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Topic Started: Jan 19 2013, 12:44 PM (1,060 Views)
negroplease

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Jan 19 2013, 04:59 PM
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Just accept what reality shows you and be yourself.


:wub:
Reality is different depending on who you are dealing with.

If reality with one person I am dealing with shows me sexism, Im going to be my self and not accept it.

If reality shows me equality with another, I am going to be myself and appreciate it.

Here, he wants us to accept his reality and be the self he thinks women are supposed to be.




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Paraffin
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Jan 19 2013, 05:17 PM
Snidely Whiplash
Jan 19 2013, 02:57 PM
Happy to see you've included that term in your lexicon :D
Ok, I'm just being an asshole or as mimi would say, snideazzz. I kinda like that by the way :D

As for your topic. CB is way out to lunch on many issues and I suspect many here wouldn't argue with that.
SUA, it's not so much your case except in your views of what men should do or be as opposed to the reality of who we are as men.

Look, I remember when I was very young, dumb, and fulla cum. I would see these girls with guys who were kinda assholes and not necessarily the best looking guys, even though these girls looked good. I'm not saying I was prince charming but it seemed to go against what some of these girls were saying about the kind of guys they liked.
I then learned quickly not to try and figure out and make sense of any of what the girls said. Just accept what reality shows you and be yourself.

My point. The pschobabble stuff is just that. If a theory doesn't support what actually is, you discard it because it only waste time. In this case discard the psychobabble. B-)
The thing about the reality of who men are, is that not all men are like you.

Some are far worse in their views, and some far better with their views.

You seem to think every man thinks like you and that is my issue.

You seem to want to blame things on nature, when reality shows many views are caused by nurture.

And you need to accept the reality of me as a woman and my views. And how they differ from yours and how they differ from other women.

You really need to face that not every man is like you, and for some reason, you seem to think that is the case.

This is my issue.

And obviously, you have an issue with psychobabble.

Now, about Cissly. Some of her views are extreme, but she has good points.

Some of your views are extreme, but you have good points.

Do all of your points and her points apply to everyone. Hell no.

And therein lies the problem, because you and her tend to think they do.

Just as what you said about me discarding something that doesnt support my theory, I regret to inform you that you have done the same.

Theories, are theories, they are not absolute truth. So of course you discard, but what actually is FOR YOU, is not what actually is for everyone else. You do realize that right?

Now if you tell me all women need to accept some sexist bullshit, when they have minds of their own, the ability to support themselves, etc, etc, why would I accept that.

Bottom line, dont make someone try to swallow what you believe because you think it is factual.

And you dont see me doing that, I always try to look at all sides of the picture.




SUA is fair and balanced.. Smart cookie.
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Yup.
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negroplease

Paraffin
Jan 19 2013, 05:23 PM
shutupalready
Jan 19 2013, 05:17 PM
Snidely Whiplash
Jan 19 2013, 02:57 PM
Happy to see you've included that term in your lexicon :D
Ok, I'm just being an asshole or as mimi would say, snideazzz. I kinda like that by the way :D

As for your topic. CB is way out to lunch on many issues and I suspect many here wouldn't argue with that.
SUA, it's not so much your case except in your views of what men should do or be as opposed to the reality of who we are as men.

Look, I remember when I was very young, dumb, and fulla cum. I would see these girls with guys who were kinda assholes and not necessarily the best looking guys, even though these girls looked good. I'm not saying I was prince charming but it seemed to go against what some of these girls were saying about the kind of guys they liked.
I then learned quickly not to try and figure out and make sense of any of what the girls said. Just accept what reality shows you and be yourself.

My point. The pschobabble stuff is just that. If a theory doesn't support what actually is, you discard it because it only waste time. In this case discard the psychobabble. B-)
The thing about the reality of who men are, is that not all men are like you.

Some are far worse in their views, and some far better with their views.

You seem to think every man thinks like you and that is my issue.

You seem to want to blame things on nature, when reality shows many views are caused by nurture.

And you need to accept the reality of me as a woman and my views. And how they differ from yours and how they differ from other women.

You really need to face that not every man is like you, and for some reason, you seem to think that is the case.

This is my issue.

And obviously, you have an issue with psychobabble.

Now, about Cissly. Some of her views are extreme, but she has good points.

Some of your views are extreme, but you have good points.

Do all of your points and her points apply to everyone. Hell no.

