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What age should a person get married by; Is it time for me to panic?
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Topic Started: Dec 21 2012, 11:12 PM (3,464 Views)
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negroplease
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Dec 31 2012, 01:14 PM
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Lol this is why people think so lowly of black men.
Fucked up mindsets.
And let's not act like there are all these.single.black women out here, while so many black men are married.
They are.either.married to a.black.woman, in jail, on drugs, emotionally unavailable and fucked up in so many.ways that they try to lead the player life or dead. Oh and that small percent that marries interracially.
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VoiceofReason
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Dec 31 2012, 02:08 PM
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Oh and that small percent that marries interracially
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Snidely Whiplash
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Dec 31 2012, 05:29 PM
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- shutupalready
- Dec 31 2012, 01:14 PM
Lol this is why people think so lowly of black men.
Fucked up mindsets.
And let's not act like there are all these.single.black women out here, while so many black men are married.
They are.either.married to a.black.woman, in jail, on drugs, emotionally unavailable and fucked up in so many.ways that they try to lead the player life or dead. Oh and that small percent that marries interracially.
LOL. L'amour, l'amour.
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cisslybee2012
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Dec 31 2012, 09:15 PM
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- Rick1
- Dec 31 2012, 10:21 AM
You're 60 and haven't married so i see why you have given up. That's the truth this time?
You're 60?
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Zen
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Jan 2 2013, 06:30 AM
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- Paraffin
- Dec 31 2012, 12:18 PM
- Zen
- Dec 31 2012, 02:01 AM
- cisslybee2012
- Dec 30 2012, 04:46 PM
- Zen
- Dec 30 2012, 09:35 AM
Why would you tell a young woman not to marry? She may find success/love in a marriage. How else would she create a healthy family without even making the effort to marry.
It's old, bitter, lonely women like you that phuck it up for young women who are open to relationship/love. You give them phucked up advice based on your garbage experiences and warped their minds into a thinking about failure before they even give love/marriage/relationship a chance.
GTFOH........Hater!
I wouldn't tell anybody not to marry. It's none of my business. But why would you tell anybody to marry? Hater? Oh my. What violence beyond yonder window breaks. Is it East? Or is it West? What is it that I'm hating?
By advising young women not to marry, you are hating against the union of a man and woman for the purpose of pro-creating and establishing a family. Only an ignorant fool would speak against establishing love relationships or family. Your ideas promote broken homes, illegitimate children, children out of wedlock, baby mama drama, child-support, isolation, loneliness, single-parenting and all the garbage that INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMAN have created. Yes, that is my opinion.
So answer me this? Do you fucking think marriage is the anti- - Quote:
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broken homes, illegitimate children, children out of wedlock, baby mama drama, child-support, isolation, loneliness, single-parenting and all the garbage
Marriage is not a magic pill that will automatically cure the societal ills listed above that are prevalent in the Black Community. However; the list above has no chance in hell of being eliminated by this generation of "INDEPENDENCE". If we as Black people continue to advert marriage / raising children in a healthy, balanced home; we will no longer become relevant (except entertainers, athletes, artists, entreprenuers and the educated). The rest of y'all Shawty Lo/ Jerry Springer ass kneegrows will get outsourced or jailed. The welfare system will not exist forever - America can't afford it. The Latino population has over-taken ours because they are cultivating families. We will soon we will feel their power. If we keep this shit up African Americans (except those listed above) will be third-class citizens by 2030.
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Zen
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Jan 2 2013, 06:34 AM
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- Cartman
- Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
My guess is that she needs attention and doesn't know how to get it unless being confrontational/ shocking / dramatic........or is the bitch just crazy?
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defiance
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Jan 3 2013, 12:34 AM
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- shutupalready
- Dec 31 2012, 01:14 PM
Lol this is why people think so lowly of black men.
Fucked up mindsets.
And let's not act like there are all these.single.black women out here, while so many black men are married.
They are.either.married to a.black.woman, in jail, on drugs, emotionally unavailable and fucked up in so many.ways that they try to lead the player life or dead. Oh and that small percent that marries interracially.
nigas aint marrying bw thats why there are so many bw who are single,not married with a shitload of kids.
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defiance
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Jan 3 2013, 12:37 AM
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- Truthie
- Dec 31 2012, 12:22 PM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think. I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by. if a black woman is not married by the time she 35, it's over for her.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Jan 3 2013, 12:39 AM
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- defiance
- Jan 3 2013, 12:34 AM
- shutupalready
- Dec 31 2012, 01:14 PM
Lol this is why people think so lowly of black men.
Fucked up mindsets.
And let's not act like there are all these.single.black women out here, while so many black men are married.
They are.either.married to a.black.woman, in jail, on drugs, emotionally unavailable and fucked up in so many.ways that they try to lead the player life or dead. Oh and that small percent that marries interracially.
nigas aint marrying bw thats why there are so many bw who are single,not married with a shitload of kids. Well, if the post from some of these black women on this board are indicators of who they are, who the heck would marry 'em, black, white, asian or otherwise.
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defiance
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Jan 3 2013, 12:40 AM
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- Zen
- Jan 2 2013, 06:34 AM
- Cartman
- Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
My guess is that she needs attention and doesn't know how to get it unless being confrontational/ shocking / dramatic........or is the bitch just crazy? i noticed that about that chick.she crazy.
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