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10% of relationships are broken up on v-day
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Topic Started: Feb 14 2013, 11:55 AM (1,759 Views)
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LadyBug1
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Feb 14 2013, 09:08 PM
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....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true.
As much as that would be nice...its not the case alot of times. Sideline chicks get tired of being that sideline chick. Tired of being hidden and they want the man to themselves. It always start off "I got a woman, lay low and we can do whatever" But later on down the line jealousy kick in or she just cant control them emotions and try to step in. It happens alot...dont make this the mans fault. Its both sides....alot of times the bitch know the man is a relationship but she go for the dick anyway and she actually like the fact she is on the side and the man is lying to his wife. Emotions kick in and then she wanna do dumb shit like call the wife or get the nigga get caught up. Alot of times the man is telling the side line bitch all the negative shit about his wife. What she dont do, what she complain about. After a while the sideline bitch feel she is better than the wife and the man needs to leave her. As far as what men do, men play like a fuckin friend. Waiting and waiting on the sideline. Difference between a sideline punk bitch (Man) and sideline bitch (Female) is the punk bitch dont get no pussy. He play friend, buy her gifts and be the shoulder she cry on. After a while the nigga wanna express his feelings. Like the sideline bitch the sideline punk bitch had an open ear to all the shit the significant other wasnt doing right and he feel he can treat her better. So no its majority not the mans fault. Though women and men do cheat......most long term affairs both parties are well aware they are hurting the other and sideline punk bitches are well aware the female got a man. The side chick knew going in, what she was - the chick on the side.
I get what you are saying, but both people should know what's up on the from end.
There's no reason she should feel that she's anything more, unless he's told her that. And if he did, then he needs to follow through with some action.
Now, if she decides she wants a "promotion", and decides to tell the wife (or girlfriend), then there's been a serious mistake in choosing a side chick.
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VoiceofReason
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Feb 14 2013, 09:13 PM
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- Feb 14 2013, 08:25 PM
- Truthie
- Feb 14 2013, 08:18 PM
- shutupalready
- Feb 14 2013, 08:12 PM
- Truthie
- Feb 14 2013, 08:00 PM
- Ye'
- Feb 14 2013, 07:49 PM
- levonjaw
- Feb 14 2013, 07:45 PM
- Ye'
- Feb 14 2013, 01:09 PM
- levonjaw
- Feb 14 2013, 01:01 PM
- Rick1
- Feb 14 2013, 12:58 PM
If a couple break up after Valentines Day, they didn't have shit anyways. I don't eat fucking candy nor need flowers or a gift. If a woman is that simple to leave, let her ass go.
Agree...
But they arent breaking up because of lack of gifts. Just as jaywood others stated.....this is the time you get caught up. Everyone has these loves on the sideline and try to juggle it on this day and get caught up But some people realize today that they may not love this person like that thought
......but the side chick should know that she doesn't get the holiday. She gets the day before or the day after the holiday.
Lol come on now.....we got females wanting niggas to leave their wives
And men wanting women to leave their husbands.
Truthie!! Your side boo trying to get you to leave huh?
No side boo here. But, a few years ago, a guy was.....almost obsessed, or crazy. He was a client. I told him I wasn't interested nicely. But he always flirted regardless. One day he called my work cell, and....I think he was masturbating or something. Telling me he loves me and wants to take care of me. I went 63rd Street Southside Chicago on him. Ye' knows what I mean. I had to cut him up verbally, and told him if I so much as see his number on my screen, I will call his girl and tell him who's drawers he's trying to get into. It was crazy. Some dudes are lab cases.
No way Truthie, only women do that crazy stuff. Yeah. You're right. I must've seen it on Lifetime, then dreamed it inserting myself into the story.
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VoiceofReason
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Feb 14 2013, 09:14 PM
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....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true.
As much as that would be nice...its not the case alot of times. Sideline chicks get tired of being that sideline chick. Tired of being hidden and they want the man to themselves. It always start off "I got a woman, lay low and we can do whatever" But later on down the line jealousy kick in or she just cant control them emotions and try to step in. It happens alot...dont make this the mans fault. Its both sides....alot of times the bitch know the man is a relationship but she go for the dick anyway and she actually like the fact she is on the side and the man is lying to his wife. Emotions kick in and then she wanna do dumb shit like call the wife or get the nigga get caught up. Alot of times the man is telling the side line bitch all the negative shit about his wife. What she dont do, what she complain about. After a while the sideline bitch feel she is better than the wife and the man needs to leave her. As far as what men do, men play like a fuckin friend. Waiting and waiting on the sideline. Difference between a sideline punk bitch (Man) and sideline bitch (Female) is the punk bitch dont get no pussy. He play friend, buy her gifts and be the shoulder she cry on. After a while the nigga wanna express his feelings. Like the sideline bitch the sideline punk bitch had an open ear to all the shit the significant other wasnt doing right and he feel he can treat her better. So no its majority not the mans fault. Though women and men do cheat......most long term affairs both parties are well aware they are hurting the other and sideline punk bitches are well aware the female got a man.
