. Its simply not a big deal anymore. I wouldn't go that far
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