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| Topic Started: Jan 6 2013, 02:47 AM (2,837 Views) | |
| Deleted User | Jan 6 2013, 02:47 AM Post #1 |
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have to let someone what he or she expects in a relationship. Here is what I expect. 1) No bullshit. 2) Make it clear with me that we are in a serious relationship. 3) Do not ask me for anything that cost more than 25 dollars unless you have sucked my dick until I skeeted. 4) I am not a free taxi service or an errand boy. 5) I am not a welfare office. 6) Hit me, and I will hit back. Nine times out of ten, I hit much harder. 7) You break it, you bought it. 8) I drink when I can. Fuck up my drinking schedule, and I will fuck you up. |
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| Glenn D. | Jan 6 2013, 12:24 PM Post #2 |
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What I expect from a relationship; I expect a woman to be faithfull. If she meets someone she just has to have... let me know and we can both move on. If she come back on the rebound she will never hold the same place of trust, respect, and unconditional love again. If she cheats in heart or body I will do any, and everything I can short of violence to halp her feel the pain she cause me. I expect a woman to support me in my endeavors. I expect her to stand with me in the difficult times, as well as enjoy the good times with me. I expect the truth in all matters. I dont care who she lies to or how often she does it. As long as she's honest with me. I need trust in a relationship. A person who lies can not be trusted. When I'm out and about making our way in the world I dont want to have any concerns about where she is, and what she's doing. She's my partner... I have to trust my partner. A woman must accept me for who I am. I'm not going to change, I dont need fixing or adjusting. What you see is what you get. If she cant deal with that... speak up and move on. The woman in my world must understand that I derive much of my strength from hers. I need someone I can put down my guard, and be comfortable that what is between us stays just that... betwen us. She must be my confidant. She must keep our secrets. Sex. For me sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. It's the medicine for a relationship that may be ill. And it's a hell of a lot of fun. I must have a woman who never use sex as a weapon, or a tool. When I need or want sex it would be on her to give me what I need. Of course there will be exceptions... As much as I like sex I'm a man who would scrifice some to make her happy on occasion. If sex is a problem... there is no relationship. Now these are not demands... they are a contract. I am not only willing I have the need to give the same to her. Again I want a woman to be my partner... sometimes my leader if need be... So I need to trust her... IMO the level of trust determines the quality of the relationship. Now if she can cook, squirt, clean, is attractive, funny, has eye's that match, has apple sized boobies, has money, can sing..... any of that is gravy... none of the above is a deal breaker. |
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| LadyBug1 | Jan 6 2013, 12:32 PM Post #3 |
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lol....you mean your personal property, like she's in a chinaware store? |
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| Deleted User | Jan 6 2013, 12:34 PM Post #4 |
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Damn right. |
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| LadyBug1 | Jan 6 2013, 12:42 PM Post #5 |
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Well, people do bump into things, ACCIDENTALLY. Then, she can always refer you to #3. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 6 2013, 12:48 PM Post #6 |
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She sure can. |
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| LadyBug1 | Jan 6 2013, 12:49 PM Post #7 |
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LOL!!!!! |
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| Paraffin | Jan 6 2013, 02:21 PM Post #8 |
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Yep. Sex-I agree some women use it as a weapon. This is fucked up. Take that anger passion to bed and let it all out! Honesty-this is very important also but in my experience, some folks don't handle it well. They would rather be lied to knowing its a lie than deal with the truth. Fucked up. Change-no shit! Many folks try to change each other. It won't work. Usually it causes resentment or anger. My girl, she loves me even though she fucking KNOWS who I am. But that's her though, she angelically accepts almost anyone for who they are. Support-this is important! Some folks think they are supportive but are hurting instead. I've learned this lesson recently with my girl. You made good points! |
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| negroplease | Jan 6 2013, 03:28 PM Post #9 |
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You people should read up on emotional unavailability. It fits for some of you. |
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| Deleted User | Jan 6 2013, 04:13 PM Post #10 |
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I don't care. |
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