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relationship question; what would you do
Topic Started: Feb 14 2013, 10:56 AM (2,316 Views)
Ether

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Feb 14 2013, 11:44 AM
Shit. Now it's complicated.

I still go with being honest and upfront about it. Keeping it a secret and what if she somehow finds out later? That looks suspicious, she could fucking ask, "Why didn't you tell me unless you're guilty?"

Now if it was something like flowers or balloons i would play it off and re-gift it to my girl. I will take a female gift to me and turn it into a gift for her lol.


Panties....not so much
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LadyBug1
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He should tell her.....

If SHE sent them, and he doesn't mention them, then she'd KNOW that he keeps secrets from her, whereas before she was just assuming. Or, what if she sent them, in an attempt to be sexy and try something new and different? Her feelings will be hurt. Plus, she'll be mad that he didn't say anything.

You said she was insecure. If she didn't send them, and he told her about them anyway, then maybe she will start trusting him.

All he has to do is play crazy and act like she sent them, even though he has no idea whether she did or not.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Do they look like panties that would fit her?
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Ether

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If SHE sent them, and he doesn't mention them, then she'd KNOW that he keeps secrets from her


So women feel they need to know every little thing even if its held back for the better?
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Ether

Snidely Whiplash
Feb 14 2013, 12:00 PM
Do they look like panties that would fit her?
I would assume so, i aint seen em. Thats a good question though...
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negroplease

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Feb 14 2013, 12:01 PM
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If SHE sent them, and he doesn't mention them, then she'd KNOW that he keeps secrets from her


So women feel they need to know every little thing even if its held back for the better?
What types of things are held back for the better?

Real question, no sarcasm.
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VoiceofReason

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Feb 14 2013, 10:59 AM
Paraffin
Feb 14 2013, 10:58 AM
Ask. Why the hell not? You're not guilty so why feel the need to hide the shit?

Yup.
Co-signed twice.
Edited by VoiceofReason, Feb 14 2013, 12:07 PM.
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VoiceofReason

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Feb 14 2013, 12:06 PM
Ye'
Feb 14 2013, 12:01 PM
Quote:
 
If SHE sent them, and he doesn't mention them, then she'd KNOW that he keeps secrets from her


So women feel they need to know every little thing even if its held back for the better?
What types of things are held back for the better?

Real question, no sarcasm.
Co-question. Co-sign. Co-whatever!

I'm asking the question too. ^_^
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Ether

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Feb 14 2013, 12:06 PM
Ye'
Feb 14 2013, 12:01 PM
Quote:
 
If SHE sent them, and he doesn't mention them, then she'd KNOW that he keeps secrets from her


So women feel they need to know every little thing even if its held back for the better?
What types of things are held back for the better?

Real question, no sarcasm.
Do you need to tell your significant other everytime a man gives you his number?

Do you need to tell him everytime a man hits on you on social media?


See this is how drama starts.


Example being....i flirt with some of you ladies on here and we may send pms to each other than can be taken out of context. Do i tell her i flirt with yall?

Nope.....its harmless and none of her business....


But say she went in my inbox, i left it logged on. And sees the cute little nicknames truthie calls me. And i talk back to her and dont say "HEY, dont call me that"


She can take it as im a liar and possibly cheating which damages trust. Even though 3000 posts back i explain to everyone im in a relationship.






Ok another example, lets say a girl gives you her number. You dont tell her, why should you. You not calling the bitch.....but lets say you put it in your pocket and she did your laundry and found it. This brings drama.....


Why didnt you tell her about it
How often do you get numbers
Who is she
And why didnt you throw it away, you must of thought about calling her
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VoiceofReason

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But say she went in my inbox, i left it logged on. And sees the cute little nicknames truthie calls me. And i talk back to her and dont say "HEY, dont call me that"


Lol, damn, why I got to be the example? Lol.
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