Why this black man hasn't dated since 1998

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Why this black man hasn't dated since 1998
Topic Started: Nov 9 2014, 07:13 PM (3,376 Views)
Akachi	Nov 12 2014, 09:51 AM Post #41
Posts: 468 Group: Members Member #2,320 Joined: May 4, 2014	Marcus Nov 12 2014, 12:03 AM I haven't dated in years myself because of my bad experiences with black women. My problem wasn't money, my problem was I was dating black women that I thought were good honest women and they turned out to be cheaters. Some black women can burn you out and turn you off completely with dating. Brother, you're posting as a defeated man, stop that. The excuse making and complacency in your post is not only pitiful, and if other Brothers aren't feeling this post, imagine how unattractive this is to women? Of most of the defeatist posts you render here, this by far takes the crown. A lot of young Brothers these days don't have Fathers, Uncles,the Brother that owns the Corner Store, etc., to teach them the game and hip them to what women are about at an early age. This is why I giggle sometimes at what cats on here post about women(i.e. "Black Women are Getting Worse with Tattoos", "Black Women Don't Like Nice Guys"). While you were posting all of that, you could've been out in the real world meeting real women. A man, especially a Black man, should always be achievement minded and always seek to better himself/his situation. You do realize American Black women aren't the only women on the face of the planet right? Or, your mind got tricked into that old, "I must stay loyal to Black women to experience Black power", type dogma? From your post, "some women burn you out and turn you off completely from dating". Dude, that's not only tragic, cynical and sorry for a man to post something sentiment like that, but that shows cats aren't prepared for life, because life is about ups and downs, triumphs and tragedies,mistakes and missteps. You can blame someone for knocking you down, but you can only blame yourself if you refuse to get back up. Stop embracing victimhood.



...fixed	Nov 12 2014, 10:07 AM Post #42
Posts: 3,613 Group: Members Member #2,274 Joined: Mar 28, 2014	Akachi Nov 12 2014, 09:51 AM ... if other Brothers aren't feeling this post, imagine how unattractive this is to women? Of most of the defeatist posts you render here, this by far takes the crown... Stop embracing victimhood. Actually, he's a darkskinned-NI99ER, so...today's Black chic more often, than not, would laugh at him mock him and claim he's worthy of that lifestyle. Especially if she left the Black Race/Black community, to go belong to Pop Culture's lightskinned Race of humans. And again, you would do yourself a great service to come back to America, soon, so to learn the difference between victimhood versus veracity----of USA racism. Moreover, stay cognizant of the path you follow; You're looking like a Cauca-cliqsters here too by continually insulting Marcus, that way, when he's not insulting you in order to get his point across to you. True? Come on pimp, you're better than these Caucasian trolls who sabotage this website.



Akachi	Nov 12 2014, 10:15 AM Post #43
Posts: 468 Group: Members Member #2,320 Joined: May 4, 2014	Peace Brother, My words weren't intended to cause harm to Marcus. I just tire of seeing Brother accept defeat/accept one lot in life. I just believe that as the original man, we have been placed and purposed on our Planet to achieve some amazing things, and that Black men should never settle. It's just how I was bred man. I don't accept excuses from anything or anybody. This is how I've never seen an unemployment line in my life, because I've always had a habit of hustling for mine, and from the time I was a teenager, have always had two to three forms of income outside of a main job/career. I just don't accept mediocrity and let nothing or nobody inhibit my goals. Cliche' I know, but I maintain, Brothers gotta be strong enough and Alpha male enough to demand what they want out of life. Everywhere I travel in business, even when I travel alone, my presence garners respect. I expect nothing less out of life than respect from all who cross my path. My women don't act up, cuz I don't tolerate that, so dudes don't see me posting endlessly online about the maladaptive behaviors of women. Also, I seldom complain about racism because, yes, it is systematic and it exists, but I refuse, as a man who emanated from a people that were the first people, built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet, I refuse to dishonor my ancestors by giving another people, especially a people as inferior as the white race, that much power over me and my destiny.



kennyinbmore	Nov 12 2014, 10:36 AM Post #44
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	Akachi Nov 12 2014, 10:15 AM Also, I seldom complain about racism because, yes, it is systematic and it exists, but I refuse, as a man who emanated from a people that were the first people, built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet, I refuse to dishonor my ancestors by giving another people, especially a people as inferior as the white race, that much power over me and my destiny. This should be posted once every day here. Excellent truth. I don't agree with everything you stand for , but you're on point with these words minus the inferior shit Edited by kennyinbmore, Nov 12 2014, 10:36 AM.



