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SO WHEN DO WE TEACH OUR OFFSPRING DECENCY?
Topic Started: Nov 29 2012, 12:33 PM (711 Views)
UTB

When a child acts up at a young age, do the parent(s) attempt to teach them how to ACT around other people? I'm of the opinion that decency begins at home. First of all, their parent(s) has to act in a decent manner, which brings up another question and that is teaching your child manners. Now before some of you starting whining about "the white man and what he does", lets start with you. Good manners displayed around your children, will in most cases cause them to emulate what their parent(s) do. Once upon a time in the Black community, "Charm "schools existed to refine young girls and boys, but I'm afraid that has gone the way of the dinosaur. In these days and time, a young woman does not expect a male to open the door for her, nor stop cursing around her, because she does NOT demand respect, and no respect is given to her by disrespectful youths. While some attempt to make the excuse that times has changed, there are still some racial groups in this country that still have manners and respect due to their culture. As I've mentioned many times before,CULTURE TRUMPS RACE. Your culture determines who you are! In every group, there is a sub-culture that exists, and it is mainly this culture that causes problems. Until this sub-culture is made aware of this fact, I'm afraid that nothing is going to happen. If the parent(s) doesn't attempt to uplift the child's take on society, then we can expect things to get even worse. There are three thing my mother taught me at an early age.(1) Don't go to anyone house unless you let them know you are coming (2)Don't blow your car horn in front of someone's house, instead go and knock on their unless a bad dog is in their yard (3)Don't throw trash out of your car, keep it until you get home. While the advice might sound trite to some, I've never departed from this advice. While decency and manners is a learned behavior,most of the time it's taught and reinforced by the parent(s), not the streets.
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Negrodamus
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Is that all you ever do is whine about blacks blaming the white man?
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negroplease

UTB
Nov 29 2012, 12:33 PM
When a child acts up at a young age, do the parent(s) attempt to teach them how to ACT around other people? I'm of the opinion that decency begins at home. First of all, their parent(s) has to act in a decent manner, which brings up another question and that is teaching your child manners. Now before some of you starting whining about "the white man and what he does", lets start with you. Good manners displayed around your children, will in most cases cause them to emulate what their parent(s) do. Once upon a time in the Black community, "Charm "schools existed to refine young girls and boys, but I'm afraid that has gone the way of the dinosaur. In these days and time, a young woman does not expect a male to open the door for her, nor stop cursing around her, because she does NOT demand respect, and no respect is given to her by disrespectful youths. While some attempt to make the excuse that times has changed, there are still some racial groups in this country that still have manners and respect due to their culture. As I've mentioned many times before,CULTURE TRUMPS RACE. Your culture determines who you are! In every group, there is a sub-culture that exists, and it is mainly this culture that causes problems. Until this sub-culture is made aware of this fact, I'm afraid that nothing is going to happen. If the parent(s) doesn't attempt to uplift the child's take on society, then we can expect things to get even worse. There are three thing my mother taught me at an early age.(1) Don't go to anyone house unless you let them know you are coming (2)Don't blow your car horn in front of someone's house, instead go and knock on their unless a bad dog is in their yard (3)Don't throw trash out of your car, keep it until you get home. While the advice might sound trite to some, I've never departed from this advice. While decency and manners is a learned behavior,most of the time it's taught and reinforced by the parent(s), not the streets.
Why dont you go out and advocate for more charm schools and other programs you feel are needed?

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Conservatives we teach our offspring that as soon as they come into this world.
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negroplease

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Nov 29 2012, 01:45 PM
Conservatives we teach our offspring that as soon as they come into this world.
Do you have kids?
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Nov 29 2012, 01:45 PM
Conservatives we teach our offspring that as soon as they come into this world.
Yeah sure Rush Limbaugh, Newt and Herman Cain are great role models for purity.
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Nov 29 2012, 01:45 PM
Conservatives we teach our offspring that as soon as they come into this world.
Then you've apparently never been around a newborn ever. The only thing they want to do is sleep, eat, and, if it's a boy, piss in your damn face when you take the diaper off.

As for as UTB teaching her "offspring" anything? Don't ask us. You're supposed to be the one who's 80 years old.
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Nov 29 2012, 05:13 PM
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Nov 29 2012, 01:45 PM
Conservatives we teach our offspring that as soon as they come into this world.
Then you've apparently never been around a newborn ever. The only thing they want to do is sleep, eat, and, if it's a boy, piss in your damn face when you take the diaper off.

As for as UTB teaching her "offspring" anything? Don't ask us. You're supposed to be the one who's 80 years old.
Typical Nigger attitude! Instead of attacking the problem, they decide to attack me for saying it. All of my life, Niggers always attack the messenger instead of attacking the message. "The more things change, the more the remain the same"! Of course if you parents didn't teach you decency you will squeal about the poster that posted it!n I now ask the question, did YOUR parent(s) teach you any thing about getting along with people in society, or did they just didn't give a damn? I tend to think the latter occurred. I am NOT responsible for your actions, and you acting like a jungle savage,that is your PARENT9S) fault is, not mine! Among Blacks, some have dropped to the level of savagery, and it is NOT THE WHITE MAN'S FAULT! It is the fault of your sorry assed mammy! So come on wid it!
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If a child lives with criticism,
he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,
he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame,
he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,
he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,
he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,
he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,
he learns justice.
If a child lives with security,
he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,
he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
He learns to find love in the world

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Do Democrats teach their daughters that abortion is wrong?
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