Men, have we failed? At helping some women find their own confidence, in Life?

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Men, have we failed? At helping some women find their own confidence, in Life?
Topic Started: Dec 29 2015, 05:49 AM (655 Views)
VoiceofReason	Dec 31 2015, 02:36 PM Post #21
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	reddgirl64 Dec 31 2015, 12:11 PM VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 12:01 PM Fucked-up men attack women - calling them profane, foul, and vulgar names, hoping a woman will become as fucked-up as he is. Are you ok this lovely morning? Language, young lady, language... Hee Hee. I'm good! Fucked up was the best term I could think of! ...I may be feeling a little tired today. 😜



VoiceofReason	Dec 31 2015, 02:37 PM Post #22
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	Rick1 Dec 31 2015, 12:18 PM VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 12:02 PM Rick1 Dec 31 2015, 09:31 AM negroplease Dec 31 2015, 09:01 AM Rick1 Dec 31 2015, 08:50 AM negroplease Dec 31 2015, 08:43 AM While its not a man's job to give women confidence, many men certainly have torn women down and helped their self esteem suffer. Stop lying! Where is the lie? "man men certainly have torn women down and helped their self esteem suffer". IT'S CALLED SELF ESTEEM As a social creature, all humans impact each others "self esteem". Well let's just call it "esteem". I don't allow people to fuck up my "esteem". Shall we send a memo to the rest of the population as to your declaration?



VoiceofReason	Dec 31 2015, 02:39 PM Post #23
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	kennyinbmore Dec 31 2015, 02:18 PM I only date strong confident women from the get go. 🏋🏽 + 🤓 * 👙 = 😎 Like attracts like, Kenny. Edited by VoiceofReason, Dec 31 2015, 02:40 PM.



cisslybee2012	Dec 31 2015, 02:40 PM Post #24
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 12:02 PM As a social creature, all humans impact each others "self esteem". I disagree with this. Because if your self esteem can be impacted by another person, then you don't really have any real self esteem. With most people, vanity and egotism is misconstrued as confidence and self esteem. Which isn't real but only a pseudo confidence and self esteem because it can be shattered in a split second. Like you take the average man for instance... As long as he's young, he's all ego, with an I don't have time for you disposition. So he hits and runs on everybody. But then when he gets old and is no longer visually appealing, he now becomes humble and acts glad to get with anybody who'll bother with him. It's not because he matured and calmed down, but because he no longer has anything to back up the way he was, and he still want to be sexually active. He was never confident or had any real self esteem to begin with. It was only pseudo the whole time. And now in his old age he uses fake maturity to get by in a steady relationship, which is really him clinging on to sex. And younger women are still falling for that. The absolute oldest trick in the book. That dirty fake old folgey shouldn't be getting shit unless he's stark rich and parting with that money. It's not hard to see why men don't want women to be aware.



VoiceofReason	Dec 31 2015, 02:41 PM Post #25
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	cisslybee2012 Dec 31 2015, 02:40 PM VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 12:02 PM As a social creature, all humans impact each others "self esteem". I disagree with this. Because if your self esteem can be impacted by another person, then you don't really have any real self esteem. With most people, vanity and egotism is misconstrued as confidence and self esteem. Which isn't real but only a pseudo confidence and self esteem because it can be shattered in a split second. Like you take the average man for instance... As long as he's young, he's all ego, with an I don't have time for you disposition. So he hits and runs on everybody. But then when he gets old and is no longer visually appealing, he now becomes humble and acts glad to get with anybody who'll bother with him. It's not because he matured and calmed down, but because he no longer has anything to back up the way he was, and he still want to be sexually active. He was never confident or had any real self esteem to begin with. It was only pseudo the whole time. And now in his old age he uses fake maturity to get by in a steady relationship, which is really him clinging on to sex. And younger women are still falling for that. The absolute oldest trick in the book. That dirty fake old folgey shouldn't be getting shit unless he's stark rich and parting with that money. It's not hard to see why men don't want women to be aware. Girl, please, Disagree? That's to deny that you're trying to impact your niece's self-esteem.



cisslybee2012	Dec 31 2015, 02:53 PM Post #26
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 02:41 PM Girl, please, Disagree? That's to deny that you're trying to impact your niece's self-esteem. I'm not trying to impact her self esteem. I'm trying to help her to raise her self awareness level. Which is an entirely different thing. Edited by cisslybee2012, Dec 31 2015, 02:56 PM.



VoiceofReason	Dec 31 2015, 02:56 PM Post #27
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	cisslybee2012 Dec 31 2015, 02:53 PM VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 02:41 PM Girl, please, Disagree? That's to deny that you're trying to impact your niece's self-esteem. I'm not try to impact her self esteem. I'm trying to help her to raise her self awareness level. Which is an entirely different thing. Sure thing, Ciss. As if the two are not related, as if you're not trying to save her from bad choices and the disappointment that ensues, which erodes self-esteem. Ok.



cisslybee2012	Dec 31 2015, 02:59 PM Post #28
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	VoiceofReason Dec 31 2015, 02:56 PM Sure thing, Ciss. As if the two are not related, as if you're not trying to save her from bad choices and the disappointment that ensues, which erodes self-esteem. Ok. I can't save her from anything. All I can do is try to help her to raise her self awareness level. As for bad choices, we all make them. So making a bad choice doesn't erode self esteem. It's a learning tool.



Rick1	Dec 31 2015, 03:04 PM Post #29
Posts: 16,099 Group: Members Member #186 Joined: Dec 7, 2009	cisslybee2012 Dec 31 2015, 02:18 PM Rick1 Dec 31 2015, 09:31 AM IT'S CALLED SELF ESTEEM What's called self esteem? SELF ESTEEM



cisslybee2012	Dec 31 2015, 03:04 PM Post #30
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Rick1 Dec 31 2015, 03:04 PM cisslybee2012 Dec 31 2015, 02:18 PM Rick1 Dec 31 2015, 09:31 AM IT'S CALLED SELF ESTEEM What's called self esteem? SELF ESTEEM



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