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What age should a person get married by; Is it time for me to panic?
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Topic Started: Dec 21 2012, 11:12 PM (3,465 Views)
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cisslybee2012
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Dec 31 2012, 02:05 AM
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- Zen
- Dec 31 2012, 02:02 AM
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- Dec 30 2012, 06:18 PM
Zen, don't know if you would have caught this but CB has some deep negative personal issues. These are reflected in all of her statements with respect to relationships.
I see bro. She's "Precious"......
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Zen
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Dec 31 2012, 02:22 AM
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Why would you tell a young woman not to marry? She may find success/love in a marriage. How else would she create a healthy family without even making the effort to marry.
Well, Zen, no one should feel as though their running out of time to "catch" a mate - husband or wife. You're missing that point. You say you're keeping it real, I say you're willing to think with your dick rather than your brain. I think folks, male and female, should consider marriage (if they are marriage-minded) when they've established themselves as self-sufficient and mature. How can I miss a point that wasn't made. You have revealed nothing.
You are very muched removed from REALITY. Or you just don't want to face it.
An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth. That is reality. Sure, be responsible with your choices of men and the depth of your relationships with them, but remember Cinderella......the clock is ticking.
I know that's not something you want to hear. Sure. I get that. But mortgage is due on the 1st of every month. The electric/utility bill is due every month. Some men know their child-support is due every month. People don't like to hear that either. But if we are not living in a reality that incorporates TIME and CONSEQUENCE; then you can get screwed!
Wake the Phuck up!
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cisslybee2012
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Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
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- Dec 31 2012, 02:22 AM
Wake the Phuck up! Now follow the bouncing ball:
THE LAST THING IN THE WORLD INEPT NEEDS IS TO MARRY EMPTY.
So fuck you man.
Nobody in their right mind want to marry you.
And you don't even want to get married. So you're advocating for nothing but your own ego food coming from women you think should be crying for any fool with a dick for a husband.
Fucking asshole.
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Cartman
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Dec 31 2012, 02:28 AM
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Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
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cisslybee2012
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Dec 31 2012, 02:30 AM
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Hey Zen, Ciss is a whack job. She also encourages women to cheat.
If marriage is your thing, then great. However marriage isn't for everyone.
Man shut up!
Fucking asshole!
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Snidely Whiplash
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Dec 31 2012, 02:37 AM
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Why would you tell a young woman not to marry? She may find success/love in a marriage. How else would she create a healthy family without even making the effort to marry.
Well, Zen, no one should feel as though their running out of time to "catch" a mate - husband or wife. You're missing that point. You say you're keeping it real, I say you're willing to think with your dick rather than your brain. I think folks, male and female, should consider marriage (if they are marriage-minded) when they've established themselves as self-sufficient and mature.
How can I miss a point that wasn't made. You have revealed nothing. You are very muched removed from REALITY. Or you just don't want to face it. An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth. That is reality. Sure, be responsible with your choices of men and the depth of your relationships with them, but remember Cinderella......the clock is ticking. I know that's not something you want to hear. Sure. I get that. But mortgage is due on the 1st of every month. The electric/utility bill is due every month. Some men know their child-support is due every month. People don't like to hear that either. But if we are not living in a reality that incorporates TIME and CONSEQUENCE; then you can get screwed! Wake the Phuck up! I hear ya bro. I hate to say it but I think some of this is the result of years of oprah. I honestly believe our mom's generation weren't nearly as delusional.
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cisslybee2012
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Dec 31 2012, 02:43 AM
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Why would you tell a young woman not to marry? She may find success/love in a marriage. How else would she create a healthy family without even making the effort to marry.
Well, Zen, no one should feel as though their running out of time to "catch" a mate - husband or wife. You're missing that point. You say you're keeping it real, I say you're willing to think with your dick rather than your brain. I think folks, male and female, should consider marriage (if they are marriage-minded) when they've established themselves as self-sufficient and mature.
How can I miss a point that wasn't made. You have revealed nothing. You are very muched removed from REALITY. Or you just don't want to face it. An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth. That is reality. Sure, be responsible with your choices of men and the depth of your relationships with them, but remember Cinderella......the clock is ticking. I know that's not something you want to hear. Sure. I get that. But mortgage is due on the 1st of every month. The electric/utility bill is due every month. Some men know their child-support is due every month. People don't like to hear that either. But if we are not living in a reality that incorporates TIME and CONSEQUENCE; then you can get screwed! Wake the Phuck up!
I hear ya bro. I hate to say it but I think some of this is the result of years of oprah. I honestly believe our mom's generation weren't nearly as delusional.
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Rick1
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Dec 31 2012, 10:21 AM
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You're 60 and haven't married so i see why you have given up.
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Paraffin
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Dec 31 2012, 12:18 PM
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- Dec 31 2012, 02:01 AM
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- Dec 30 2012, 09:35 AM
Why would you tell a young woman not to marry? She may find success/love in a marriage. How else would she create a healthy family without even making the effort to marry.
It's old, bitter, lonely women like you that phuck it up for young women who are open to relationship/love. You give them phucked up advice based on your garbage experiences and warped their minds into a thinking about failure before they even give love/marriage/relationship a chance.
GTFOH........Hater!
I wouldn't tell anybody not to marry. It's none of my business. But why would you tell anybody to marry? Hater? Oh my. What violence beyond yonder window breaks. Is it East? Or is it West? What is it that I'm hating?
By advising young women not to marry, you are hating against the union of a man and woman for the purpose of pro-creating and establishing a family. Only an ignorant fool would speak against establishing love relationships or family. Your ideas promote broken homes, illegitimate children, children out of wedlock, baby mama drama, child-support, isolation, loneliness, single-parenting and all the garbage that INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMAN have created. Yes, that is my opinion. So answer me this? Do you fucking think marriage is the anti-
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broken homes, illegitimate children, children out of wedlock, baby mama drama, child-support, isolation, loneliness, single-parenting and all the garbage
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VoiceofReason
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Dec 31 2012, 12:22 PM
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An African American woman's chances of marrying; significantly go down after the age of 30. That is the truth.
It may be true, but it may be true for different reasons than you think.
I got less and less interested in marriage the older, and more experienced, I got. And I know it's true for all of my female friends. Yeah, we talked about our biological clock, but we also talked about our careers being important, and the lack of quality men to date, much less consider for marriage. But proposals were easy to come by.
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