Doctor Magnus Warlock	Nov 12 2014, 11:01 AM Post #45
Posts: 28,451 Group: Members Member #716 Joined: Dec 9, 2010	Akachi Nov 12 2014, 09:51 AM Brother, you're posting as a defeated man, stop that. The excuse making and complacency in your post is not only pitiful, and if other Brothers aren't feeling this post, imagine how unattractive this is to women? Of most of the defeatist posts you render here, this by far takes the crown. A lot of young Brothers these days don't have Fathers, Uncles,the Brother that owns the Corner Store, etc., to teach them the game and hip them to what women are about at an early age. This is why I giggle sometimes at what cats on here post about women(i.e. "Black Women are Getting Worse with Tattoos", "Black Women Don't Like Nice Guys"). While you were posting all of that, you could've been out in the real world meeting real women. A man, especially a Black man, should always be achievement minded and always seek to better himself/his situation. You do realize American Black women aren't the only women on the face of the planet right? Or, your mind got tricked into that old, "I must stay loyal to Black women to experience Black power", type dogma? From your post, "some women burn you out and turn you off completely from dating". Dude, that's not only tragic, cynical and sorry for a man to post something sentiment like that, but that shows cats aren't prepared for life, because life is about ups and downs, triumphs and tragedies,mistakes and missteps. You can blame someone for knocking you down, but you can only blame yourself if you refuse to get back up. Stop embracing victimhood. I agree wholeheartedly with the statements in bold.



...fixed	Nov 12 2014, 11:04 AM Post #46
Posts: 3,613 Group: Members Member #2,274 Joined: Mar 28, 2014	Akachi Nov 12 2014, 10:15 AM Peace Brother, My words weren't intended to cause harm to Marcus. I just tire of seeing Brother accept defeat/accept one lot in life. That's Brotherly Love too, but...I repeat...but when you show that love by posting in ways which a Caucasoid cliq already uses toward him, then...you are further entrenching this forum in the racial hegemony which Whitefolk from the cliq hath brought here. Quote: Also, I seldom complain about racism because, yes, it is systematic and it exists, but I refuse, as a man who emanated from a people that were the first people, built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet, I refuse to dishonor my ancestors by giving another people, especially a people as inferior as the white race, that much power over me and my destiny I understand and I respect your zeal. But you can't go thru life ignoring, veracity, then expect to Progress within any non-African, 1st-World nation. ...IOW... Michael Brown didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt his life. Regina McBride didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt her life. Obama didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt his Presidency. Trayvon Martin didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt his life. Eric Gardner, was complaining about racism, when haunted his life 10 minutes later. kennyinbmore Nov 12 2014, 10:36 AM ...should be posted once every day here. Excellent truth. I don't agree with everything you stand for , but you're on point with these words minus the inferior shit Because that is your goal, in life, to coSign whatever doesn't work for progressing Black people. So of course you'd do that, here, where yon Akachi merely went post hoc ergo Propter hoc. That's since those ancestors who built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet in fact did not have to deal with White racism. As the non-melanin pigment had yet to evolve, during our ancestors great contributions Akachi listed. skinny: Stay woke, stay keen.



