Why do we say women "nag" but men "request"?

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Why do we say women "nag" but men "request"?
Topic Started: Sep 8 2015, 04:23 PM (2,201 Views)
Rick1	Sep 9 2015, 03:01 PM Post #41
Posts: 16,099 Group: Members Member #186 Joined: Dec 7, 2009	No need to go now. I just do it anyways. Like Monday night, I will be at the Falcons vs Eagles football game. When I want to do me, I'm doing me.



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 03:03 PM Post #42
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	reddgirl64 Sep 9 2015, 02:58 PM Ether Sep 9 2015, 02:12 PM Nagging to me always having something to complain about, never pleased and nothing is ever good enough. Nagging to me focusing on small issues and making the shit bigger than what it really is. Holding grudges and being overall petty. Ether, give examples so we can all be on the same page. I am proactive, so is my hubby. We both work, so the household needs to be maintained, so we hired a housekeeper. No need to bicker over who should be doing it, get it done. If my car is acting up, I take it to the shop. He might say, wait, I cold have fixed that, I say too late, got it taken care of. I'm not a clinging person, so I need examples of what you consider nagging. Ok.. Examples of nagging. Which alot stem from insecurities. Complaining about how much time is spent at work. Complaining about something you asked to be done but wasn't done when YOU needed it to. (something petty like going to the store) Complaining about spending (if it isn't breaking the family and it isnt your money it shouldn't matter) Complaining about a woman on social media Complaining about what you do on social media (liking a picture) Complaining about looking at a woman (men get nagged for this more than woman do yet we are human if someone is attractive it's OK to look don't act. But don't stare and be disrespectful)



cisslybee2012	Sep 9 2015, 07:33 PM Post #43
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	reddgirl64 Sep 9 2015, 12:53 PM The mere fact, that you consider this a battle is telling. Thank you. There's nothing in this thread that says battle. But to most men, Any unsavory truth mentioned about male behavior from women is a battle to them.



cisslybee2012	Sep 9 2015, 08:01 PM Post #44
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Ether Sep 9 2015, 02:24 PM It usually is more women that do it. No way. Men are thrice the naggers as women. I picked up on that back in the day with the first guy I was with. I swear, the only time he wasn't nagging and bitching was when he was sleep. And even then, he was the lightest sleeper I ever seen in my life. In the wee morning hours when I went to go the bathroom, as soon as I put one foot on the floor, he woke up frantically saying: "Where you going?" And I've seen plenty of other guys like that. They're usually the conceited, stuck up, and domineering types. The ones with an elitist attitude and think they're more special than anyone else. No degree of women's nagging can compete with that of these types of guys. The comparison is like a race between a tortoise and a hare.



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 08:04 PM Post #45
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	cisslybee2012 Sep 9 2015, 08:01 PM Ether Sep 9 2015, 02:24 PM It usually is more women that do it. No way. Men are thrice the naggers as women. I picked up on that back in the day with the first guy I was with. I swear, the only time he wasn't nagging and bitching was when he was sleep. And even then, he was the lightest sleeper I ever seen in my life. In the wee morning hours when I went to go the bathroom, as soon as I put one foot on the floor, he woke up frantically saying: "Where you going?" And I've seen plenty of other guys like that. They're usually the conceited, stuck up, and domineering types. The ones with an elitist attitude and think they're more special than anyone else. No degree of women's nagging can compete with that of these types of guys. The comparison is like a race between a tortoise and a hare. Men are thrice the naggers cause you hate them and wish them to be to push your agenda. Women ask where men are going to so yea...



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 08:09 PM Post #46
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	I'll apologize for my earlier statement uncalled for. We all have opinions



cisslybee2012	Sep 9 2015, 08:28 PM Post #47
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Ether Sep 9 2015, 03:03 PM Ok.. Examples of nagging. Which alot stem from insecurities. Complaining about how much time is spent at work. Complaining about something you asked to be done but wasn't done when YOU needed it to. (something petty like going to the store) Complaining about spending (if it isn't breaking the family and it isnt your money it shouldn't matter) Complaining about a woman on social media Complaining about what you do on social media (liking a picture) Complaining about looking at a woman (men get nagged for this more than woman do yet we are human if someone is attractive it's OK to look don't act. But don't stare and be disrespectful) When men nag, it's always from insecurities. But with women it's different. They typically nag men for not being what they think a man should be. Women who do this don't realize it, but they expect a man to function as a parental figure. Leading and knowing what to do about anything, establishing some rules, nurturing, being attentive, and protective. Which they don't realize is the role of the mother. And when they see their man not fitting this imaginary image, they lose it and nag the man to no end. The man in question is usually a very swell fella and in her corner. There as a partner to help her. But she don't feel right with a partner when she desires parental guidance, so she blasts off like a bomb at him left and right because she has to use her own mind and think. Her nagging isn't about insecurity.



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 10:52 PM Post #48
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	cisslybee2012 Sep 9 2015, 08:28 PM Ether Sep 9 2015, 03:03 PM Ok.. Examples of nagging. Which alot stem from insecurities. Complaining about how much time is spent at work. Complaining about something you asked to be done but wasn't done when YOU needed it to. (something petty like going to the store) Complaining about spending (if it isn't breaking the family and it isnt your money it shouldn't matter) Complaining about a woman on social media Complaining about what you do on social media (liking a picture) Complaining about looking at a woman (men get nagged for this more than woman do yet we are human if someone is attractive it's OK to look don't act. But don't stare and be disrespectful) When men nag, it's always from insecurities. But with women it's different. They typically nag men for not being what they think a man should be. Women who do this don't realize it, but they expect a man to function as a parental figure. Leading and knowing what to do about anything, establishing some rules, nurturing, being attentive, and protective. Which they don't realize is the role of the mother. And when they see their man not fitting this imaginary image, they lose it and nag the man to no end. The man in question is usually a very swell fella and in her corner. There as a partner to help her. But she don't feel right with a partner when she desires parental guidance, so she blasts off like a bomb at him left and right because she has to use her own mind and think. Her nagging isn't about insecurity. When Anybody nags about anything like "Where are you going" "Who are you going with" That's insecurities. Enough of your bullshit though pinning it on just men. When men do its insecurities and when women do it it's because it's the mans fault for not being what she wants. Get that trash out of here. You always put every thing on the men and women are so disney innocent they can't be at fault for anything. If a woman nags about where a man is going she is insecure or with a man she can't trust and same goes for men. The femnist bullshit and blame all on men gets old, and you are to old for that



Snidely Whiplash	Sep 10 2015, 02:02 AM Post #49
Posts: 15,290 Group: Members Member #1,630 Joined: Jul 23, 2012	kennyinbmore Sep 9 2015, 08:02 AM Snidely Whiplash Sep 9 2015, 01:51 AM After nearly 2 pages of women complaining, only 1 man responded in all that. To answer the question in the title of the thread...'nuff said! Wouldn't it have been a lesson in futility if the men had responded? True. Sounds like a man familiar with being nagged



Snidely Whiplash	Sep 10 2015, 02:09 AM Post #50
Posts: 15,290 Group: Members Member #1,630 Joined: Jul 23, 2012	reddgirl64 Sep 9 2015, 01:22 PM If someone has to tell you to keep your kitchen clean, you're not only lazy, but messy and nasty. Lazy... Message received



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