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Your Body: Fighting Fair in Relationships
http://abcnewsradioonline.com/health-news/your-body-fighting-fair-in-relationships.html

By DR. JENNIFER ASHTON, ABC News Senior Medical Contributor

Is your relationship turning into a battleground?

Fighting in relationships is normal, but arguments shouldn’t feel like World War III. There is a way for it to be healthy and not a hassle.

Here are some ways to fight fair:

Go to bed angry. I know the old saying advises against this but giving yourself some time to cool off can ensure that what you say, you mean.

This is the hard one: Own up to your fault. Doing this shows your partner empathy which can help make the fight more effective.

Find the humor or just touch each other. Sometimes it helps just to reconnect through laughter or touch.

If you try these things, it can help you smooth things over with your partner without that much stress, and this can make for a much more peaceful union.
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How do you fight with your partner? B-)
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cisslybee2012
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Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM
Fighting in relationships is normal,
Misconception # 1

Fighting in relationships isn't normal, because in order for that to be true then fighting every place else is also normal. The wars going on everywhere are normal. Just because conflict is all most people know doesn't make fighting normal. It's copping out of life, refusing to acknowledge something higher in life than disharmony. That there's a whole different side to life that's harmonious. A side that's not open to conflict. People cop out of that and establish fighting as normal, which is saying, I'm not reaching for my higher self and this is how my life is going to be.

Well as long as people keep taking their stand on that, the world will remain in conflict.

Edited by cisslybee2012, Aug 14 2015, 01:08 PM.
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Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:04 PM
How do you fight with your partner? B-)
..all sensory isolation..... ascend into zen plane

then
... descend when coast clear
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cisslybee2012
Aug 14 2015, 01:04 PM
Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM
Fighting in relationships is normal,
Misconception # 1

Fighting in relationships isn't normal, because in order for that to be true then fighting every place else is also normal. The wars going on everywhere are normal. Just because conflict is all most people know doesn't make fighting normal. It's copping out of life, refusing to acknowledge something higher in life than disharmony. That's a whole different side to life that's harmonious. People cop out of that and establish fighting as normal, which is saying, I'm not reaching for my higher self and this is how my life is going to be.

Well as long as people keep taking their stand on that, the world will remain in conflict.

....says who?

an expert in relationship with her clone ?


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cisslybee2012
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Aug 14 2015, 01:09 PM
cisslybee2012
Aug 14 2015, 01:04 PM
Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM
Fighting in relationships is normal,
Misconception # 1

Fighting in relationships isn't normal, because in order for that to be true then fighting every place else is also normal. The wars going on everywhere are normal. Just because conflict is all most people know doesn't make fighting normal. It's copping out of life, refusing to acknowledge something higher in life than disharmony. That's a whole different side to life that's harmonious. People cop out of that and establish fighting as normal, which is saying, I'm not reaching for my higher self and this is how my life is going to be.

Well as long as people keep taking their stand on that, the world will remain in conflict.

....says who?

an expert in relationship with her clone ?


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LOL! :D

You loony mufuckas busy complaining about drama, and then turn around and say fighting is normal. :D

Fucking whack jobs. :D

LMFAO! :D
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cisslybee2012
Aug 14 2015, 04:00 PM
beserker
Aug 14 2015, 01:09 PM
cisslybee2012
Aug 14 2015, 01:04 PM
Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM
Fighting in relationships is normal,
Misconception # 1

Fighting in relationships isn't normal, because in order for that to be true then fighting every place else is also normal. The wars going on everywhere are normal. Just because conflict is all most people know doesn't make fighting normal. It's copping out of life, refusing to acknowledge something higher in life than disharmony. That's a whole different side to life that's harmonious. People cop out of that and establish fighting as normal, which is saying, I'm not reaching for my higher self and this is how my life is going to be.

Well as long as people keep taking their stand on that, the world will remain in conflict.

....says who?

an expert in relationship with her clone ?


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LOL! :D

You loony mufuckas busy complaining about drama, and then turn around and say fighting is normal. :D

Fucking whack jobs. :D

LMFAO! :D
...the difference is that:

i know , and allow for less evolved homo-sapiens that waste their time rehashing repetitively going back and forth over expected human disagreement/discourse ,
which should be expected since cloning of homo-sapiens is illegal



ps:

pssst..

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dolly aint only sheepish but was cloned too :)
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cisslybee2012
Aug 14 2015, 01:04 PM
Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:01 PM
Fighting in relationships is normal,
Misconception # 1

Fighting in relationships isn't normal, because in order for that to be true then fighting every place else is also normal. The wars going on everywhere are normal. Just because conflict is all most people know doesn't make fighting normal. It's copping out of life, refusing to acknowledge something higher in life than disharmony. That there's a whole different side to life that's harmonious. A side that's not open to conflict. People cop out of that and establish fighting as normal, which is saying, I'm not reaching for my higher self and this is how my life is going to be.

Well as long as people keep taking their stand on that, the world will remain in conflict.

I agree that the fighting is a choice.

People can disagree and have differences of opinions but to fight, verbally abuse, physically abuse, etc... isn't appropriate!
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Aug 14 2015, 01:04 PM
Moon Pie
Aug 14 2015, 12:04 PM
How do you fight with your partner? B-)
..all sensory isolation..... ascend into zen plane

then
... descend when coast clear
ALL sensory? :O

I don't fight. I eat my favorite candy bar hidden in a secret stash.
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cisslybee2012
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Aug 14 2015, 04:26 PM
...the difference is that:
You're a fucking mechanical wind up toy to your lower animal nature. :)

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And refuse to face and admit that about yourself. :)

So you object to being in that condition by yourself without women to join you, and double standard your way through life.
:D
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