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What age should a person get married by; Is it time for me to panic?
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Topic Started: Dec 21 2012, 11:12 PM (3,461 Views)
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VoiceofReason
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Jan 3 2013, 01:31 AM
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I dont think anyone should get married before age 30.
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defiance
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Jan 3 2013, 01:34 AM
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- Zen
- Jan 3 2013, 01:31 AM
- Dee
- Jan 3 2013, 01:29 AM
- Zen
- Jan 2 2013, 06:34 AM
- Cartman
- Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
My guess is that she needs attention and doesn't know how to get it unless being confrontational/ shocking / dramatic........or is the bitch just crazy?
If a chick is in her 30s and still playing games like a damn high school student, then she shouldn't bitch about men avoiding putting a ring on her finger. Players and pimps can spot a chick like that a mile away so they can play those bitches or put them out on the block to make money off of them. When those same chicks are in their 50s, they want to blame Black men for giving them HIV, herpes, bastard children, and fucked up credit. LOL.
Preach..... Some black women don't mature......ever. very true bro, thats why so many are alone.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Jan 3 2013, 01:35 AM
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- defiance
- Jan 3 2013, 01:23 AM
- Zen
- Jan 3 2013, 01:19 AM
- Truthie
- Dec 31 2012, 12:22 PM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life! There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other.......... Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers.
Amen, you spoke the truth bro. Bro, that's the truthful locker room talk sistas don't like to hear.
I pretty much said the same thing to this one sista I know who's past 40 now. I pretty much told her what you said and to get with the program more than a dozen years ago. Now she's talkin' bout she can't find a good man. She played herself. Back in the day when was she was the 20 something she could get away with it but not today.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Jan 3 2013, 01:36 AM
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- Truthie
- Jan 3 2013, 01:27 AM
- Snidely Whiplash
- Jan 3 2013, 01:14 AM
- Truthie
- Jan 3 2013, 12:58 AM
What you're both saying is looks are the most important thing when it comes to deciding who will be your wife. That's immature thinking, and stupid because men do it when you get older too.
There's no denying that looks is a part of the reality Truthie. Besides, aren't you happy to know that one of the main reasons your man chose you was your looks
He chose me for the whole package, as I did him. Yah!
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Zen
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Jan 3 2013, 01:39 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 01:27 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 01:19 AM
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- Dec 31 2012, 12:22 PM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life! There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other.......... Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers.
Lol! I laugh in the face of lies! Ha ha ha! It's a shame Zen that you just go around trying to insult people...says something about you. Not anything good unfortunately. Hold your chin up Sis. I'm not trying to bash you. I responded to the Original Poster about why she should consider getting married and some of the downfalls of not TAKING ADVANTAGE OF A GOOD OPPORTUNITY WHILE YOU HAVE THE CHANCE. Then you stepped in............
I believe it is better to have love and lost than to have never loved at all.
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Zen
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Jan 3 2013, 01:43 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 01:35 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 01:23 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 01:19 AM
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- Dec 31 2012, 12:22 PM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life! There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other.......... Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers.
Amen, you spoke the truth bro.
Bro, that's the truthful locker room talk sistas don't like to hear. I pretty much said the same thing to this one sista I know who's past 40 now. I pretty much told her what you said and to get with the program more than a dozen years ago. Now she's talkin' bout she can't find a good man. She played herself. Back in the day when was she was the 20 something she could get away with it but not today. Biz Markie said it best, "They catch the Vapors"
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Chicago
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Jan 3 2013, 02:25 AM
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The worst thing you can do is rush into a marriage thinking that you should be married by a certain age.
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Jan 3 2013, 02:36 AM
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- Snidely Whiplash
- Jan 3 2013, 01:35 AM
- defiance
- Jan 3 2013, 01:23 AM
- Zen
- Jan 3 2013, 01:19 AM
- Truthie
- Dec 31 2012, 12:22 PM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life! There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other.......... Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers.
Amen, you spoke the truth bro.
Bro, that's the truthful locker room talk sistas don't like to hear. I pretty much said the same thing to this one sista I know who's past 40 now. I pretty much told her what you said and to get with the program more than a dozen years ago. Now she's talkin' bout she can't find a good man. She played herself. Back in the day when was she was the 20 something she could get away with it but not today. Chicks who are near 40 think they can do the same shit, and they will be like Ciss when they hit 60.
You can't tell me that Ciss doesn't look used up. You know damn well she was sucking off players, pimps, and hood niggas 30 years ago while breaking them off some cash.
That's why she thinks all Black men only want money and sex out of her.
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Jan 3 2013, 02:43 AM
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I don't have the time or energy to play with chicks and their retarded ass games.
If I am not hitting the pussy or getting head with in a month, I tell them that I just hooked up with another chick, even if I really haven't.
I expect for chicks in their early 20s to be doing that dumb shit, but if a chick is in her late 20s then she needs to just put herself on the block or put out ads on adultfriendfinder.com to sell her pussy. I would say Craig's List, but the cops are cutting down on that shit, and I am sick of my tax dollars going towards retarded ass bitches in jail.
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Zen
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Jan 3 2013, 02:52 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 02:43 AM
I don't have the time or energy to play with chicks and their retarded ass games.
If I am not hitting the pussy or getting head with in a month, I tell them that I just hooked up with another chick, even if I really haven't.
I expect for chicks in their early 20s to be doing that dumb shit, but if a chick is in her late 20s then she needs to just put herself on the block or put out ads on adultfriendfinder.com to sell her pussy. I would say Craig's List, but the cops are cutting down on that shit, and I am sick of my tax dollars going towards retarded ass bitches in jail. True........
backpage.com is where it's at too....
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