kennyinbmore

Nov 10 2014, 03:18 PM

Big Mike

Nov 10 2014, 02:46 PM

The woman don't have to know, if a man income is not where he want it to be it can affect his self esteem.

No one can fix a loser like that but himself

Akachi

Nov 10 2014, 04:41 PM

nevergiveup

Nov 10 2014, 03:08 AM

Should love and a relationship be based on a persons income?

You speak of "love" and "relationships" as if the two are mutually exclusive. They're not. In your study of classical civilizations, the "I respect you" marriage lasted longer than the "I love you" marriage, for most women are emotionally immature, therefore they love you one day, and..........you get the picture.

Akachi

Nov 10 2014, 04:55 PM

beserker

Nov 10 2014, 12:16 PM

Akachi

Nov 9 2014, 10:34 PM

He seems a rather sad case, begging women to accept him, when the very female psyche with regards to dating/mating is rooted in security.

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when the very female psyche with regards to dating/mating is rooted in security.

true but mostly untrue in the other races...

it`s still an important factor in blacks, but b4 we start usual ``black this and dat"....

know this is more a social and class issue.. people who recently escaped poverty and the new very rich don`t ever want to be reminded of poverty in close quarters daily

go ahead and correlate where the black race is at economically in America and the prevalence of above started phenomenon in black female -male interaction
folks u gotta stop cussing out the brother
ps:
my advise for the brother is...
dunno about marry up or marry down.... if it`s an issue why bother?
u can`t change people`s belief nor have any right to attempt to do dat .... just change your own perception
there is somebody out there for everyone... go out and find her

Well,

I would counter what you're saying with, as I would say to the 34 year old cat that originally posted this on the Root, that these are the types of Black women he should seek companionship with, that is, if he's truly serious. Usually I'd tell a Brother to save himself the hassle and just go get a nice Eastern European, a nice Latina,a nice Asian, a nice Arab or a nice North or East African sista and call it a day. However, since some cats remain stuck on that, "I'm gonna stick with the Black woman" drivel, here are the only sorts of sistas he should consider, whenever he gets his self-esteem and manhood up enough to rake in the sort of $$$$$$ an Alpha male is prone to make:

Types of Black women Black men with their careers/lives intact should date:

1) Black woman that comes from a two parent household. This is essential, being that most Black women are more likely to get indoctrinated with some feminist dogma if mom is the only one present in the house.

2) Does she fear her Father? You can tell when a sister has divine respect for her Father because she never complains about a "shortage of good men" or takes time to dog Brothers. Good women don't do that.

3)Comes from a middle class/suburb environment. This is key. The last thing you want is some ghetto broad with the hand-out/poverty mentality. You're trying to build an empire with her but you can' t because her family is all up in your face everyday asking for stuff.

4)Between the ages of seventeen to twenty-four.

5) Has an income of at least $28,000(meaning, she's bringing something to the table).

6) Has to have an elevated mind outside of the typical "Black identity/Black experience/be like a nigger-r-us",meaning, you can take her to a banquet/corporate party and it' s not out of her element.

Pittsburgh Steelers

Nov 10 2014, 07:13 PM

The problem is gold diggers are messing things up for good honest women that's not out for money.

beserker

Nov 10 2014, 07:31 PM

only agree with 5...

having to go out there everyday ... changes your perspective , .....eeeh don`t forget helps avoid dat `idle hands and devil`s workshop ting "


dude # 6 for real ..am yet to see a full grown adult acting like an attention deficit idiot in a banquet ...think intimidation and envy ,not riot

## 3..... i guess u just love a `princess"

# 2 ... not fear but think rather love..... very important. reality check: next time u see a biracial kid playing and giggling with u on grocery line ? ...u just found out her favorite parent

# 1&4... i believe in possibilities..... makes life interesting

kennyinbmore

Nov 10 2014, 07:36 PM

Pittsburgh Steelers

Nov 10 2014, 07:13 PM

The problem is gold diggers are messing things up for good honest women that's not out for money.

No they're not. Any man with two brain cells can spot a gold digger a mile away

Pittsburgh Steelers

Nov 10 2014, 07:48 PM

Gold diggers muddy the waters, some of these gold diggers today are not out front with it. Some of these gold diggers today will have you fooled, by the way they play the game.