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What age should a person get married by; Is it time for me to panic?
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Topic Started: Dec 21 2012, 11:12 PM (3,462 Views)
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VoiceofReason
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Jan 3 2013, 12:58 AM
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What you're both saying is looks are the most important thing when it comes to deciding who will be your wife. That's immature thinking, and stupid because men do it when you get older too.
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defiance
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Jan 3 2013, 01:00 AM
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- Truthie
- Jan 3 2013, 12:51 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 12:51 AM
- Truthie
- Jan 3 2013, 12:50 AM
- defiance
- Jan 3 2013, 12:50 AM
I only date women under 25.
And your age is?
32
25 is about the right age for you. But younger? I had a friend who liked his women young & dumb - is that your m.o. too? I act this way for personal reasons. I use to let women fuk me over. I just play em now and keep it moving. I have everything to offer a woman but they just took advantage. They made me the individual that I am today.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Jan 3 2013, 01:10 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 12:39 AM
- defiance
- Jan 3 2013, 12:34 AM
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- Dec 31 2012, 01:14 PM
Lol this is why people think so lowly of black men.
Fucked up mindsets.
And let's not act like there are all these.single.black women out here, while so many black men are married.
They are.either.married to a.black.woman, in jail, on drugs, emotionally unavailable and fucked up in so many.ways that they try to lead the player life or dead. Oh and that small percent that marries interracially.
nigas aint marrying bw thats why there are so many bw who are single,not married with a shitload of kids.
Well, if the post from some of these black women on this board are indicators of who they are, who the heck would marry 'em, black, white, asian or otherwise.
I'm sure the same could be said about the men who posted here. I'm sure
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Snidely Whiplash
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Jan 3 2013, 01:14 AM
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What you're both saying is looks are the most important thing when it comes to deciding who will be your wife. That's immature thinking, and stupid because men do it when you get older too. There's no denying that looks is a part of the reality Truthie. Besides, aren't you happy to know that one of the main reasons your man chose you was your looks
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Zen
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Jan 3 2013, 01:19 AM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by. The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life!
There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other..........
Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers.
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defiance
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Jan 3 2013, 01:23 AM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life! There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other.......... Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers. Amen, you spoke the truth bro.
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VoiceofReason
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Jan 3 2013, 01:27 AM
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What you're both saying is looks are the most important thing when it comes to deciding who will be your wife. That's immature thinking, and stupid because men do it when you get older too.
There's no denying that looks is a part of the reality Truthie. Besides, aren't you happy to know that one of the main reasons your man chose you was your looks He chose me for the whole package, as I did him.
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VoiceofReason
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Jan 3 2013, 01:27 AM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
The older you got; you began to notice that the established, single black men were not attracted to you anymore. The bullshit games you played on good black men in your twenties had come back to bite your ass. You and older girlfriends also recognized that there was stiff competition for these elite brothers and with your aging features, y'all just couldn't pull 'em like you used to....." so you focused on your careers". Now all you do is take vacations to some island, spend money on materialistic garbage (clothes you don't even wear), and ride around in luxury vehicles that you can't even afford to put gas in. What a waste of life! There is an abundance of quality, single black men. They just refuse to put up with the Bullshit from older, angry, aggressive black women. Half of y'all act like dudes. Therefore you get treated like dudes and talked to like dudes! Other races of women and young black women have taken the best men because they are more feminine; period. They are not as aggressive, promotional, coonish (professional black women act like Negro Bed Wench's in an office environment), and vindictive. Hell, y'all don't even like each other.......... Proposals came easy? Please don't lie to yourself..........proposals to you came from less than average brothers. Lol! I laugh in the face of lies! Ha ha ha!
It's a shame Zen that you just go around trying to insult people...says something about you. Not anything good unfortunately.
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Jan 3 2013, 01:29 AM
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- Zen
- Jan 2 2013, 06:34 AM
- Cartman
- Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
My guess is that she needs attention and doesn't know how to get it unless being confrontational/ shocking / dramatic........or is the bitch just crazy? If a chick is in her 30s and still playing games like a damn high school student, then she shouldn't bitch about men avoiding putting a ring on her finger. Players and pimps can spot a chick like that a mile away so they can play those bitches or put them out on the block to make money off of them.
When those same chicks are in their 50s, they want to blame Black men for giving them HIV, herpes, bastard children, and fucked up credit. LOL.
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Zen
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Jan 3 2013, 01:31 AM
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- Jan 3 2013, 01:29 AM
- Zen
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- Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
My guess is that she needs attention and doesn't know how to get it unless being confrontational/ shocking / dramatic........or is the bitch just crazy?
If a chick is in her 30s and still playing games like a damn high school student, then she shouldn't bitch about men avoiding putting a ring on her finger. Players and pimps can spot a chick like that a mile away so they can play those bitches or put them out on the block to make money off of them. When those same chicks are in their 50s, they want to blame Black men for giving them HIV, herpes, bastard children, and fucked up credit. LOL. Preach.....
Some black women don't mature......ever.
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