Men this is what happens if you cheat on your wife

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Men this is what happens if you cheat on your wife
Topic Started: Mar 15 2014, 01:47 AM (2,188 Views)
cisslybee2012	Mar 15 2014, 04:53 PM Post #31
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Truthie Mar 15 2014, 04:46 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 04:41 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 03:51 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 12:41 PM Zechariah Mar 15 2014, 03:09 AM Guy with the orange sign is funny. The yellow sign with the sick mother his funny. And he actually stood there... That's what's funny to me. That was his punishment to get back in. Exactly! He was willing to humiliate himself. I don't like that whole.....vibe. Its kind of manipulative in my opinion (asking him to do that). And he's being kind of a weakling to agree to it. But, to each his own. I think if I were to ask (which I never would) my "man" to humiliate himself so that I could feel better..... I wouldn't feel better. Just, if you're going to forgive a person, forgive them. No cause for a pound of flesh. You're too soft Truthie. A man won't take a woman whose too soft seriously. And that's a fact. A woman has to be aggressive with a man in order for him to feel a sense of satisfaction with her and respect her. Aggressive not in the sense of bossing him around him or being mean, but aggressive in the sense of setting a firm example, being a role model of that firm example herself, and taking no shit. A woman has to stand her ground with a man. Period. If he steps out of line, she can't just let it go without some sort of reprimand to make him pay for the wrong he did. He being humiliated to stand outdoors holding the sign was no comparison to what he did to his girlfriend. And she was right as rain to make him do it. Edited by cisslybee2012, Mar 15 2014, 05:00 PM.



Backbone	Mar 15 2014, 05:04 PM Post #32
Posts: 582 Group: Members Member #1,675 Joined: Sep 10, 2012	cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 04:53 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 04:46 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 04:41 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 03:51 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 12:41 PM Zechariah Mar 15 2014, 03:09 AM Guy with the orange sign is funny. The yellow sign with the sick mother his funny. And he actually stood there... That's what's funny to me. That was his punishment to get back in. Exactly! He was willing to humiliate himself. I don't like that whole.....vibe. Its kind of manipulative in my opinion (asking him to do that). And he's being kind of a weakling to agree to it. But, to each his own. I think if I were to ask (which I never would) my "man" to humiliate himself so that I could feel better..... I wouldn't feel better. Just, if you're going to forgive a person, forgive them. No cause for a pound of flesh. You're too soft Truthie. A man won't take a woman whose too soft seriously. And that's a fact. A woman has to be aggressive with a man in order for him to feel a sense of satisfaction with her and respect her. Aggressive not in the sense of bossing him around him or being mean, but aggressive in the sense of setting a firm example, being a role model of that firm example herself, and taking no shit. A woman has to stand her ground with a man. Period. If he steps out of line, she can't just let it go without some sort of reprimand to make him pay for the wrong he did. He being humiliated to stand outdoors holding the sign was no comparison to what he did to his girlfriend. And she was right as right to make him do it. Let's look at this from a different perspective. Personally I don't think she made him do this, as Cissly suggested, he chose to do it. He chose to stand there with the sign in order to maintain his relationship with his girlfriend. He had options, he could've simply decided not to and deal with the consequences of his actions.



cisslybee2012	Mar 15 2014, 05:07 PM Post #33
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Backbone Mar 15 2014, 05:04 PM Let's look at this from a different perspective. Personally I don't think she made him do this, as Cissly suggested, he chose to do it. I think she made him do it. And if she did, She was well right to do so.



