Akachi

Nov 12 2014, 04:46 PM

No man rules your destiny, you do.

jelly pastries

Nov 12 2014, 10:18 PM

Marcus you sound like a great individual..but you must'nt worry about such things...relationships take time.. not sure where you are meeting these young ladies..but try book stores, whole foods grocery stores, libraries, the gym, coffee houses, jazz shows, comic con..and i am sure your lady will come along..good luck..and keep the faith..

Marcus

Nov 13 2014, 01:19 AM

jelly pastries

Nov 12 2014, 10:18 PM

Marcus you sound like a great individual..but you must'nt worry about such things...relationships take time.. not sure where you are meeting these young ladies..but try book stores, whole foods grocery stores, libraries, the gym, coffee houses, jazz shows, comic con..and i am sure your lady will come along..good luck..and keep the faith..

I have given black women 35 years of my life when it comes to dating. I even refused to date outside my race in hopes of finding that right black woman. I thought I would be happily married to a black woman by this time in my life, but it hasn't worked out that way. I'm now over 40, now I have to ask myself am I willing to take more chances with black women.

...fixed

Nov 12 2014, 08:08 PM

See, here's a real life example...similar to your own analogy which you presented;



I lost my job due to racism, once, and I went home/look into my kids eyes and told them that the reason we're going to have to economize for a few weeks is because of "white supremacy/racism". Then I broke it down to them how this same future treatment is waiting for them, if they get darker. Yes, I did in fact do that.

And after putting them in the bed, I woke up the next morning and went found me a new job. Got hired 2 days after applying. But when I got hired, I told the Senior Partner that I couldn't start right away.

It was on a Monday.

So I started that Thursday, because I needed those 3 days to go perfect my racial-discrimination complaint down at the local EEOC office, via the job I had just got fired from. Well, that perfected complaint wound up winning me a "finding" of racial-discrimination, and all deserving compensation thereof. No Black person who I know of, views that situation as one which features me making excuses. It was a situation where I fight against racism while still working hard to feed my family. It's called Multi-tasking.



Now, I know you're not going to respond with a tangible nor viable reply, because your real life experiences don't delve this deep into reality in order to speak to that example. And it's no fault of yours, of course, but please do just read/embellish my experience -----as yet another ounce of proof of "that America" which you have to start accounting for, if you expect your gameplan to ever be productive for aiding USA Black males.

Quote:

 

I lost my job due to racism, .

.......... I woke up the next morning and went found me a new job.



............. Well, that perfected complaint wound up winning me a "finding" of racial-discrimination, and all deserving compensation thereof. ........

beserker

Nov 13 2014, 02:02 AM

...cuzz...
couldn`t help myself.... but gotta butt in



? u see a pattern

beserker

Nov 12 2014, 07:29 PM

Marcus

Nov 12 2014, 12:03 AM

........ Some black women can burn you out and turn you off completely with dating.

sure...

the world is not a fairytale.. there are bad people out there for real...

..and

shady come in all shades of color..don`t focus on 1 shade

and

never never ever expect shady to treat u any different because u of same color of shade

ps

ever heard about the scorpion and frog story ?..... ``its my nature"

let me refresh your memory

The Scorpion and the Frog
One day, a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river.

The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn't see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back.

Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream.

"Hellooo Mr. Frog!" called the scorpion across the water, "Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?"

"Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you wont try to kill me?" asked the frog hesitantly.

"Because," the scorpion replied, "If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!"

Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. "What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!"

"This is true," agreed the scorpion, "But then I wouldn't be able to get to the other side of the river!"

"Alright then...how do I know you wont just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?" said the frog.

"Ahh...," crooned the scorpion, "Because you see, once you've taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!"

So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog's back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog's soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current.

Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting in his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog's back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs.

"You fool!" croaked the frog, "Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?"

The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drownings frog's back.

"I could not help myself. It is my nature."

Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river.
Self destruction - "Its my Nature", said the Scorpion...

...fixed

Nov 12 2014, 08:03 PM

Akachi

Nov 12 2014, 04:46 PM

Peace,


I can never be an accomplice to racism, and I don't embrace being a victim...

As an example, it's like a Brother who has three kids. He just lost his job for whatever reason. His three children at home are starving. Can he realistically look into their eyes and tell them that the reason they're starving is because of "white supremacy/racism"? No, a man will not make those types of excuses nor let such events set the agenda for him. He's going to do what's necessary to feed his kids/tribe.

Once again, you failed to address the real USA problem with any reasonable rational response my friend. That's why do EmoDweeb came coSigning you, bcuz he hates Black people so he loves it when you put forth arguments which disregard realities and ignore forces which are factually acting upon The Black American Experience.