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What Are You Willing To Tolerate; Your breaking point before you tell someone to get the F--k on.
Topic Started: Jan 14 2013, 09:23 PM (1,069 Views)
cisslybee2012
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Jan 14 2013, 09:23 PM
The other day, a poster alluded to an issue that took placed on my block about two months ago. A neighbor, down the street from where I live, got into a heated exchange with his wife resulting in the police being called.

Come to find out, he had viciously assaulted his wife, sending her to the hospital.

Fast forward a week or so later, she’s back home with her family and the two of them look as natural as an oak tree shedding leaves for the fall season.

Not knowing the dynamics of their situation, nor do I care to be privy to such information, I’m wonder, what is the breaking point for a person; the line that no one should cross; the DEAL BREAKER that ends relationships?

There are numerous reasons why people stay in relationships and of course it all depends on the person,

However, I thought this would be interesting (considering the video depicting a man screaming at the top of his lungs demanding a lady to get lost) to know what a person is willing to tolerate.
She goes back because she construes his pleas as love for her and want to believe that he won't do it again. Just because he's pleading.

So basically,

It hasn't occurred to her yet that he's full of shit and simply messing with her. In other words, appealing to her weaknesses. Her feelings.

These situations are the staple of relationships. And the tragedy of it is that in many if not most cases, he has to do something really messed up to her to make her come to her senses and go for good.

Such as a situation with a friend of mine for instance.

She saw her brawling relationship with a guy as love. With him raising hell on her job and running all friends and family off. The fist fights between them all seemed like real love to her. She literally interpreted it as obsession with her. Which drove her ego thru roof and made her feel like she's so hot that the man can't resist her.

So it took the man stabbing her with a knife to bring her out of her fantasy world and to her conscious senses and leave for good.
Edited by cisslybee2012, Jan 16 2013, 10:25 PM.
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