Marriage is in decline in America

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Marriage is in decline in America
Topic Started: Jul 17 2015, 01:41 AM (2,361 Views)
Ether	Sep 6 2015, 10:17 PM Post #81
Posts: 10,299 Group: Members Member #1,844 Joined: Jan 29, 2013	Sooooooooo no verse saying she worships Satan if she doesn't sit at home and work for a husband like it's her boss? Good to know



VoiceofReason	Sep 7 2015, 12:50 AM Post #82
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	I see Ether is holding it down! 😊



kennyinbmore	Sep 7 2015, 06:58 PM Post #83
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	Plus 1 Sep 6 2015, 06:05 PM Ether & BGF, I see both sides of this discussion. A woman home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true for some women. For others staying home to care for the kids & home is pure hell. It depends on the woman's personality. Ether mentions her marketing skills being compromised if she's not working and there is wisdom & truth in there. A housewife can continue to take online classes, volunteer in various organizations or attend a vocational school while raising the children to keep her skills sharp. Financially it's been shown that a working mother can cost the family more than if she stayed home. However, it requires her to cook the meals at home and not eat out, to be frugal with spending on herself (hair, nails, clothes, etc...) and learning to take care of household & yard chores herself instead of hiring the job out. This is a unique family situation for individual family units. What works for one unit might not work for the other. Incredibly intelligent and fair comment



cisslybee2012	Sep 18 2015, 12:19 AM Post #84
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	kennyinbmore Sep 7 2015, 06:58 PM Plus 1 Sep 6 2015, 06:05 PM Ether & BGF, I see both sides of this discussion. A woman home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true for some women. For others staying home to care for the kids & home is pure hell. It depends on the woman's personality. Ether mentions her marketing skills being compromised if she's not working and there is wisdom & truth in there. A housewife can continue to take online classes, volunteer in various organizations or attend a vocational school while raising the children to keep her skills sharp. Financially it's been shown that a working mother can cost the family more than if she stayed home. However, it requires her to cook the meals at home and not eat out, to be frugal with spending on herself (hair, nails, clothes, etc...) and learning to take care of household & yard chores herself instead of hiring the job out. This is a unique family situation for individual family units. What works for one unit might not work for the other. Incredibly intelligent and fair comment A woman at home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true, Is incredibly intelligent and fair? That's the blind side of a child's mind. What sense does it make to take care of the house when the house is a thing and not a living being, and feel that taking care of the the kids is pure hell? What's intelligent or fair about that? Come on, that's the whole shipwreck of human living. Base our pride in and take care of inanimate objects but have no affinity with our children. Dealing with them is pure hell. And where does the common idea of the father being the primary caretaker come in? He's the primary caretaker how? And then people wonder why marriage is in decline. The shipwrecked lives people live leaves marriage no place else to go. Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 18 2015, 12:35 AM.



kennyinbmore	Sep 18 2015, 05:20 PM Post #85
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	cisslybee2012 Sep 18 2015, 12:19 AM kennyinbmore Sep 7 2015, 06:58 PM Plus 1 Sep 6 2015, 06:05 PM Ether & BGF, I see both sides of this discussion. A woman home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true for some women. For others staying home to care for the kids & home is pure hell. It depends on the woman's personality. Ether mentions her marketing skills being compromised if she's not working and there is wisdom & truth in there. A housewife can continue to take online classes, volunteer in various organizations or attend a vocational school while raising the children to keep her skills sharp. Financially it's been shown that a working mother can cost the family more than if she stayed home. However, it requires her to cook the meals at home and not eat out, to be frugal with spending on herself (hair, nails, clothes, etc...) and learning to take care of household & yard chores herself instead of hiring the job out. This is a unique family situation for individual family units. What works for one unit might not work for the other. Incredibly intelligent and fair comment A woman at home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true, Is incredibly intelligent and fair? Ciss I won't bother linking you to studies that prove this because you'll just dismiss them. But it's a fact that it's better situation for a child to have a stay at home mom in their formative years. Oh and I didn't say anything about a dream come true, but it is for some women. Some women prefer to be stay at home moms when it's feasable. Edited by kennyinbmore, Sep 18 2015, 05:20 PM.



