| What Are You Willing To Tolerate; Your breaking point before you tell someone to get the F--k on. | |
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| Topic Started: Jan 14 2013, 09:23 PM (1,071 Views) | |
| BGF | Jan 15 2013, 05:36 PM Post #11 |
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I hear you SUA, people should keep their damn hands to themselves. It all starts with abusive language, to intimemdation, to physical abuse. One hit here, "oh I' m sorry, I didn't mean it" to I'm going to fuck you up. Next thing you know, it an way of life. Shit doesn't get better move the fuck on! |
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| VoiceofReason | Jan 15 2013, 10:19 PM Post #12 |
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I've gotten into an altercation one time as an "adult", early 20's, with a boyfriend at the time. I don't remember what it was about but at the end of it all, as I lay trying to sleep that night, I realized that I was terrified of the possibilities. The man was a foot taller than me! I was lucky. I got up, got his stuff together that had been at my place, put it all in garbage bags, and delivered it neatly and without fanfare, to the steps of his mothers house. There was no getting back together, there was no need to talk it out, it was simply over in my book. Before that event, a man putting his hands on me in anger was a deal-breaker. So yes, you can know what you're willing to tolerate. Edited by VoiceofReason, Jan 15 2013, 10:53 PM.
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| Backbone | Jan 15 2013, 11:10 PM Post #13 |
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Habitual liar, that my number one deal breaker. There’s a saying, if you will lie, you will cheat, if you will cheat, you will steal, and so on and so on.... When you are force to be concern about you partner then its time to make a change. Question for those who say physical abuse is a deal breaker, are we talking about an one time smack or multiple punches? For me, one time can be a deal breaker. |
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| LadyBug1 | Jan 15 2013, 11:14 PM Post #14 |
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Mental abuse can be just as bad, if not worse for some people. |
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| VoiceofReason | Jan 15 2013, 11:15 PM Post #15 |
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Yeah, lying is a good one. As far as the physical abuse.... I don't think people were meant to be hit. Period. So, one act of attempting to hurt me physically, was it. |
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| negroplease | Jan 15 2013, 11:20 PM Post #16 |
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One time is a deal breaker. That's all I need to know. You are a violent person and you need to get the hell away from me. |
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| Backbone | Jan 15 2013, 11:37 PM Post #17 |
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I wish more sister would recognize such violent behavior and act accordantly. Edited by Backbone, Jan 15 2013, 11:47 PM.
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| Backbone | Jan 15 2013, 11:49 PM Post #18 |
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| ALO | Jan 16 2013, 01:51 AM Post #19 |
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My friend says that saying "if you will lie, you will cheat, if you will cheat, you will steal, and so on and so on.... Thats pure bullshit, I know many people who lie and they don't steel,cheat or kill etc. |
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| BGF | Jan 16 2013, 12:01 PM Post #20 |
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That you know of, most people that lie usually are willing to cheat in life on something. Lets not be naive here. |
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