Why do we say women "nag" but men "request"?

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Why do we say women "nag" but men "request"?
Topic Started: Sep 8 2015, 04:23 PM (2,202 Views)
reddgirl64	Sep 9 2015, 01:58 PM Post #31
Posts: 10,087 Group: Members Member #284 Joined: Dec 16, 2009	Rick1 Sep 9 2015, 01:26 PM reddgirl64 Sep 9 2015, 01:22 PM Rick1 Sep 9 2015, 01:07 PM reddgirl64 Sep 9 2015, 11:16 AM kennyinbmore Sep 9 2015, 08:02 AM Snidely Whiplash Sep 9 2015, 01:51 AM After nearly 2 pages of women complaining, only 1 man responded in all that. To answer the question in the title of the thread...'nuff said! Wouldn't it have been a lesson in futility if the men had responded? Your silence, or lack of response, says, that you are men, who use the nag word, and didn't want to be exposed. However, it's good to see, that you men agree, that 'nag' is a lazy man's word. I wonder if these lazy men, would say, their kids nag them, to providing food, clothes, shoes, etc.. I use the word "nag" and I'm not lazy. If the shoe fits, the woman should wear it. Just look at some of the women that are on prime time TV every night and the drama they carry. Don't tell me any man in a relationship with these women don't deserve the right to use that word. Women on television should not be the model you use, they are there for entertainment. Consider what your wife is asking you to do, is it not part of your responsibility also, to get those things done? That's all this is saying. If someone has to tell you to keep your kitchen clean, you're not only lazy, but messy and nasty. An adult should be responsible enough to know, to do things. We tell children to do chores, should not be telling adults. When most men use the word, I guarantee it's not because she asked him to complete a chore. Then share, what made you call your wife a nag? I've never been called a nag. I would never be with a man, I would have to ask or constantly tell to do something. So what do you consider a nag?



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 02:12 PM Post #32
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	Nagging to me always having something to complain about, never pleased and nothing is ever good enough. Nagging to me focusing on small issues and making the shit bigger than what it really is. Holding grudges and being overall petty.



Rick1	Sep 9 2015, 02:13 PM Post #33
Posts: 16,099 Group: Members Member #186 Joined: Dec 7, 2009	I believe in doing things together as well as doing things with the guys or girls, even by yourself. Don't be nagging, whining and complaining when the comes to go. If you don't take advantage of your allotted free time, don't expect me to give up mines. "Why do you have to go to the sports bar to watch the game" "Do you really need to buy that" "Don't be hanging around them bitches"



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 02:24 PM Post #34
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	Rick1 Sep 9 2015, 02:13 PM I believe in doing things together as well as doing things with the guys or girls, even by yourself. Don't be nagging, whining and complaining when the comes to go. If you don't take advantage of your allotted free time, don't expect me to give up mines. "Why do you have to go to the sports bar to watch the game" "Do you really need to buy that" "Don't be hanging around them bitches" While I feel both men and women nag. It usually is more women that do it. But then you gotta ask yourself why is the woman nagging? Is it because the man is a dog and she can't trust the fucker? Is she needy? Is she controlling?



VoiceofReason	Sep 9 2015, 02:24 PM Post #35
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	Rick1 Sep 9 2015, 02:13 PM I believe in doing things together as well as doing things with the guys or girls, even by yourself. Don't be nagging, whining and complaining when the comes to go. If you don't take advantage of your allotted free time, don't expect me to give up mines. "Why do you have to go to the sports bar to watch the game" "Do you really need to buy that" "Don't be hanging around them bitches" Ugh. Yeah, those comments are no bueno.



VoiceofReason	Sep 9 2015, 02:24 PM Post #36
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	Ether Sep 9 2015, 02:12 PM Nagging to me always having something to complain about, never pleased and nothing is ever good enough. Nagging to me focusing on small issues and making the shit bigger than what it really is. Holding grudges and being overall petty. Sounds like what Rick said would be good examples of that.



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 02:45 PM Post #37
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	VoiceofReason Sep 9 2015, 02:24 PM Ether Sep 9 2015, 02:12 PM Nagging to me always having something to complain about, never pleased and nothing is ever good enough. Nagging to me focusing on small issues and making the shit bigger than what it really is. Holding grudges and being overall petty. Sounds like what Rick said would be good examples of that. Right but you get men too who nag woken for shit like sex and how she isn't giving it to them. As if she is required to because they are together. You get men who nag about what the woman wears outside the home.



Ether	Sep 9 2015, 02:46 PM Post #38
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	Shit, look at what's posted here. Men who nag about a woman being at home and what she needs to do while he is away and what should be done when he gets home



reddgirl64	Sep 9 2015, 02:47 PM Post #39
Posts: 10,087 Group: Members Member #284 Joined: Dec 16, 2009	Rick1 Sep 9 2015, 02:13 PM I believe in doing things together as well as doing things with the guys or girls, even by yourself. Don't be nagging, whining and complaining when the comes to go. If you don't take advantage of your allotted free time, don't expect me to give up mines. "Why do you have to go to the sports bar to watch the game" "Do you really need to buy that" "Don't be hanging around them bitches" Rick, Those questions, have a core, from which they come. The sports bar, spending, dem bitches, seems to me, she's somewhat insecure. I'm like you, I don't cater to insecurities. I was speaking more on the household side of things. I agree, we all need space for self, and our friends, outside of our spouses. Those are signs of insecurity, to me. GET OUT NOW...



reddgirl64	Sep 9 2015, 02:58 PM Post #40
Posts: 10,087 Group: Members Member #284 Joined: Dec 16, 2009	Ether Sep 9 2015, 02:12 PM Nagging to me always having something to complain about, never pleased and nothing is ever good enough. Nagging to me focusing on small issues and making the shit bigger than what it really is. Holding grudges and being overall petty. Ether, give examples so we can all be on the same page. I am proactive, so is my hubby. We both work, so the household needs to be maintained, so we hired a housekeeper. No need to bicker over who should be doing it, get it done. If my car is acting up, I take it to the shop. He might say, wait, I cold have fixed that, I say too late, got it taken care of. I'm not a clinging person, so I need examples of what you consider nagging.



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