| You left the Abuser, Now What? | |
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| Topic Started: Aug 16 2015, 03:04 PM (567 Views) | |
| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 16 2015, 03:04 PM Post #1 |
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http://news.yahoo.com/high-housing-costs-raise-obstacle-women-fleeing-abuse-154131703.html |
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| U Thant | Aug 16 2015, 04:03 PM Post #2 |
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*waits for elements of traditional Doc Cop, mantra, to feature a darkskinned-Black male as abuser* |
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| cisslybee2012 | Aug 16 2015, 04:13 PM Post #3 |
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The REBEL
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Here's the real side of the story not being told... Firstly, girls are not taught anything about life, that they cannot establish a real life through a man. That she has to have a real life with herself before a man can join her. Not actually looking for life to begin starting from a man, and a real connection with a man cannot begin with sexual intercourse. No one teaches girls this. Then with homelessness, this occurs more from carelessness in paying bills than anything else. The majority of people in NY who become homeless did so in refusing to pay their rent. And of this lot, it's most often drugs that they're spending their rent money on. In NYC, the rents are high but everyone can be housed. Though for the better and more decent and stylish housing, a waiting list is required. This isn't new but the way of life in NYC. Now many people who have acquired such a nice residence for themselves, thru a long awaiting list, have turned around and carelessly lost it to refusal to pay their rent and get high with the money instead. In fact, many homeless people on the street and in shelters are not truly homeless because they have family who will take them in. But many amongst this lot prefer to live without rules. And they will be obliged to live in your house but will object to not being able to do as they please in it. Which leads to their welcome being worn out rather quickly and they living in a shelter or on the street. That they rather have that way then live by any rules. It's in fact a very exciting life for them to collect monies from people passing by, as they know that sympathy alone gets them more money in a week than the average person working 40 hours a week. And finally, That women work the domestic violence protection system which bumps this segment up in priority on the housing waiting list, and the minute they move into their new pad, brings in the same guy on record for abusing them in with them. Now imagine that. This segment has a priority for receipt of help, when in actuality, they're putting the abused and the abuser in priority for coverage. Which is literally coddling domestic violence and protecting it like a little baby in priority to realer emergencies. These reports and stories only give a tear jerking account of conditions and never ever the bald faced truth about it. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Aug 16 2015, 04:57 PM Post #4 |
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The REBEL
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A major fact of life is that the weak spoils everything for the strong. The weak almost always comes first, and they who are the least concerned for value of anything they receive. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Aug 16 2015, 05:12 PM Post #5 |
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The REBEL
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And as far as relationships go, The simple fact of the matter is that most women have it real hard with men. Real hard. It doesn't matter what race or ethnic group she belongs to. As for instance, I got a friend, a white German woman who lives in the Bronx, about a half mile or so away from me. She's married to a Hispanic guy and they got two boys together. Now my friend is a good mother and keeps an immaculate home. She got their apartment fly as fuck. Almost as fly as mine. She's a really together sister, and strictly on the productive and positive. But her husband is quite a different story. Man, This mufucka goes out and don't come back for days, is stupid as hell and can't tell when a man is sniffing his wife's ass, and automatically assumes that only black men want to get next to his wife and gotta be watched. This guy is a dick head to put as nicely as possible, and my friend is unhappy with him and I don't blame her. He's a fucking idiot. All she talks about is leaving him. Edited by cisslybee2012, Aug 16 2015, 06:19 PM.
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 16 2015, 05:14 PM Post #6 |
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One reason chicks don't find you appealing is because you spend way too much time being preoccupied with the activities of other men. It is never a good thing for a woman to "wait" for a man to make a move before reacting. You should follow that same mantra. |
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 16 2015, 05:19 PM Post #7 |
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You do have those that unfortunately buck the system. |
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 16 2015, 05:21 PM Post #8 |
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Those that don't earn rewards the right way rarely do. |
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 16 2015, 05:23 PM Post #9 |
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The article, & the example of your friend makes it clear that women really need to plan an exist strategy if their funds/resources are limited, and the easy solution does not involve moving in with extended family. |
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 16 2015, 05:25 PM Post #10 |
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My sister-in-law's cousin told me before she got married she was going to keep her own separate bank account just for herself. She did that just in case things did not work out with her mate. Smart move, I say. |
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