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10% of relationships are broken up on v-day
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Topic Started: Feb 14 2013, 11:55 AM (1,760 Views)
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negroplease
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Feb 14 2013, 08:21 PM
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If a couple break up after Valentines Day, they didn't have shit anyways. I don't eat fucking candy nor need flowers or a gift. If a woman is that simple to leave, let her ass go.
Agree...
But they arent breaking up because of lack of gifts. Just as jaywood others stated.....this is the time you get caught up. Everyone has these loves on the sideline and try to juggle it on this day and get caught up But some people realize today that they may not love this person like that thought
......but the side chick should know that she doesn't get the holiday. She gets the day before or the day after the holiday.
Lol come on now.....we got females wanting niggas to leave their wives
.....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true. The man probably said the "L" word, dogged out the wife, discussed his unhappiness, filled her head with hopes, dreams, and nonsense, etc, etc.... If she's truly more than the side chick, then some serious decisions need to be made on his part. The funny thing about this is that it implies.one womannis more.special.than they other when they are both being treated like garbage by the man. The wife nor the sidekick means absolutely shit.
I hate to hear dumb ass women say she was just the ho or sidekick, but im the wife.
Girls, he don't give a fuck about either of you.
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negroplease
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Feb 14 2013, 08:25 PM
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If a couple break up after Valentines Day, they didn't have shit anyways. I don't eat fucking candy nor need flowers or a gift. If a woman is that simple to leave, let her ass go.
Agree...
But they arent breaking up because of lack of gifts. Just as jaywood others stated.....this is the time you get caught up. Everyone has these loves on the sideline and try to juggle it on this day and get caught up But some people realize today that they may not love this person like that thought
......but the side chick should know that she doesn't get the holiday. She gets the day before or the day after the holiday.
Lol come on now.....we got females wanting niggas to leave their wives
And men wanting women to leave their husbands.
Truthie!! Your side boo trying to get you to leave huh?
No side boo here. But, a few years ago, a guy was.....almost obsessed, or crazy. He was a client. I told him I wasn't interested nicely. But he always flirted regardless. One day he called my work cell, and....I think he was masturbating or something. Telling me he loves me and wants to take care of me. I went 63rd Street Southside Chicago on him. Ye' knows what I mean. I had to cut him up verbally, and told him if I so much as see his number on my screen, I will call his girl and tell him who's drawers he's trying to get into. It was crazy. Some dudes are lab cases. No way Truthie, only women do that crazy stuff.
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Negrodamus
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Feb 14 2013, 08:25 PM
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If a couple break up after Valentines Day, they didn't have shit anyways. I don't eat fucking candy nor need flowers or a gift. If a woman is that simple to leave, let her ass go.
Agree...
But they arent breaking up because of lack of gifts. Just as jaywood others stated.....this is the time you get caught up. Everyone has these loves on the sideline and try to juggle it on this day and get caught up But some people realize today that they may not love this person like that thought
......but the side chick should know that she doesn't get the holiday. She gets the day before or the day after the holiday.
Lol come on now.....we got females wanting niggas to leave their wives
.....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true. The man probably said the "L" word, dogged out the wife, discussed his unhappiness, filled her head with hopes, dreams, and nonsense, etc, etc.... If she's truly more than the side chick, then some serious decisions need to be made on his part.
The funny thing about this is that it implies.one womannis more.special.than they other when they are both being treated like garbage by the man. The wife nor the sidekick means absolutely shit. I hate to hear dumb ass women say she was just the ho or sidekick, but im the wife. Girls, he don't give a fuck about either of you. They sound like my type of woman.
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negroplease
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Feb 14 2013, 08:27 PM
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Rico, that ain't gone fly with this boo you are pursuing.
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Feb 14 2013, 08:28 PM
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If a couple break up after Valentines Day, they didn't have shit anyways. I don't eat fucking candy nor need flowers or a gift. If a woman is that simple to leave, let her ass go.
Agree...
But they arent breaking up because of lack of gifts. Just as jaywood others stated.....this is the time you get caught up. Everyone has these loves on the sideline and try to juggle it on this day and get caught up But some people realize today that they may not love this person like that thought
......but the side chick should know that she doesn't get the holiday. She gets the day before or the day after the holiday.
Lol come on now.....we got females wanting niggas to leave their wives
.....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true. The man probably said the "L" word, dogged out the wife, discussed his unhappiness, filled her head with hopes, dreams, and nonsense, etc, etc.... If she's truly more than the side chick, then some serious decisions need to be made on his part.
The funny thing about this is that it implies.one womannis more.special.than they other when they are both being treated like garbage by the man. The wife nor the sidekick means absolutely shit. I hate to hear dumb ass women say she was just the ho or sidekick, but im the wife. Girls, he don't give a fuck about either of you. At the end of the day, that's true. He's playing both.
....but there is still one that he's treating better than the other. He's taking one out in public and that's the main chick.
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Negrodamus
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Feb 14 2013, 08:29 PM
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Rico, that ain't gone fly with this boo you are pursuing. Who am I pursuing?
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Feb 14 2013, 08:31 PM
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Rico, that ain't gone fly with this boo you are pursuing.
Who am I pursuing? Uuuum, the teddy bear....the beautiful flowers..the chocolate...from earlier today??
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negroplease
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Feb 14 2013, 08:32 PM
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If you consider going out in public but being cheated on and lied to better.
Lol, I guess its all perspective.
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Feb 14 2013, 08:36 PM
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If you consider going out in public but being cheated on and lied to better.
Lol, I guess its all perspective. All I'm saying is that there's one he values more. It's not just going out in public.
It's meeting the family, socializing with his friends, stuff couples do....
I wouldn't brag if I had a husband and he was cheating on me. Just cause I'm the wife, doesn't make me feel much better. But the wife does have the upper hand, over the side chick, in my opinion.
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Feb 14 2013, 08:39 PM
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....then, more than likely, that's the man's fault. Men tell women all kinds of stuff. There's no reason she should think she's anything more than the side chick, unless it's true.
As much as that would be nice...its not the case alot of times.
Sideline chicks get tired of being that sideline chick. Tired of being hidden and they want the man to themselves.
It always start off
"I got a woman, lay low and we can do whatever"
But later on down the line jealousy kick in or she just cant control them emotions and try to step in. It happens alot...dont make this the mans fault. Its both sides....alot of times the bitch know the man is a relationship but she go for the dick anyway and she actually like the fact she is on the side and the man is lying to his wife. Emotions kick in and then she wanna do dumb shit like call the wife or get the nigga get caught up.
Alot of times the man is telling the side line bitch all the negative shit about his wife. What she dont do, what she complain about. After a while the sideline bitch feel she is better than the wife and the man needs to leave her.
As far as what men do, men play like a fuckin friend. Waiting and waiting on the sideline. Difference between a sideline punk bitch (Man) and sideline bitch (Female) is the punk bitch dont get no pussy. He play friend, buy her gifts and be the shoulder she cry on. After a while the nigga wanna express his feelings. Like the sideline bitch the sideline punk bitch had an open ear to all the shit the significant other wasnt doing right and he feel he can treat her better.
So no its majority not the mans fault.
Though women and men do cheat......most long term affairs both parties are well aware they are hurting the other and sideline punk bitches are well aware the female got a man.
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