VoiceofReason	Mar 15 2014, 06:27 PM Post #34
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 04:53 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 04:46 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 04:41 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 03:51 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 12:41 PM Zechariah Mar 15 2014, 03:09 AM Guy with the orange sign is funny. The yellow sign with the sick mother his funny. And he actually stood there... That's what's funny to me. That was his punishment to get back in. Exactly! He was willing to humiliate himself. I don't like that whole.....vibe. Its kind of manipulative in my opinion (asking him to do that). And he's being kind of a weakling to agree to it. But, to each his own. I think if I were to ask (which I never would) my "man" to humiliate himself so that I could feel better..... I wouldn't feel better. Just, if you're going to forgive a person, forgive them. No cause for a pound of flesh. You're too soft Truthie. A man won't take a woman whose too soft seriously. And that's a fact. A woman has to be aggressive with a man in order for him to feel a sense of satisfaction with her and respect her. Aggressive not in the sense of bossing him around him or being mean, but aggressive in the sense of setting a firm example, being a role model of that firm example herself, and taking no shit. A woman has to stand her ground with a man. Period. If he steps out of line, she can't just let it go without some sort of reprimand to make him pay for the wrong he did. He being humiliated to stand outdoors holding the sign was no comparison to what he did to his girlfriend. And she was right as rain to make him do it. The repairing of a wrong, making amends, should be expected. I believe a good person, who has a firm sense of self and of right versus wrong, will insist on making amends. That same person knows that he or she cannot demand it of others. And true repentance cannot be bought. It must be given. Humiliation is something different. Humiliation is wrong. Hmm, let me think. Does it matter if it was his choice to do that? Edited by VoiceofReason, Mar 15 2014, 06:28 PM.



VoiceofReason	Mar 15 2014, 06:30 PM Post #35
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	Nope, if my sig other wanted to stand on the street with a sign like that to show he's sorry. Nah, it's not good enough. Not personal enough. If you're sorry about something you did to me, apologize to me. Make amends to me. Let your actions show you are trying to earn back my trust. Standing on the corner with a sign......ain't gone cut it. It's gotta be actions toward me, baby. If I mess up with Hubby, I make it up to him. If he messes up with me, he makes it up to me. It's about actions, not words. Words, as they say, are cheap. And so is a sign. Edited by VoiceofReason, Mar 15 2014, 06:33 PM.



cisslybee2012	Mar 15 2014, 06:43 PM Post #36
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	@ Truthie You're too soft. Men don't take soft women seriously. And that's a fact. Anybody can say I'm sorry. What the hell is that? Nothing. In fact, it's less than nothing. Edited by cisslybee2012, Mar 15 2014, 06:44 PM.



VoiceofReason	Mar 15 2014, 06:50 PM Post #37
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 06:43 PM @ Truthie You're too soft. Men don't take soft women seriously. And that's a fact. Anybody can say I'm sorry. What the hell is that? Nothing. In fact, it's less than nothing. I agree. ... "less than nothing". That's all that sign is. And him humiliating himself, is stupid. If she asked him to do it, I guess they belong together. Edited by VoiceofReason, Mar 15 2014, 06:52 PM.



cisslybee2012	Mar 15 2014, 06:51 PM Post #38
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Truthie Mar 15 2014, 06:50 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 06:43 PM @ Truthie You're too soft. Men don't take soft women seriously. And that's a fact. Anybody can say I'm sorry. What the hell is that? Nothing. In fact, it's less than nothing. I agree. Words are certainly "less than nothing". That's all that sign is. And him humiliating himself, is stupid. If she asked him to do it, I guess they belong together. You're too soft to make a man respect you.



VoiceofReason	Mar 15 2014, 06:53 PM Post #39
Posts: 14,809 Group: Members Member #1,071 Joined: Aug 27, 2011	cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 06:51 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 06:50 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 06:43 PM @ Truthie You're too soft. Men don't take soft women seriously. And that's a fact. Anybody can say I'm sorry. What the hell is that? Nothing. In fact, it's less than nothing. I agree. Words are certainly "less than nothing". That's all that sign is. And him humiliating himself, is stupid. If she asked him to do it, I guess they belong together. You're too soft to make a man respect you. You can't read. I'm loving, most definitely. And if you have to "make" a man respect you, he's not the man for you. Edited by VoiceofReason, Mar 15 2014, 06:53 PM.



cisslybee2012	Mar 15 2014, 06:54 PM Post #40
The REBEL Posts: 46,231 Group: Members Member #556 Joined: Jun 21, 2010	Truthie Mar 15 2014, 06:53 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 06:51 PM Truthie Mar 15 2014, 06:50 PM cisslybee2012 Mar 15 2014, 06:43 PM @ Truthie You're too soft. Men don't take soft women seriously. And that's a fact. Anybody can say I'm sorry. What the hell is that? Nothing. In fact, it's less than nothing. I agree. Words are certainly "less than nothing". That's all that sign is. And him humiliating himself, is stupid. If she asked him to do it, I guess they belong together. You're too soft to make a man respect you. You can't read. I'm loving, most definitely. And if you have to "make" a man respect you, he's not the man for you. Suit yourself. To each to their own.



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