cisslybee2012	Sep 18 2015, 05:23 PM Post #86
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	kennyinbmore Sep 18 2015, 05:20 PM cisslybee2012 Sep 18 2015, 12:19 AM kennyinbmore Sep 7 2015, 06:58 PM Plus 1 Sep 6 2015, 06:05 PM Ether & BGF, I see both sides of this discussion. A woman home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true for some women. For others staying home to care for the kids & home is pure hell. It depends on the woman's personality. Ether mentions her marketing skills being compromised if she's not working and there is wisdom & truth in there. A housewife can continue to take online classes, volunteer in various organizations or attend a vocational school while raising the children to keep her skills sharp. Financially it's been shown that a working mother can cost the family more than if she stayed home. However, it requires her to cook the meals at home and not eat out, to be frugal with spending on herself (hair, nails, clothes, etc...) and learning to take care of household & yard chores herself instead of hiring the job out. This is a unique family situation for individual family units. What works for one unit might not work for the other. Incredibly intelligent and fair comment A woman at home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true, Is incredibly intelligent and fair? Ciss I won't bother linking you to studies that prove this because you'll just dismiss them. But it's a fact that it's better situation for a child to have a stay at home mom in their formative years. Oh and I didn't say anything about a dream come true, but it is for some women. Some women prefer to be stay at home moms when it's feasable. Did you really totally miss my point? Or are you being sarcastic just because I said something to you? Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 18 2015, 05:26 PM.



cisslybee2012	Sep 18 2015, 05:34 PM Post #87
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	kennyinbmore Sep 18 2015, 05:20 PM it's a fact that it's better situation for a child to have a stay at home mom in their formative years. Now since the father is the primary caretaker, Then why isn't it better for a child to have a stay at home dad in the formative years? Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 18 2015, 05:34 PM.



kennyinbmore	Sep 18 2015, 07:23 PM Post #88
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	cisslybee2012 Sep 18 2015, 05:34 PM kennyinbmore Sep 18 2015, 05:20 PM it's a fact that it's better situation for a child to have a stay at home mom in their formative years. Now since the father is the primary caretaker, Then why isn't it better for a child to have a stay at home dad in the formative years? Stay at home parent then Ciss. Geez



cisslybee2012	Sep 18 2015, 09:14 PM Post #89
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	kennyinbmore Sep 18 2015, 07:23 PM cisslybee2012 Sep 18 2015, 05:34 PM kennyinbmore Sep 18 2015, 05:20 PM it's a fact that it's better situation for a child to have a stay at home mom in their formative years. Now since the father is the primary caretaker, Then why isn't it better for a child to have a stay at home dad in the formative years? Stay at home parent then Ciss. Geez You mufuckas crack me up. Now anytime I say the mother is primary caretaker and should put her kids first, you mufuckas come swarming in like killer bees with attacks and accusations of man hate. But on the other hand you come in saying the mother should be with the child during the formative years. And any dumb ass BLIND juvenile comment you hear from a female, literally, a misguided child's pipe dream trapped in a grown woman's head about depending on a man to be caretaker, her dream come true to have a man taking care of everything while she's at home taking care of the house and feeling her child is pure hell to deal with, gets a nod of approval from you. Which stands to reason why you mufuckas on the other hand don't want nothing from women but sex. Fucking comical. Well, for FYI Kenny... MOTHERS ARE THE PRIMARY CARETAKERS OF CHILDREN. YOU GOT THAT? ARE THE PRIMARY CARETAKERS BECAUSE ALL CHILDREN COME FROM A WOMAN'S BODY. AND ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THERE FOR THEM DURING THE FORMATIVE YEARS. AND MAKING GOOD ON THAT PERIOD TO GIVE THEM ENOUGH INDEPENDENCE TO GIVE HER SOME TIME TO TEND TO HER OWN WORLDLY PURSUITS. AND HELLO! HELLO! HELLO!... HELLO!!! IT IS NOT A DREAM COME TRUE BUT A FUCKING NIGHTMARE! A CAN OF WORMS DEFINITELY ABOUT TO BURST OPEN TO BE AT HOME TAKING CARE OF THE FUCKING HOUSE! EVERY CHILDISH FANTASY IS A CAN OF WORMS IN DISGUISE IF AND WHEN IT REALLY HAPPENS. THIS MISGUIDED THINKING IS PRECISELY THE REASON WHY MOST MEN DON'T WANT NOTHING FROM WOMEN BUT SEX. THIS MISGUIDED THINKING DOESN'T GIVE CHILDREN THE LIGHT THEY NEED TO DEVELOP FULLY. SO WHAT PLUS 1 SAID ISN'T INCREDIBLY INTELLIGENT AND FAIR, IT'S INCREDIBLY STUPID AND UNFAIR. Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 18 2015, 09:26 PM.



kennyinbmore	Sep 19 2015, 11:31 AM Post #90
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	Not all mothers are primary care takers of children. There are plenty of single dads out here. I'm one of them. I'm the primary care taker of my son. Giving birth doesn't make you the primary care taker if you're not around. I guess it's different on Planet Pluto where you live where a mother not in the home is still a primary care taker. It works a little different on earth where there are many different family situations Edited by kennyinbmore, Sep 19 2015, 11:34 AM.



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