| Your Body: Fighting Fair in Relationships | |
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| Topic Started: Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM (1,137 Views) | |
| cisslybee2012 | Aug 18 2015, 05:09 PM Post #41 |
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For anything, Hand holding while arguing makes it's almost no contest for the female to surrender in favor of the male's idea, want, or decision. So I say hell no to the hand holding. 
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| beserker | Aug 18 2015, 05:09 PM Post #42 |
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... presumption is like a hypothesis people can argue about..not a big deal ... truth is like a fact..... no room for argument{argument here is like disobeying law of nature} ps: switching hypothesis to a truth usually starts shit u encouraged moon -pie to go for fact and consciously cross out the husbands presumption hence fire starter label .... diablo  |
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| beserker | Aug 18 2015, 05:15 PM Post #43 |
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..more like tired of the `lawyer" bs....` gotta have answer for every shit" translate cut the bs and become invisible |
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| cisslybee2012 | Aug 18 2015, 05:21 PM Post #44 |
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That's your problem right there man. So a woman is not supposed to presume that a woman is right when it comes to a man? LMFAO! Man, I'll presume lightening quick that the woman is right and her man is wrong.
Edited by cisslybee2012, Aug 18 2015, 05:23 PM.
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 18 2015, 05:21 PM Post #45 |
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Felicia & I don't always come to an accord during disputes. Rather than continue going back & forth, we just agree to disagree, and move on. |
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| Backbone | Aug 18 2015, 10:05 PM Post #46 |
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Personally I think holding hands is a good idea, it helps to diffuse an intense moment. Couple conflict is going to happen. even for the most in loved couples. In fact, I think it's healthy to have disagreements every now and then. What I found to work is to look at her opinion from her perspective. Get away from the "I'm right and she's wrong" stance. I could care less as to who's right or wrong, I just want what's best . I'm a big boy, my ego will survive. After all, I'm confident she wouldn't do anything to harm me or anyone I care for. Edited by Backbone, Aug 19 2015, 05:02 PM.
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| VoiceofReason | Aug 19 2015, 01:43 AM Post #47 |
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The human touch is very powerful. It may not be for everyone. But I think if you're not so wrapped up in trying to be right, but you really just want to "talk about it", touch helps to recall the bond a couple has. Backbone is right. When the relationship is solid and healthy, the hand you hold holds only love for you. |
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| VoiceofReason | Aug 19 2015, 01:46 AM Post #48 |
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There's no need to argue simply because there's disagreement. A calm discussion can reap better rewards. So, take your partners hand in yours, look into their eyes, take a deep breath and say.... Nothing. Shut up and listen. 
Edited by VoiceofReason, Aug 19 2015, 01:49 AM.
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| cisslybee2012 | Aug 19 2015, 10:26 AM Post #49 |
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That likely isn't happening once the argument is underway. And then too, what the argument is about has to be considered.
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | Aug 19 2015, 10:30 AM Post #50 |
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That really does help diffuse many situations. I listen more than what I used, and it works. |
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