| Why do we say women "nag" but men "request"? | |
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| Topic Started: Sep 8 2015, 04:23 PM (2,204 Views) | |
| cisslybee2012 | Sep 8 2015, 04:53 PM Post #11 |
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Not only that, but a bugged out man to boot!  All the crazy bugged out shit men do in the house that drives women crazy. I mean, really crazy inconceivable shit that you gotta see done to believe. Like with my nephew, whose 25 years old. He grabbed a mop to wipe up a spill he made on the kitchen counter! Now what woman wouldn't go ballistic over that? |
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| reddgirl64 | Sep 8 2015, 04:56 PM Post #12 |
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It's not like a woman is asking him to clear 'her' home, or do chores around 'her' house, or help with 'her' kids, it's his home/kids also. If he not invested in doing the work in his home, you have a lazy man! And they are just not worth it! My brother in law, keeps his car clean, because he loves that car. Ask him to clean the toilet he uses, he says, stop nagging me, hoping she'll get tired, and do it herself. As stated, it's a lazy person's word. |
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| reddgirl64 | Sep 8 2015, 05:03 PM Post #13 |
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A germ invested mop, to use on the kitchen counter? I would nag his ass, all the way back to his mom's house, and make someone pay, for new counter tops. Now that's some lazy stuff, Cis... |
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| VoiceofReason | Sep 8 2015, 06:11 PM Post #14 |
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Some people do nag, though. And Ciss, you're right, it's just as likely to be a man as it is to be a woman. I know a couple who are nags. But it's not that she tells everyone what to do but she tells people HOW to do whatever they are doing. It's nerve-wrecking. And her husband is the same way but for him, he will tell you how he'd do it, then leave you to it. And after you've done it, he will redo it. They seem to thrive on the noise and the bickering. I guess they're meant for each other. When I'm a guest at their house, it's rough. 
Edited by VoiceofReason, Sep 8 2015, 06:19 PM.
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| cisslybee2012 | Sep 8 2015, 06:22 PM Post #15 |
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Well there's no denying my nephew being lazy. But that shit was plain bugged out. Ever since that day, he's not allowed to fuck around in my kitchen.
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| VoiceofReason | Sep 8 2015, 06:28 PM Post #16 |
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Yeah, that's nasty. My son used a kitchen towel once to clean something that spilled on the floor. I had him mop the kitchen and do the laundry (so he could wash that towel). Now he grabs a damp paper towel. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Sep 8 2015, 06:54 PM Post #17 |
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I can imagine. Though the thing about complainers about nagging, they never see themselves as naggers. Either they're real lazy and crazy types like Ms. Reddi and I pointed out, or they're nag hags themselves. Either way, They never mention their part in anything. But in my opinion, women need to do more speaking out about male craziness than they normally do. Not just in relationship experiences but period. Women need to speak out about the crazy way men are. Stop biting our tongue about it. Most men are out of their damn mind, profoundly detached from reality in a domestic sense, and there's no reason women should be clams about it. Like for another example... Did I tell y'all about that time with a former super of my building? He came in one day to fix a leak in the kitchen sink. I was cooking at the time. And I swear.... He almost drove me completely out of my mind. That mufucka tossed my mop over my fucking pots on the stove! Now he found it hanging on a hook and instead of putting it back where he found it, he tossed the shit mop side up over my fucking stove! I came out the room and saw the fucking mop dangling over my food and I went BALLISTIC! I started screaming like crazy! Ah man.... I was so furious I was actually trembling and almost blacked out. I couldn't believe what he did. If I was holding a loaded pistol, it's possible I would have pulled the fucking trigger and emptied the gun in that mufucka. And he went running out of the apartment. I'm sorry mommy! He said. Now you see, when a man does something outrageous to drive a woman into hysteria, he'll go around complaining about women nagging, but never mentions what he does to trigger it. Now my question is this... What is it with guys and mops? They can't seem to figure out how to handle it properly. One mops the fucking counter top with it and another tosses it over a stove. WTF?  In fact, You know what Truthie? I'm gonna put out an E-book on that subject. Geared at women, about the crazy shit men do in the household and why they need to face it and stop being clams about it. I'm a think up a title and do a book cover for it tonight.
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| U Thant | Sep 8 2015, 10:18 PM Post #18 |
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this will not get your husband to stop ignoring you, at home |
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| cisslybee2012 | Sep 9 2015, 12:36 AM Post #19 |
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Why do think her husband is ignoring her? |
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| Snidely Whiplash | Sep 9 2015, 01:51 AM Post #20 |
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After nearly 2 pages of women complaining, only 1 man responded in all that. To answer the question in the title of the thread...'nuff said! 
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