Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 10:48 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:37 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 10:25 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:15 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 9 2015, 06:30 PM

One of the more amusing things I have uncovered is how many white men who mostly date Asian women view white women.

Some of the reasons white men give for not dating white women include:

- WW are too bossy.

- WW are not as feminine, and seem to take on more masculine traits.

- WW don't take care of themselves physically.

- WW don't place any emphasis on making WM happy.

- WW put their men down in public.


Some of these comments almost mirror word for word what many black men who pursue interracial relationships say about black women.

Ironically enough, black men who do pursue interracial relationships do so with white women.

Some of the reasons many WM give for dating Asian women mirror the reasons many black men give for dating white women.

Fascinating stuff, for sure.

You simply have to understand women and you will know that These Men's experiences are real to them..

Why? Because WOMEN, when they like you, when they want to be with you, they do stuff to please you..

That same WW that was
-Bossy, Not Feminine, Taking on Masculine traits, not taking of themselves physically, not putting an emphasis on making WM happy, Putting down WM in public

Can be a doll, feminine, take care of her, make her man happy If she were to turn around and Date a black man that she likes...


Thus rendering Both Men's experiences to actually be true..



Same with a Black Woman that's disagreeable, hostile, non-cooperative, lets her body go around Black men or when dating Black men...

But the moment some White Dude may express interest in her, She Does a complete turn around... U suddenly see her at the gym, she's conscious of what she puts in her body, she becomes a sweetheart, etc..

Black Men can complain about that particular BW, whilst White Men will think they have struck gold..


Both realities can and does exist, depending on the woman and what she likes...

Something is wrong when you need to put down a whole group to justify dating another.

Something is wrong when you use a handful of bad experiences to paint an entire group.

Something is wrong when you fell the need to rationalize your dating preferences.

People see what they want to see when viewing the world through bigoted lenses.

All I am saying is that people's experiences or reasons given may be as real to them as the computer, phone they are typing on..

Whether people not in their shoes acknowledge the validity of their experiences or not...


I am not for rationalizing, bad mouthing in order to date other groups, But if someone attempted to use a handful of experiences to DETERMINE why a man is dating a certain woman (like that woman that says that Black Men fetishize white women), Gave a man slack for why they are dating a particular woman, Attack that man's dating preferences, attempted to attack that relationship or their relationship preferences or see that man's relationship through bigoted eyes,

I would see it as perfectly justifiable if they did the "wrong" things you listed in order to attack back..

If you like someone, then you like someone.

Date who you want, when you want.

You don't need to explain why to anyone.

When you feel the need to explain by using unfair generalizations a group you refuse to date, and over generalizing members of a group you are dating, then it is natural someone will look at you with suspicion.

Many Asian women feel that white guys are pursuing them not based on their content of their character, but the color of their skin, and the sexual stereotypes associated with their culture.

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 11:01 AM

And I dont have the stats in front of me... Asian women/White Men union are their most numerous...

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:56 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 10:48 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:37 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 10:25 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:15 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 9 2015, 06:30 PM

One of the more amusing things I have uncovered is how many white men who mostly date Asian women view white women.

Some of the reasons white men give for not dating white women include:

- WW are too bossy.

- WW are not as feminine, and seem to take on more masculine traits.

- WW don't take care of themselves physically.

- WW don't place any emphasis on making WM happy.

- WW put their men down in public.


Some of these comments almost mirror word for word what many black men who pursue interracial relationships say about black women.

Ironically enough, black men who do pursue interracial relationships do so with white women.

Some of the reasons many WM give for dating Asian women mirror the reasons many black men give for dating white women.

Fascinating stuff, for sure.

You simply have to understand women and you will know that These Men's experiences are real to them..

Why? Because WOMEN, when they like you, when they want to be with you, they do stuff to please you..

That same WW that was
-Bossy, Not Feminine, Taking on Masculine traits, not taking of themselves physically, not putting an emphasis on making WM happy, Putting down WM in public

Can be a doll, feminine, take care of her, make her man happy If she were to turn around and Date a black man that she likes...


Thus rendering Both Men's experiences to actually be true..



Same with a Black Woman that's disagreeable, hostile, non-cooperative, lets her body go around Black men or when dating Black men...

But the moment some White Dude may express interest in her, She Does a complete turn around... U suddenly see her at the gym, she's conscious of what she puts in her body, she becomes a sweetheart, etc..

Black Men can complain about that particular BW, whilst White Men will think they have struck gold..


Both realities can and does exist, depending on the woman and what she likes...

Something is wrong when you need to put down a whole group to justify dating another.

Something is wrong when you use a handful of bad experiences to paint an entire group.

Something is wrong when you fell the need to rationalize your dating preferences.

People see what they want to see when viewing the world through bigoted lenses.

All I am saying is that people's experiences or reasons given may be as real to them as the computer, phone they are typing on..

Whether people not in their shoes acknowledge the validity of their experiences or not...


I am not for rationalizing, bad mouthing in order to date other groups, But if someone attempted to use a handful of experiences to DETERMINE why a man is dating a certain woman (like that woman that says that Black Men fetishize white women), Gave a man slack for why they are dating a particular woman, Attack that man's dating preferences, attempted to attack that relationship or their relationship preferences or see that man's relationship through bigoted eyes,

I would see it as perfectly justifiable if they did the "wrong" things you listed in order to attack back..

If you like someone, then you like someone.

Date who you want, when you want.

You don't need to explain why to anyone.

When you feel the need to explain by using unfair generalizations a group you refuse to date, and over generalizing members of a group you are dating, then it is natural someone will look at you with suspicion.

