| Marriage is in decline in America | |
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| Topic Started: Jul 17 2015, 01:41 AM (2,362 Views) | |
| Ether | Sep 6 2015, 02:03 PM Post #71 |
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The problem is people who bitch about her taking half. Her being a housewives isn't an employment contract |
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| kennyinbmore | Sep 6 2015, 03:57 PM Post #72 |
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You can't help those people. Just saying Edited by kennyinbmore, Sep 6 2015, 03:58 PM.
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| Ether | Sep 6 2015, 04:33 PM Post #73 |
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Well people like this are the reason we have feminazi and sexist morons Take responsibility and do what's best for yourself. Too many women in trapped situations |
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| Plus 1 | Sep 6 2015, 06:05 PM Post #74 |
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Ether & BGF, I see both sides of this discussion. A woman home with her children and taking care of the house is a dream come true for some women. For others staying home to care for the kids & home is pure hell. It depends on the woman's personality. Ether mentions her marketing skills being compromised if she's not working and there is wisdom & truth in there. A housewife can continue to take online classes, volunteer in various organizations or attend a vocational school while raising the children to keep her skills sharp. Financially it's been shown that a working mother can cost the family more than if she stayed home. However, it requires her to cook the meals at home and not eat out, to be frugal with spending on herself (hair, nails, clothes, etc...) and learning to take care of household & yard chores herself instead of hiring the job out. This is a unique family situation for individual family units. What works for one unit might not work for the other. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Sep 6 2015, 06:30 PM Post #75 |
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The REBEL
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It's on the decline because it was never right to begin with. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Sep 6 2015, 06:43 PM Post #76 |
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The REBEL
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You know perfectly well that you have no desire to get married, never did, and never will. 
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| U Thant | Sep 6 2015, 06:54 PM Post #77 |
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When you drop scholarship like this, you do yourself a great service by not dangerously mixing a passion for secularism with a passion for Godliness here. you can't have both. you should decide so you don't play both sides of the fence again like you do here. help women decide if they're going to worship Satan's secular world of Feminism and it's societal advancements and qualities Ether mentioned...or... you're going to worship what the holy bible lays out for women's roles. women can't have it both ways, so be forthright and point that out when you are dropping scholarship. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Sep 6 2015, 06:59 PM Post #78 |
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The REBEL
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Booty head guys like for women to hang on to the desire for marriage because it puts them on the receiving end, and all they gotta do is be their bullshit selfish brutish selves and play head games to get what they want from women. But if women don't have any desire for marriage, then those guys can't get the props they want and can't run their games.
Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 6 2015, 07:02 PM.
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| Ether | Sep 6 2015, 07:26 PM Post #79 |
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If having my woman build her own path to protect herself and make a mark is worshiping satan then so be it. How dumb does this sound? This is why bible thumpers kill me.... Your bible isnt the only book of a god. Your god isnt the only diety so you cant run up to Buddhist and tell them their way of life is wrong because they arent following YOUR god and YOUR book. You sound stupid.... No way in hell my woman will be sitting at home all day twiddling her damn thumbs. A woman or man can and should be at home when the baby is young. But once that child starts getting into school there is no excuse, no reason for you to be sitting at home. You need to be learning a damn trade, or getting a job. This is to protect you so that in event your husband gets injured or dies you wont have an issue moving foward or taking charge. Women who sit at home for decades playing maid have issues getting cars, getting jobs and help with anything financially. Because no bank is going to give a damn about a woman who has no work history, no job is going to employ her over someone else who has shown a track record of employment. I cannot stand women who will say "I was a housewife for 20 years" and have NOTHING to fallback on. This is how women become trapped, how they become stuck in limbo because they have no skills or anything. You cant retire as a housewife. There is no 41k. But most of all, there is no god telling a woman she needs to be your damn servant while you control the finances and the entire foundation of the relationship is on the mans shoulders. Thats retarded.... What god that allows the world to rely so much on technology to assist the unfaithful, fuck the economy up where most families need 2 forms of income, and allows the HOLY marriage to be rare and then say the woman needs to fuck herself over? It isnt in the bible....please quote this. Please put the scripture here that says a woman needs to stay at home and not work in a world like this. And if you dont follow this stupid ass rule you believe in Satan Edited by Ether, Sep 7 2015, 01:18 AM.
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| Plus 1 | Sep 6 2015, 09:52 PM Post #80 |
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The Holy Scripture has a lot to say about wives, working, money, etc... Read Proverbs 31:10-31 http://www.godmammon.com/2007/06/business-lessons-from-wife-of-noble.html?m=1 She should make her own wealth! She's to help the poor with her own profits! She shouldn't be idle (watching soap operas all day). She is to feed & clothe her family! She is to use her profits from one adventure to invest in another. This wife will be called blessed by her husband, her children, and by the people in her locale. Most importantly, this woman, her husband can put his trust in and she's worth more than the richest gem stones! |
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