And therein lies the problem, because you and her tend to think they do.

Just as what you said about me discarding something that doesnt support my theory, I regret to inform you that you have done the same.

Theories, are theories, they are not absolute truth. So of course you discard, but what actually is FOR YOU, is not what actually is for everyone else. You do realize that right?

Now if you tell me all women need to accept some sexist bullshit, when they have minds of their own, the ability to support themselves, etc, etc, why would I accept that.

Bottom line, dont make someone try to swallow what you believe because you think it is factual.

And you dont see me doing that, I always try to look at all sides of the picture.




SUA is fair and balanced.. Smart cookie.
Well, except when I am purposefully being a smart ass, which happens a lot on this board.
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cisslybee2012
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@ Shutup

If a woman really want a relationship with a man, she can have that.

But not if she have to have a man just because she don't have one. That's a whole different situation that will render her a whole different set of results.

And it's never a good idea for a woman to go to a man for advice about that. Especially to disrespectful men who are about getting the booty. Or some female who don't even know where her man is at 3 AM?


What can they possibly tell you?
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72MiMi
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Jan 19 2013, 05:21 PM
Truthie
Jan 19 2013, 04:59 PM
Quote:
 
Just accept what reality shows you and be yourself.


:wub:
Reality is different depending on who you are dealing with.

If reality with one person I am dealing with shows me sexism, Im going to be my self and not accept it.

If reality shows me equality with another, I am going to be myself and appreciate it.

Here, he wants us to accept his reality and be the self he thinks women are supposed to be.




Thank you....now I won't have to say it and get cussed out for doing so ^o)
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Truthie
Jan 19 2013, 01:30 PM
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Jan 19 2013, 12:44 PM
So in another thread, I offered insight into why I thought Tiger cheated, but it was dismissed as psychobabble by my main man Snidely.

Now in the same breath, Snidely has attempted to explain why he thinks Cissly and I have our views and why we are.the way we are.

I ask you, ain't that psychobabble too?

Yes or.no?

Or are only you allowed to analyze things?


Denial ain't.just a river in Egypt.

I think I'd call that just plain rude. Or perhaps narcissistic in terms of feeling superior to others. Oh wait, I'm doing it too arent I? Lol!
It's OK....it's reality!
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negroplease

cisslybee2012
Jan 19 2013, 06:15 PM
@ Shutup

If a woman really want a relationship with a man, she can have that.

But not if she have to have a man just because she don't have one. That's a whole different situation that will render her a whole different set of results.

And it's never a good idea for a woman to go to a man for advice about that. Especially to disrespectful men who are about getting the booty. Or some female who don't even know where her man is at 3 AM?


What can they possibly tell you?
Who is asking for advice?


But i understand your point.
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cisslybee2012
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Jan 19 2013, 06:19 PM
cisslybee2012
Jan 19 2013, 06:15 PM
@ Shutup

If a woman really want a relationship with a man, she can have that.

But not if she have to have a man just because she don't have one. That's a whole different situation that will render her a whole different set of results.

And it's never a good idea for a woman to go to a man for advice about that. Especially to disrespectful men who are about getting the booty. Or some female who don't even know where her man is at 3 AM?


What can they possibly tell you?
Who is asking for advice?


But i understand your point.
Well you asked if what Snidely said was psychobable too, and if only they are allowed to analyze.

So I'm only trying to point out that Snidely isn't somebody whose commentary on relationships should be taken seriously enough to question.
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negroplease

cisslybee2012
Jan 19 2013, 06:34 PM
shutupalready
Jan 19 2013, 06:19 PM
cisslybee2012
Jan 19 2013, 06:15 PM
@ Shutup

If a woman really want a relationship with a man, she can have that.

But not if she have to have a man just because she don't have one. That's a whole different situation that will render her a whole different set of results.

And it's never a good idea for a woman to go to a man for advice about that. Especially to disrespectful men who are about getting the booty. Or some female who don't even know where her man is at 3 AM?


What can they possibly tell you?
Who is asking for advice?


But i understand your point.
Well you asked if what Snidely said was psychobable too, and if only they are allowed to analyze.

So I'm only trying to point out that Snidely isn't somebody whose commentary on relationships should be taken seriously enough to question.
Actually,

I wasn't asking him. I was sarcastically telling him.thatbis what it was by asking him a question.

I would never ask Snidely for.advice.
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