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Men, have we failed? At helping some women find their own confidence, in Life?
Topic Started: Dec 29 2015, 05:49 AM (653 Views)
negroplease

VoiceofReason
Dec 31 2015, 02:56 PM
cisslybee2012
Dec 31 2015, 02:53 PM
VoiceofReason
Dec 31 2015, 02:41 PM
Girl, please, Disagree? That's to deny that you're trying to impact your niece's self-esteem.
I'm not try to impact her self esteem.

I'm trying to help her to raise her self awareness level.

Which is an entirely different thing.

Sure thing, Ciss. As if the two are not related, as if you're not trying to save her from bad choices and the disappointment that ensues, which erodes self-esteem. Ok.
Right!
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negroplease
Dec 31 2015, 04:09 PM
Yoou can be strong and confident and have someone and circumstances break it down.
Yessssss.
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reddgirl64
Dec 31 2015, 12:59 PM
I don't give a fuk about your life...Stop telling me your story
Nope. That is not true.

You want to know my story, you need to know my story. Which is why you yourself made an off-topic claim here about my, kids, and you did so because you give a fuk 'bout my life. You are concerned. You always need to know what is going on in my private Life, yep, every since that dreadful day when you got so jealous of my honor-students;


you login here to brag about how you actually sat up for, 26 straight hours, stalking my 11-yr-old daughter's online profile.


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cisslybee2012
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VoiceofReason
Dec 31 2015, 04:13 PM
negroplease
Dec 31 2015, 04:09 PM
Yoou can be strong and confident and have someone and circumstances break it down.
Yessssss.
Please,

Explain how. :)

How can you be strong and confident and have someone or circumstances break it down?
Edited by cisslybee2012, Dec 31 2015, 08:47 PM.
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cisslybee2012
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negroplease
Dec 31 2015, 04:04 PM
Dont ever complain about anyone holding you down then


Its called SELF EFFICACY and you should believe you have the power to accomplish things with outside forces like "the man" holding you back then
Excellent point.
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cisslybee2012
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negroplease
Dec 31 2015, 04:06 PM
Some of you are the same ones who claim girls need fathers in their lives to boost their confidence and show them how to be treated.

How do you live with such contradiction ?
How do they live with such contradiction?

That's a good question Shutup, and the answer is: Easy.

Because they have women supporting them when they're wrong. Women who think that the only way to be close with men is support the way their mind and emotions work. So women can argue with and question their contradiction all day long. It don't mean anything, because guys know that women are gonna support their contradiction and overall wrongness regardless. Which is precisely what they go by. In fact, most men innately know that it takes contradiction and wrongness to get and hold a woman's attention and support.

Men in fact write books telling guys how to do this. :D
Edited by cisslybee2012, Dec 31 2015, 09:05 PM.
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cisslybee2012
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negroplease
Dec 31 2015, 04:09 PM
Yoou can be strong and confident and have someone and circumstances break it down.
Please,

Explain how. :)
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negroplease
Dec 31 2015, 04:04 PM
Dont ever complain about anyone holding you down then


Its called SELF EFFICACY and you should believe you have the power to accomplish things with outside forces like "the man" holding you back then
This is exactly White-racist's gibberish which you hath brought here, from stormfront.org, for example the SELF EFFICACY you ignore within those nine (9) darkskinned-NI99ERS executed in that Charleston S.C. church earlier this year? Yes, they were independent hardworking strong-willed people who loved their darkskinned-Black heritage. Yet Dylann Roof visiting their church to haunt them, that night, is proof of the White man holding them down.

Your SELF EFFICACY rant did mean, nothing, when Darren Wilson rode down on Michael Brown to be the White man who held him back.

Your SELF EFFICACY rant did mean, nothing, when Caucasoid Harvard scholar Jennifer Hoshchilds did that study proving darkskinned-Blacks are the most subjugated group of people in America thanks to "the man" holding us back.

Your SELF EFFICACY rant did mean, nothing, when CLE cops rode down on Tamir Rice to be "the man" who held him back.

Your SELF EFFICACY rant did mean, nothing, when CHI cops rode down on Laquan McDonald.

Your SELF EFFICACY rant did mean, nothing, when CHI cops were the White men who held back a 55-yr-old grandmother when they murdered her--- as she stood behind a closed door harming no one.
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negroplease

Explaining things to you has proven to be useless.

But ive said already that when you constantly hear negative things they can begin to affect you.

And they way you feel.about yourself is fluid. At any moment it can change.
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cisslybee2012
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Jan 1 2016, 03:30 AM
SELF EFFICACY
Ken derails and deflects every truth he sees and hears.

Keeping himself down.

And then blames what he does to himself on white men and black women. :D
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