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| Snidely Whiplash | Mar 21 2016, 01:29 AM Post #61 |
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Floored? Amusing  What's most interesting in not only this thread but in that similar thread you started is you've overlooked the obesity problem for black women. You instead shroud it with excuses, and for you it's about how women should not respond to men. Both sexes need each other and the attractiveness factor plays a huge role, not only for men and women but in other species of nature. Even if you you reject sex and the science from the cdc for example, observe anecdotally. Perhaps yourself included. In the meantime so many of these sistas experience joint problems, diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, etc from the ill effects of being fat and obese. But nah, they aint putting down dat bag o' Fritos cause they aint trying to look sexy for no man. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Mar 21 2016, 04:53 AM Post #62 |
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People's obesity is none of your business. And I already pointed out that since you're a reject, it doesn't matter whether anybody is obese or not. Either way, nobody is bothering with you. |
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| reddgirl64 | Mar 21 2016, 10:29 AM Post #63 |
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The narrative when it comes to 'black' men/women, is broken down like this.. Black men are criminals, black women are fat! Given the choice, you could lose weight, you can't come back from the dead  For me, my health, mental and physical, are both equally important. I, until I leave this earth, want a working, functioning mind. I want to be able to rationalize, decipher, eliminate, etc, things that affect my well being. For my physical health, I work on my internals, moreso, than my externals. Without a healthy heart, good lungs, joints that bend with ease, a healthy liver, etc..what's the use of my externals muscles, having a ripped look to it? Isn't that like dating a man with muscles in his face, but has the HIV virus, because he never focused on the inside of his body? Those that focus on what you look like, and we all do it, are somewhat shallow. I will not date a short man, however nor will I date a tall man, who hasn't seen his kids in a year. I set standards for myself, and apply them to my life. In doing this, I immediately eliminate all those, who aren't worthy. It really is, just that easy. Only a fool, wants someone else to look good, allthewhile, his stomach is carrying twins!! |
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| Rick1 | Mar 21 2016, 10:37 AM Post #64 |
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Now be honest, how fat are you?  As long as your ass is fat too, you're good.  And you don't know any male trainers. Edited by Rick1, Mar 21 2016, 11:07 AM.
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| cisslybee2012 | Mar 21 2016, 01:25 PM Post #65 |
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Exactly. But the inside is not on the radar with many. So a fool downplays what really matters for a shell and precisely how diseases spread for just one example. The guy whose handsome as hell, built, and rich, many women will leap at, but this bloke is loaded with AIDS and everything else in the book, or a damn sadist who likes to torture women. Well no thanks. They can have that mufucka.
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| Rick1 | Mar 21 2016, 02:41 PM Post #66 |
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Unfortunately, that don't find out until it's too late. 8 out 10 will take that chance. |
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Mar 22 2016, 11:40 AM Post #67 |
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I have seen this, too. I have seen married couples where one is a hard body while the other is not. Call it opposites attract, or simply everyone has their preferences. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Mar 22 2016, 11:52 AM Post #68 |
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Some men just like a real meaty woman. My dad was like that. |
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| Rick1 | Mar 22 2016, 11:53 AM Post #69 |
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Just say your mom was fat.
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| cisslybee2012 | Mar 22 2016, 11:55 AM Post #70 |
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And he went ballistic when she lost weight and got slender.
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