cisslybee2012

Aug 17 2015, 10:35 AM

Ether

Aug 17 2015, 10:23 AM

Bootyhead?
Raccoons?
Crackhead?
Drug addict?

Who uses those terms at men? You do....

I never called anybody a raccoon or crackhead.

Now the terms booty head and drug addict is accurate to those who the labels apply. A drug addict who pompously defends their use of is silly to be sensitive over being called what they are.

That's like a black person saying: Don't call me black.

Ether

Aug 17 2015, 10:34 AM

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I feel that not all women who define themselves as feminist really are.

Yet you dont feel someone can call themselves problack.
Not all feminist really are. They can be extremist. Just like religous nuts and radical racist fighters. Its not unheard of.

Ether

Aug 17 2015, 10:41 AM

Yes you did.

Brother racoons? I think that was term used.
You accuse people of doing drugs you have called damien a crackhead (However, damien is a terrible example)
Alcoholic, you have called me that numerous times.

negroplease

Aug 17 2015, 10:41 AM

But did you not read where i one admitted my own colorist issues that i am activey trying to change


And 2. Where i said several times in here if he continued to insult my lookss i would insult his.


Like its of course hypocrisy. We all have our own issues.

But deflecting against the real issue is not helping at all.

Moving the goalpost. I spoke about how whack it
Is to call women exotic because its usually just a fetishization of non black women. Because again yall aint calling big lipped and big nosed Africans exotic, when exotic means from another country.

And somehow it was conflated with feminism and how feminism didnt do shit.

I give facts about what feminists are doing and point out my own learning and errors ive made with colorism and you teyto point them out like i didnt already bring it up.



I just wanna know still how the hell feminism correlated with my comments about calling wen exotic.

Lol
Lol.

Im still not actively going around calling

Ether

Aug 17 2015, 10:37 AM

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"You big and bad online"

Now, I've stood up to several men on this site, the ones who think, just because they talk bold, women are suppose to cower and hide, because we should not be talking back to men.

Lol you need to quote my entire post, not cherry pick and dissect. I said you were strong and intelligent and I didnt believe you were afraid of men. Nice twist there. I gave you many compliments as about your independence, what you teach your child. And there was no way someone like you was afraid of men. You can scratch that deceit there.

Dont know how you think im racist, or you calling me that because of what I said about you and black men. Fair enough ill let you take your revenge shots.

Colorism I am not.


Sure, ill say im sexist TO YOU! But im pretty sure a sexist wouldnt alot of the things that I actually do in real life and what I do here.

cisslybee2012

Aug 17 2015, 10:43 AM

Ether

Aug 17 2015, 10:41 AM

Yes you did.

Brother racoons? I think that was term used.
You accuse people of doing drugs you have called damien a crackhead (However, damien is a terrible example)
Alcoholic, you have called me that numerous times.

Oh... Brother Raccoons.

And I never called you an alcoholic.

Why you twisting and making shit up?

What's wrong with you?

reddgirl64

Aug 17 2015, 10:46 AM

Ether

Aug 17 2015, 10:37 AM

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"You big and bad online"

Now, I've stood up to several men on this site, the ones who think, just because they talk bold, women are suppose to cower and hide, because we should not be talking back to men.

Lol you need to quote my entire post, not cherry pick and dissect. I said you were strong and intelligent and I didnt believe you were afraid of men. Nice twist there. I gave you many compliments as about your independence, what you teach your child. And there was no way someone like you was afraid of men. You can scratch that deceit there.

Dont know how you think im racist, or you calling me that because of what I said about you and black men. Fair enough ill let you take your revenge shots.

Colorism I am not.


Sure, ill say im sexist TO YOU! But im pretty sure a sexist wouldnt alot of the things that I actually do in real life and what I do here.

You made the statement, I don't have to pick and chose, which sentences I want to post.

Well, unlike you, I'm me all the time, whether I'm online or not. Be either a man, who stands up for equality, all the time.

I don't know what that statement about revenge means, that is unless you've done something, I might need to avenge you for?

Guilty of something?

You're proving my statement about black men to be correct. Look at your defense mechanism's? Attacking SUA, just because she posted something. Bringing up words Cis uses to attempt to make what you do, acceptable.

Now stating that you said I was trying to be 'big/bad" is taken out of context.

You're fighting like a 'girl'..

reddgirl64

Aug 17 2015, 10:33 AM

negroplease

Aug 17 2015, 10:09 AM

Colorism is a real issue. Some people are colorist and dont even realize it. I cant blame you. The conditioning is real. I used to be that way because my parents taught me that light skin was better.

But i came to my own personal awareness of it and actively work to change it.

I used to be the same way with the LGBT community and anyone who wasnt the same religion as me as well.

But i became a freethinker and i learned.

Im sorry if reality hurt your feels but it be like that sometimes.


It still was not a feminist issue.

Ahhhhhh Monday's..

My young sister, whether you accept it or not, I'm very proud of you.

Ether's is attempting to 'subject' you to his description of what feminism is, and he's to blind to see, that is sexist. He, like most black men, say they like feminist, however, only on issues, they deem worthwhile.

Here, take this statement, Ether made to me.

"You big and bad online"

Now, I've stood up to several men on this site, the ones who think, just because they talk bold, women are suppose to cower and hide, because we should not be talking back to men.

Ether said, you think you big/bad online? To say, how dare I stand up to a man, and speak to him that way? Don't I know, my place?

He's too ingrained in his sexist mind, to even admit, he's sexist's, and colorist, and racist.

Most black men, are always crying about what the cops are doing to black men, however none are speaking on the domestic abuse black men, doing to black women.

It's that victim syndrome. It's ok if I abuse, however, I will scream like a 'girl' if someone abuses me!

Little do they know, we're fighting back, they are still crying.

Stand your ground!