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FRUMPY! Men Don't Like It.
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Topic Started: Nov 13 2012, 03:54 AM (3,039 Views)
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negroplease
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Nov 14 2012, 12:33 PM
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- U Thant
- Nov 14 2012, 12:29 PM
Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment. Alright then brotha!
Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce.
I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff.
But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving.
But I digress.
Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could.
Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here.
But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck.
End of my rant.
LOL.
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Snidely Whiplash
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Nov 14 2012, 01:56 PM
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- Rick1
- Nov 14 2012, 11:49 AM
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- Nov 13 2012, 03:54 AM
You can call me mean, but I am going to say what EVERYBODY is thinking. I can see why David Patraeus would cheat. This woman is the epitome of what a frumpy woman looks like. 
Is that the General's brother? hehehehe
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Nov 14 2012, 01:57 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 12:45 AM
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- Nov 13 2012, 10:08 PM
Then divorce her.
Why be a weak ass coward and cheat?
That is not.an excuse.
Men who don't see their wives as sexy doesn't mean that they don't love them or have issues with them. Patraeus wife is probably the ideal woman when it comes to the home life except in the area of looks or sexiness. It's naive on any woman's part to assume that their man doesn't find other women sexy. Paula Broadwell is a very accomplished woman and she is gorgeous at that. Working close with Patraeus, I can see why he would want to hit that. I bet you there are a lot of women who are looking at themselves in the mirror since this scandal broke. Can some of them remake themselves into a beauty queen?, maybe not. But I bet you some women are taking a look at the women that surrounds their husbands especially if he is a power player and comparing what they look like to those women.
Cheating is the option though? No its not. Divorce her, get her a make over, communicate that you want her to change like good couples do, but CHEATING should never be your option. It is still a whack ass.cowardly.move.no.matter how you look at.it.or.try.to justify.it. And.love hah! Loving someone is not.sneaking around and betraying them.
It's called the old saying, "Having your cake and eating it too". Let's see if Patraeus's wife file for divorce. I think he'd be down for that
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Nov 14 2012, 02:02 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 12:33 PM
- U Thant
- Nov 14 2012, 12:29 PM
Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment.
Alright then brotha! Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce. I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff. But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving. But I digress. Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could. Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here. But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck. End of my rant. LOL. Umm, I'm not that forgiving. She just didn't give a fuck what she looked like. Look, if it was an illness or an accident I can excuse that. But to just say fuck it, I don't care what I look like knowing men are visual animals is stupid on her part.
If he's still fucking her she ought to be happy he's fucking her as well. There, I said it!
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negroplease
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Nov 14 2012, 02:28 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 12:29 PM
Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment.
Alright then brotha! Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce. I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff. But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving. But I digress. Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could. Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here. But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck. End of my rant. LOL.
Umm, I'm not that forgiving. She just didn't give a fuck what she looked like. Look, if it was an illness or an accident I can excuse that. But to just say fuck it, I don't care what I look like knowing men are visual animals is stupid on her part. If he's still fucking her she ought to be happy he's fucking her as well. There, I said it! What do you need to be forgiving about?
As I said, if he could have divorced her, gave her a makeover or some other shit.
Instead you cheat? How dumb is that shit.
And I say again, have you seen this nigga, he is not a catch?
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Nov 14 2012, 02:38 PM
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Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment.
Alright then brotha! Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce. I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff. But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving. But I digress. Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could. Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here. But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck. End of my rant. LOL.
Umm, I'm not that forgiving. She just didn't give a fuck what she looked like. Look, if it was an illness or an accident I can excuse that. But to just say fuck it, I don't care what I look like knowing men are visual animals is stupid on her part. If he's still fucking her she ought to be happy he's fucking her as well. There, I said it!
What do you need to be forgiving about? As I said, if he could have divorced her, gave her a makeover or some other shit. Instead you cheat? How dumb is that shit. And I say again, have you seen this nigga, he is not a catch? A woman should make an effort to stay in reasonably decent shape and attractive. That is not unreasonable. There are lot of women who once they get married or have a boyfriend just say fuck it. Then they wonder why their man is looking at new pussy...duh!
He may not be a catch in terms of looks to you but that aint the dynamics woman and you should know this. In the real world the way it has always been is the man doesn't have to look like Denzel to get fine women. For women it's other things like money and security, and every so often a guy who can lay pipe. So for example look at Mike Tyson. If he didn't have money do you think women like Robin Givens would have given him the time of day? Get real girl. I didn't make the rules, i'm just keeping it real.
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Nov 14 2012, 02:41 PM
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She is fugly and very homely looking. The other gal looks leaps and bounds better than her.
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Nov 14 2012, 02:44 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 02:41 PM
She is fugly and very homely looking. The other gal looks leaps and bounds better than her. It's not even a contest. I'm sure David would sign off on a divorce before she would even finish her statement asking for one.
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Nov 14 2012, 02:48 PM
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I don't think so. This is a military divorce and the least she will get is 1/2 of his retirement. Throw in adultery money and he's broke.
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negroplease
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Nov 14 2012, 03:28 PM
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- Nov 14 2012, 12:29 PM
Oh I'm in no way, excusing him.
I'm painting her as the Righteous one here, if she was faithful in the face of the past 10 years/he's pretty much been on deployment.
Alright then brotha! Perhaps what I am saying is getting lost in the sauce. I can value women trying to make marriages work. Even though Im not with the religious values stuff. But I think women, need not be so dependent on a man and as forgiving, as they get taken advantage of. When in turn if the shoe was on the other foot, many men would not be as forgiving. But I digress. Yes she was frumpy, but that wasnt an excuse for this man to cheat. And she could improve her looks, as well he could. Marriages with communication succeed. And obviously, they were lacking communication here. But excusing the cheating by saying she was frumpy is whack as fuck. End of my rant. LOL.
Umm, I'm not that forgiving. She just didn't give a fuck what she looked like. Look, if it was an illness or an accident I can excuse that. But to just say fuck it, I don't care what I look like knowing men are visual animals is stupid on her part. If he's still fucking her she ought to be happy he's fucking her as well. There, I said it!
What do you need to be forgiving about? As I said, if he could have divorced her, gave her a makeover or some other shit. Instead you cheat? How dumb is that shit. And I say again, have you seen this nigga, he is not a catch?
A woman should make an effort to stay in reasonably decent shape and attractive. That is not unreasonable. There are lot of women who once they get married or have a boyfriend just say fuck it. Then they wonder why their man is looking at new pussy...duh! He may not be a catch in terms of looks to you but that aint the dynamics woman and you should know this. In the real world the way it has always been is the man doesn't have to look like Denzel to get fine women. For women it's other things like money and security, and every so often a guy who can lay pipe. So for example look at Mike Tyson. If he didn't have money do you think women like Robin Givens would have given him the time of day? Get real girl. I didn't make the rules, i'm just keeping it real. Umm
Who said she shouldnt keep her looks up to par.
And umm, as a woman, and yes I can speak as one and not you, I expect my man to look just as good as he expects me to look.
So dont act like women have to look good and men do not.
They need to, and you are sadly mistaken if you think not.
Now dumb hoes and tricks are satisfied with ugly niggas who fill them with hopes and dreams and power and a couple of dollars.
But in real life, women want more, and men assume a whole lot less, stupidly might I add.
You keep asking your women to look like Stacey Dash while you look like Professor Klump and see how far that gets a lot of real life relationships.
Especially since the average nigga is not rich or powerful.
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