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FRUMPY! Men Don't Like It.
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Topic Started: Nov 13 2012, 03:54 AM (3,038 Views)
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Rick1
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Nov 14 2012, 03:46 PM
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That damn woman is going nowhere. She don't have men lined up.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Nov 14 2012, 03:47 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 12:29 PM
Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment.
Alright then brotha! Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce. I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff. But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving. But I digress. Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could. Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here. But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck. End of my rant. LOL.
Umm, I'm not that forgiving. She just didn't give a fuck what she looked like. Look, if it was an illness or an accident I can excuse that. But to just say fuck it, I don't care what I look like knowing men are visual animals is stupid on her part. If he's still fucking her she ought to be happy he's fucking her as well. There, I said it!
What do you need to be forgiving about? As I said, if he could have divorced her, gave her a makeover or some other shit. Instead you cheat? How dumb is that shit. And I say again, have you seen this nigga, he is not a catch?
A woman should make an effort to stay in reasonably decent shape and attractive. That is not unreasonable. There are lot of women who once they get married or have a boyfriend just say fuck it. Then they wonder why their man is looking at new pussy...duh! He may not be a catch in terms of looks to you but that aint the dynamics woman and you should know this. In the real world the way it has always been is the man doesn't have to look like Denzel to get fine women. For women it's other things like money and security, and every so often a guy who can lay pipe. So for example look at Mike Tyson. If he didn't have money do you think women like Robin Givens would have given him the time of day? Get real girl. I didn't make the rules, i'm just keeping it real.
Umm Who said she shouldnt keep her looks up to par. And umm, as a woman, and yes I can speak as one and not you, I expect my man to look just as good as he expects me to look. So dont act like women have to look good and men do not. They need to, and you are sadly mistaken if you think not. Now dumb hoes and tricks are satisfied with ugly niggas who fill them with hopes and dreams and power and a couple of dollars. But in real life, women want more, and men assume a whole lot less, stupidly might I add. You keep asking your women to look like Stacey Dash while you look like Professor Klump and see how far that gets a lot of real life relationships. Especially since the average nigga is not rich or powerful. Stacey Dash. Speaking of, time for me to bump her up
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Snidely Whiplash
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Nov 14 2012, 03:49 PM
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I don't think so. This is a military divorce and the least she will get is 1/2 of his retirement. Throw in adultery money and he's broke. Still military divorce even though he's a civilian now? Half the money would be worth doing it for. Being broke, umm not sure if it's really cheaper to keep her even then
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Rick1
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Nov 14 2012, 03:51 PM
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She was married to him for most or all of his military career.
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Nov 14 2012, 03:53 PM
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- U Thant
- Nov 14 2012, 12:29 PM
Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment.
Alright then brotha! Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce. I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff. But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving. But I digress. Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could. Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here. But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck. End of my rant. LOL.
Umm, I'm not that forgiving. She just didn't give a fuck what she looked like. Look, if it was an illness or an accident I can excuse that. But to just say fuck it, I don't care what I look like knowing men are visual animals is stupid on her part. If he's still fucking her she ought to be happy he's fucking her as well. There, I said it!
What do you need to be forgiving about? As I said, if he could have divorced her, gave her a makeover or some other shit. Instead you cheat? How dumb is that shit. And I say again, have you seen this nigga, he is not a catch?
A woman should make an effort to stay in reasonably decent shape and attractive. That is not unreasonable. There are lot of women who once they get married or have a boyfriend just say fuck it. Then they wonder why their man is looking at new pussy...duh! He may not be a catch in terms of looks to you but that aint the dynamics woman and you should know this. In the real world the way it has always been is the man doesn't have to look like Denzel to get fine women. For women it's other things like money and security, and every so often a guy who can lay pipe. So for example look at Mike Tyson. If he didn't have money do you think women like Robin Givens would have given him the time of day? Get real girl. I didn't make the rules, i'm just keeping it real.
Umm Who said she shouldnt keep her looks up to par. And umm, as a woman, and yes I can speak as one and not you, I expect my man to look just as good as he expects me to look. So dont act like women have to look good and men do not. They need to, and you are sadly mistaken if you think not. Now dumb hoes and tricks are satisfied with ugly niggas who fill them with hopes and dreams and power and a couple of dollars. But in real life, women want more, and men assume a whole lot less, stupidly might I add. You keep asking your women to look like Stacey Dash while you look like Professor Klump and see how far that gets a lot of real life relationships. Especially since the average nigga is not rich or powerful.
Stacey Dash. Speaking of, time for me to bump her up
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Nov 14 2012, 06:32 PM
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i believe in power of redemption and hate genetic lottery like mad
to make above point , spent 3 hrs photoshopping her pics ... u know like plastic surgery makeover to make a point..... i give up i really tried.. yep ,it is dat baaad.
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Nov 14 2012, 10:57 PM
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i believe in power of redemption and hate genetic lottery like mad
to make above point , spent 3 hrs photoshopping her pics ... u know like plastic surgery makeover to make a point..... i give up i really tried.. yep ,it is dat baaad.
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Whozthatgurl
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Nov 15 2012, 12:22 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 02:48 PM
I don't think so. This is a military divorce and the least she will get is 1/2 of his retirement. Throw in adultery money and he's broke. This is why he would stay with a woman that looks like this. She reminds me of the late Chris Farley from "Saturday Night Live".
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Rick1
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Nov 15 2012, 01:38 PM
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He's been married for 37 yrs. This is not the 1st piece of extra pussy for him.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Nov 15 2012, 01:44 PM
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He's been married for 37 yrs. This is not the 1st piece of extra pussy for him. Agreed. I like today's avatar...so far  By the way, his marriage might have been a power move on his part. She is supposed to be the daughter of some high ranking dude at West Point.
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