The side chick knew going in, what she was - the chick on the side. I get what you are saying, but both people should know what's up on the from end. There's no reason she should feel that she's anything more, unless he's told her that. And if he did, then he needs to follow through with some action. Now, if she decides she wants a "promotion", and decides to tell the wife (or girlfriend), then there's been a serious mistake in choosing a side chick. There are rules for dysfunctional behavior?
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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Feb 14 2013, 09:15 PM
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A lifetime ago, I was dumped the morning of New Year's Eve.
Is there a preference for when to get dumped, or dump somebody?
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VoiceofReason
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Feb 14 2013, 09:18 PM
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A lifetime ago, I was dumped the morning of New Year's Eve.
Is there a preference for when to get dumped, or dump somebody? 1) Hope you hadn't made expensive plans. 2) Probably. Lev?
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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Feb 14 2013, 09:23 PM
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Goddess of Truth,
Mother Wilson has case files similiar to yours.
I suppose we can call such incidents Sausage Therapy Disasters (STDs).
Oh my....new topic.
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LadyBug1
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Feb 14 2013, 09:24 PM
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....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true.
As much as that would be nice...its not the case alot of times. Sideline chicks get tired of being that sideline chick. Tired of being hidden and they want the man to themselves. It always start off "I got a woman, lay low and we can do whatever" But later on down the line jealousy kick in or she just cant control them emotions and try to step in. It happens alot...dont make this the mans fault. Its both sides....alot of times the bitch know the man is a relationship but she go for the dick anyway and she actually like the fact she is on the side and the man is lying to his wife. Emotions kick in and then she wanna do dumb shit like call the wife or get the nigga get caught up. Alot of times the man is telling the side line bitch all the negative shit about his wife. What she dont do, what she complain about. After a while the sideline bitch feel she is better than the wife and the man needs to leave her. As far as what men do, men play like a fuckin friend. Waiting and waiting on the sideline. Difference between a sideline punk bitch (Man) and sideline bitch (Female) is the punk bitch dont get no pussy. He play friend, buy her gifts and be the shoulder she cry on. After a while the nigga wanna express his feelings. Like the sideline bitch the sideline punk bitch had an open ear to all the shit the significant other wasnt doing right and he feel he can treat her better. So no its majority not the mans fault. Though women and men do cheat......most long term affairs both parties are well aware they are hurting the other and sideline punk bitches are well aware the female got a man.
The side chick knew going in, what she was - the chick on the side. I get what you are saying, but both people should know what's up on the from end. There's no reason she should feel that she's anything more, unless he's told her that. And if he did, then he needs to follow through with some action. Now, if she decides she wants a "promotion", and decides to tell the wife (or girlfriend), then there's been a serious mistake in choosing a side chick.
There are rules for dysfunctional behavior? ...yep, there should be some kind etiquette
Jk, really....everything goes when cheating is involved.
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Feb 14 2013, 09:27 PM
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A lifetime ago, I was dumped the morning of New Year's Eve.
Is there a preference for when to get dumped, or dump somebody?
1) Hope you hadn't made expensive plans. 2) Probably. Lev? I was trying to make plans when she just dumped me over the phone.
I thought it was melodramatic to do it on that particular, not to mention the speech she gave for her doing so.
That turned out to be good for me in the long run.
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VoiceofReason
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Feb 14 2013, 09:28 PM
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Goddess of Truth,
Mother Wilson has case files similiar to yours.
I suppose we can call such incidents Sausage Therapy Disasters (STDs).
Oh my....new topic. Lol! I like the title.
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LadyBug1
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Feb 14 2013, 09:48 PM
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A lifetime ago, I was dumped the morning of New Year's Eve.
Is there a preference for when to get dumped, or dump somebody?
1) Hope you hadn't made expensive plans. 2) Probably. Lev? If I'm going to be dumped, I would like to be dumped before the holiday.
....and if I am, he can't come back AFTER the holiday.
If he tried to come back, I'd know something was up.
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