Your Body: Fighting Fair in Relationships

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Your Body: Fighting Fair in Relationships
Topic Started: Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM (1,136 Views)
Backbone	Aug 19 2015, 12:15 PM Post #51
Posts: 582 Group: Members Member #1,675 Joined: Sep 10, 2012	cisslybee2012 Aug 19 2015, 10:26 AM VoiceofReason Aug 19 2015, 01:46 AM cisslybee2012 Aug 18 2015, 05:09 PM For anything, Hand holding while arguing makes it's almost no contest for the female to surrender in favor of the male's idea, want, or decision. So I say hell no to the hand holding. There's no need to argue simply because there's disagreement. A calm discussion can reap better rewards. So, take your partners hand in yours, look into their eyes, take a deep breath and say.... Nothing. Shut up and listen. That likely isn't happening once the argument is underway. And then too, what the argument is about has to be considered. The point being made here is, it's more important to find a solution to our disagrement than allow oursleves to be consumed in an agrument. Edited by Backbone, Aug 19 2015, 12:16 PM.



cisslybee2012	Aug 19 2015, 01:06 PM Post #52
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Backbone Aug 19 2015, 12:15 PM cisslybee2012 Aug 19 2015, 10:26 AM VoiceofReason Aug 19 2015, 01:46 AM cisslybee2012 Aug 18 2015, 05:09 PM For anything, Hand holding while arguing makes it's almost no contest for the female to surrender in favor of the male's idea, want, or decision. So I say hell no to the hand holding. There's no need to argue simply because there's disagreement. A calm discussion can reap better rewards. So, take your partners hand in yours, look into their eyes, take a deep breath and say.... Nothing. Shut up and listen. That likely isn't happening once the argument is underway. And then too, what the argument is about has to be considered. The point being made here is, it's more important to find a solution to our disagrement than allow oursleves to be consumed in an agrument. The point being made is STFU man!



VoiceofReason	Aug 19 2015, 01:11 PM Post #53
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	Quote: The point being made here is, it's more important to find a solution to our disagrement than allow oursleves to be consumed in an agrument. You are a wise guy. Edited by VoiceofReason, Aug 19 2015, 01:12 PM.



reddgirl64	Aug 19 2015, 01:23 PM Post #54
Posts: 10,087 Group: Members Member #284 Joined: Dec 16, 2009	VoiceofReason Aug 19 2015, 01:43 AM The human touch is very powerful. It may not be for everyone. But I think if you're not so wrapped up in trying to be right, but you really just want to "talk about it", touch helps to recall the bond a couple has. Backbone is right. When the relationship is solid and healthy, the hand you hold holds only love for you. Over time, you do learn that a hug, a stare, a smile, will diffuse most situations. I now know, my hubby's movements. When he's agitated, bored, itchy.. I've learned how to respond to his 'actions' and either support, or let him know, rethink that idea!



VoiceofReason	Aug 19 2015, 01:32 PM Post #55
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	Quote: Over time, you do learn that a hug, a stare, a smile, will diffuse most situations. I now know, my hubby's movements. When he's agitated, bored, itchy.. I've learned how to respond to his 'actions' and either support, or let him know, rethink that idea! Yup. Then you can do your magic. I don't even know if my husband realizes he calms right down if I lay my hand on his. I call it "[my name] magic." It's really just the power of the human touch. Or eye contact, and the other things you mentioned, Redd. Edited by VoiceofReason, Aug 19 2015, 01:35 PM.



Doctor Magnus Warlock	Aug 20 2015, 10:14 AM Post #56
Posts: 28,451 Group: Members Member #716 Joined: Dec 9, 2010	Redd & VoR, You are both Goddesses. It is natural for men to enter a calm state when you grace them with affection.



U Thant	Aug 20 2015, 10:24 AM Post #57
Posts: 27,225 Group: Members Member #2,279 Joined: Mar 30, 2014	You meant, it is natural for racist cops to enter a calm state...when women who hate darkskinned-Blacks come grace you with their affection.



Doctor Magnus Warlock	Aug 20 2015, 10:38 AM Post #58
Posts: 28,451 Group: Members Member #716 Joined: Dec 9, 2010	Ethos Logos Pathos Aug 20 2015, 10:24 AM You meant, it is natural for racist cops to enter a calm state...when women who hate darkskinned-Blacks come grace you with their affection. Women far & wide love my thrice-blessed, chocolate coated skin.



Moon Pie	Aug 20 2015, 12:57 PM Post #59
Posts: 869 Group: Members Member #2,273 Joined: Mar 27, 2014	VoiceofReason Aug 19 2015, 01:43 AM The human touch is very powerful. It may not be for everyone. But I think if you're not so wrapped up in trying to be right, but you really just want to "talk about it", touch helps to recall the bond a couple has. Backbone is right. When the relationship is solid and healthy, the hand you hold holds only love for you. Why you are arguing is important before trying to touch though! The majority of the time, arguments seem to be misunderstandings. So touching can be a good thing.



reddgirl64	Aug 20 2015, 01:35 PM Post #60
Posts: 10,087 Group: Members Member #284 Joined: Dec 16, 2009	Doctor Saul Santiago Aug 20 2015, 10:38 AM Ethos Logos Pathos Aug 20 2015, 10:24 AM You meant, it is natural for racist cops to enter a calm state...when women who hate darkskinned-Blacks come grace you with their affection. Women far & wide love my thrice-blessed, chocolate coated skin. Fuk'n A.. Word!!! Right on, brother!



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