Many Asian women feel that white guys are pursuing them not based on their content of their character, but the color of their skin, and the sexual stereotypes associated with their culture.

No no. it's easy to tell someone to remain graceful and above the fracas and non-sense when u are not the one whose relationship is being poked fun of or that somehow, it's not real love but a fetish.. A "Fever"

So of course the people on the outside think it's no big deal if they make a forum and call it a "FEVER"

by using the experiences of a few disingenuous people to paint an entire group to validate their assumption or position..


But I'm sure they are those who would be highly insulted by such a forum and forum title and I would not blame them for speaking out, rationalizing, or whatever else you may deem wrong..

Ethos Logos Pathos

Aug 21 2015, 11:03 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 11:01 AM

And I dont have the stats in front of me... Asian women/White Men union are their most numerous...

feel free...to check my posts, I've laid out the proof 3-4 times over the past 2 years

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 11:01 AM

And I dont have the stats in front of me... But these Asian women love white men too... It's not some one way street thing... There's a reason when White Men date IR, that Asian women/White Men union are their most numerous...

lol. in short, it makes it seem like asian women are somehow frustrated at white men "fetishizing" them but they are more than willing to get into unions with these white dudes..


Just like Black Women make websites, shows, movies, documentaries, groups, meetups proclaiming their love for white men and their "strong" desire to be with white men..

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 11:18 AM

In regards to your comments about black women with white men, I posted previously that the rationalizations used to justify IR dating are the same, and only varies with the particular coupling.

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Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 11:18 AM

In regards to your comments about black women with white men, I posted previously that the rationalizations used to justify IR dating are the same, and only varies with the particular coupling.

this is horseshyt...which is no surprise, since you seldom ever tell the truth about anything.

It is a fact our nation features multitudes of Black women now, publicly, tearing down Black men----as a means for allowing them to get closer to White men/get rewarded by White men.

Whereas, you seldom ever hear of Asian women attacking Asian men---as a means to cozy up to White men.

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 11:14 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:56 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 10:48 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:37 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 21 2015, 10:25 AM

Ronroyce

Aug 21 2015, 10:15 AM

Doctor Saul Santiago

Aug 9 2015, 06:30 PM

One of the more amusing things I have uncovered is how many white men who mostly date Asian women view white women.

Some of the reasons white men give for not dating white women include:

- WW are too bossy.

- WW are not as feminine, and seem to take on more masculine traits.

- WW don't take care of themselves physically.

- WW don't place any emphasis on making WM happy.

- WW put their men down in public.


Some of these comments almost mirror word for word what many black men who pursue interracial relationships say about black women.

Ironically enough, black men who do pursue interracial relationships do so with white women.

Some of the reasons many WM give for dating Asian women mirror the reasons many black men give for dating white women.

Fascinating stuff, for sure.

You simply have to understand women and you will know that These Men's experiences are real to them..

Why? Because WOMEN, when they like you, when they want to be with you, they do stuff to please you..

That same WW that was
-Bossy, Not Feminine, Taking on Masculine traits, not taking of themselves physically, not putting an emphasis on making WM happy, Putting down WM in public

Can be a doll, feminine, take care of her, make her man happy If she were to turn around and Date a black man that she likes...


Thus rendering Both Men's experiences to actually be true..



Same with a Black Woman that's disagreeable, hostile, non-cooperative, lets her body go around Black men or when dating Black men...

But the moment some White Dude may express interest in her, She Does a complete turn around... U suddenly see her at the gym, she's conscious of what she puts in her body, she becomes a sweetheart, etc..

Black Men can complain about that particular BW, whilst White Men will think they have struck gold..


Both realities can and does exist, depending on the woman and what she likes...

Something is wrong when you need to put down a whole group to justify dating another.

Something is wrong when you use a handful of bad experiences to paint an entire group.

Something is wrong when you fell the need to rationalize your dating preferences.

People see what they want to see when viewing the world through bigoted lenses.

All I am saying is that people's experiences or reasons given may be as real to them as the computer, phone they are typing on..

Whether people not in their shoes acknowledge the validity of their experiences or not...


I am not for rationalizing, bad mouthing in order to date other groups, But if someone attempted to use a handful of experiences to DETERMINE why a man is dating a certain woman (like that woman that says that Black Men fetishize white women), Gave a man slack for why they are dating a particular woman, Attack that man's dating preferences, attempted to attack that relationship or their relationship preferences or see that man's relationship through bigoted eyes,

I would see it as perfectly justifiable if they did the "wrong" things you listed in order to attack back..

If you like someone, then you like someone.

Date who you want, when you want.

You don't need to explain why to anyone.

When you feel the need to explain by using unfair generalizations a group you refuse to date, and over generalizing members of a group you are dating, then it is natural someone will look at you with suspicion.

Many Asian women feel that white guys are pursuing them not based on their content of their character, but the color of their skin, and the sexual stereotypes associated with their culture.

No no. it's easy to tell someone to remain graceful and above the fracas and non-sense when u are not the one whose relationship is being poked fun of or that somehow, it's not real love but a fetish.. A "Fever"

So of course the people on the outside think it's no big deal if they make a forum and call it a "FEVER"

by using the experiences of a few disingenuous people to paint an entire group to validate their assumption or position..


But I'm sure they are those who would be highly insulted by such a forum and forum title and I would not blame them for speaking out, rationalizing, or whatever else you may deem wrong..

You should never allow anyone to define your relationship with someone.

That should be between the couple.

Legit or not, someone will always have an opinion of you.

Folks are voluntarily posting why they date a certain way.

Once you do that, you open yourself for scrutiny.