Doctor Magnus Warlock	Nov 12 2014, 11:07 AM Post #47
Posts: 28,451 Group: Members Member #716 Joined: Dec 9, 2010	Akachi Nov 12 2014, 10:15 AM Peace Brother, My words weren't intended to cause harm to Marcus. I just tire of seeing Brother accept defeat/accept one lot in life. I just believe that as the original man, we have been placed and purposed on our Planet to achieve some amazing things, and that Black men should never settle. It's just how I was bred man. I don't accept excuses from anything or anybody. This is how I've never seen an unemployment line in my life, because I've always had a habit of hustling for mine, and from the time I was a teenager, have always had two to three forms of income outside of a main job/career. I just don't accept mediocrity and let nothing or nobody inhibit my goals. Cliche' I know, but I maintain, Brothers gotta be strong enough and Alpha male enough to demand what they want out of life. Everywhere I travel in business, even when I travel alone, my presence garners respect. I expect nothing less out of life than respect from all who cross my path. My women don't act up, cuz I don't tolerate that, so dudes don't see me posting endlessly online about the maladaptive behaviors of women. Also, I seldom complain about racism because, yes, it is systematic and it exists, but I refuse, as a man who emanated from a people that were the first people, built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet, I refuse to dishonor my ancestors by giving another people, especially a people as inferior as the white race, that much power over me and my destiny. More great stuff in bold. We have to hold ourselves to a higher standard. Nothing worth while in life comes cheap. You have to fight for it, tooth & claw.....and those that do so.....reap awesome rewards.



...fixed	Nov 12 2014, 11:13 AM Post #48
Posts: 3,613 Group: Members Member #2,274 Joined: Mar 28, 2014	Akachi Nov 12 2014, 10:15 AM Peace Brother, My words weren't intended to cause harm to Marcus. I just tire of seeing Brother accept defeat/accept one lot in life. That is indeed some cool Brotherly Love, my friend, But when you use the same words that the Cauca-cliq use onto him...what are you really seeking to accomplish? Last thing we need to read is you joining in on the culture of White-racism which the cliq and their cop brings here.



...fixed	Nov 12 2014, 11:13 AM Post #49
Posts: 3,613 Group: Members Member #2,274 Joined: Mar 28, 2014	...fixed Nov 12 2014, 11:04 AM Akachi Nov 12 2014, 10:15 AM Peace Brother, My words weren't intended to cause harm to Marcus. I just tire of seeing Brother accept defeat/accept one lot in life. That's Brotherly Love too, but...I repeat...but when you show that love by posting in ways which a Caucasoid cliq already uses toward him, then...you are further entrenching this forum in the racial hegemony which Whitefolk from the cliq hath brought here. Quote: Also, I seldom complain about racism because, yes, it is systematic and it exists, but I refuse, as a man who emanated from a people that were the first people, built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet, I refuse to dishonor my ancestors by giving another people, especially a people as inferior as the white race, that much power over me and my destiny I understand and I respect your zeal. But you can't go thru life ignoring, veracity, then expect to Progress within any non-African, 1st-World nation. ...IOW... Michael Brown didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt his life. Regina McBride didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt her life. Obama didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt his Presidency. Trayvon Martin didn't complain about Racism, in order for it to come haunt his life. Eric Gardner, was complaining about racism, when haunted his life 10 minutes later. kennyinbmore Nov 12 2014, 10:36 AM ...should be posted once every day here. Excellent truth. I don't agree with everything you stand for , but you're on point with these words minus the inferior shit Because that is your goal, in life, to coSign whatever doesn't work for progressing Black people. So of course you'd do that, here, where yon Akachi merely went post hoc ergo Propter hoc. That's since those ancestors who built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet in fact did not have to deal with White racism. As the non-melanin pigment had yet to evolve, during our ancestors great contributions Akachi listed. skinny: Stay woke, stay keen. ...keep cognizant!



...fixed	Nov 12 2014, 11:16 AM Post #50
Posts: 3,613 Group: Members Member #2,274 Joined: Mar 28, 2014	...fixed Nov 12 2014, 11:13 AM .... since those ancestors who built pyramids, introduced the sciences to the planet, originated language and founded every nation on this planet in fact did not have to deal with White racism. As the non-melanin pigment had yet to evolve, during our ancestors great contributions Akachi listed. skinny: Stay woke, stay keen. ...keep cognizant!



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