Ether

Sep 5 2015, 09:19 PM

BGF

Sep 5 2015, 09:11 PM

Don't care who's stays at home but if you're the one, your job is to take care of the house. That should include cooking, cleaning and taking care all house duties.

I just don't get it, a woman call herself a homemakers but constantly asking their man to pick something up from the store on his way home. Or, decide to to start dinner at 7 or 8pm at night. What type of shit is that.

Then have the fucking nerves to get attitude when shit hit the fan. Really!

That when the excuses starts to dribble out the mouth. I was, I forgot, I lost tract of time bullshit.

If this was a real job, her as would have been FIRED.

That's the real.

Right......if it was a real job. Notice the IF.

This means it isn't a real job and she doesn't have follow any of your guidelines. No woman should be at home "taking care of a house" that shit is dumb and means she is lazy and not putting any work in. She is also putting herself in a situation where she is dependent on the man who then turns around and birches she took half of what he owned.

The only woken who should be at home are the ones taking care of the kids. And even then she should be trying to do something to gain her own footing.


We aren't in the 1960s no more. Women are more independent than ever

BGF

Sep 5 2015, 09:27 PM

Ether

Sep 5 2015, 09:19 PM

BGF

Sep 5 2015, 09:11 PM

Don't care who's stays at home but if you're the one, your job is to take care of the house. That should include cooking, cleaning and taking care all house duties.

I just don't get it, a woman call herself a homemakers but constantly asking their man to pick something up from the store on his way home. Or, decide to to start dinner at 7 or 8pm at night. What type of shit is that.

Then have the fucking nerves to get attitude when shit hit the fan. Really!

That when the excuses starts to dribble out the mouth. I was, I forgot, I lost tract of time bullshit.

If this was a real job, her as would have been FIRED.

That's the real.

Right......if it was a real job. Notice the IF.

This means it isn't a real job and she doesn't have follow any of your guidelines. No woman should be at home "taking care of a house" that shit is dumb and means she is lazy and not putting any work in. She is also putting herself in a situation where she is dependent on the man who then turns around and birches she took half of what he owned.

The only woken who should be at home are the ones taking care of the kids. And even then she should be trying to do something to gain her own footing.


We aren't in the 1960s no more. Women are more independent than ever

Same difference, if you're the homemaker your job is to take care of home.

If there's an agreement between a couple someone will stay home then that okay but don't fall short on the job.

BGF

Sep 6 2015, 09:09 AM

Bruh, I know at least 4 mothers who would jump at the chance to stay home. More couples agree to this then you think. People lay out the ground rules just as they do at your job and mine. This is what's expected and when we expect you to be able to complete your assignments.

The same holds true for those who stay at home. Being a maid has nothing to do with this, living up to what is agreed upon is.

kennyinbmore

Sep 6 2015, 09:14 AM

BGF

Sep 6 2015, 09:09 AM

Bruh, I know at least 4 mothers who would jump at the chance to stay home. More couples agree to this then you think. People lay out the ground rules just as they do at your job and mine. This is what's expected and when we expect you to be able to complete your assignments.

The same holds true for those who stay at home. Being a maid has nothing to do with this, living up to what is agreed upon is.

If you have children and can afford it, the best case scenario is having a stay at home mom. Nothing wrong with that

kennyinbmore

Sep 6 2015, 09:14 AM

BGF

Sep 6 2015, 09:09 AM

Bruh, I know at least 4 mothers who would jump at the chance to stay home. More couples agree to this then you think. People lay out the ground rules just as they do at your job and mine. This is what's expected and when we expect you to be able to complete your assignments.

The same holds true for those who stay at home. Being a maid has nothing to do with this, living up to what is agreed upon is.

If you have children and can afford it, the best case scenario is having a stay at home mom. Nothing wrong with that

BGF

Sep 6 2015, 09:37 AM

kennyinbmore

Sep 6 2015, 09:14 AM

BGF

Sep 6 2015, 09:09 AM

Bruh, I know at least 4 mothers who would jump at the chance to stay home. More couples agree to this then you think. People lay out the ground rules just as they do at your job and mine. This is what's expected and when we expect you to be able to complete your assignments.

The same holds true for those who stay at home. Being a maid has nothing to do with this, living up to what is agreed upon is.

If you have children and can afford it, the best case scenario is having a stay at home mom. Nothing wrong with that

Definitely but the problem comes when the stay at home mom lose track of the agreement. If my black ass woke up and decided to run my own program at work and not the one I agreed to, I wouldn't be employed very long.

Ether

Sep 6 2015, 11:26 AM

In this unstable economy? In this day and age where relationships are volatile?

No that's unfair to her. And then men want to holler how she gets half. She deserves half because you had her life on pause being the maid.


Both parents should out the time in to care for the child. And she should be getting her own while the kid is in school. Not sitting at home watching soap operas. She should be either getting a job or learning a trade, it's in her best interest