| The root cause of the break down of the black family | |
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| Topic Started: Nov 12 2012, 05:28 AM (2,133 Views) | |
| kennyinbmore | Nov 16 2012, 01:02 PM Post #51 |
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As a former 16 y/o boy I can almost guarantee you even if you told him to date exclusive, he more than likey will eventually play the field. If this is his first "special one", there will be more
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| Backbone | Nov 16 2012, 09:34 PM Post #52 |
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We give our kids the best advice available to us based on our experience and training. Most times, it workout for the best and on those few occasions it don’t, we’re provided with a learning opportunity. I’m sure your son will follow you and your husband’s value system that's currently being demonstrated in your household. Responsible parents tends to raise kids that value their beliefs and you appear to be a concerned parent. Personally, I believe you “ treat your girlfriend / wife equal to or better than you treated your mother”. That’s what I told my daughter, who is now married. Select a man that loves you and willing to treat you better than I did. To her good fortune, her husband thinks the world of her. At 16 he's far from the stage in life, so he'll going to have his share of fun. |
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| VoiceofReason | Nov 16 2012, 10:00 PM Post #53 |
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Hopefully!
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| VoiceofReason | Nov 16 2012, 10:01 PM Post #54 |
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Thats true.... Thanks, B. |
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| VoiceofReason | Nov 16 2012, 10:04 PM Post #55 |
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You know me. I absolutely do agree with you. I do believe the boys will be boys spiel, but I don't buy it as an excuse. I see it as a reason to teach them how important it is to be smart about these things, and careful, very careful. |
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| Rick1 | Nov 19 2012, 10:21 AM Post #56 |
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This is not just a problem with young girls. I have a female friend who is 35 with 4 kids and she just told me she is pregnant by a dude that she sees every now and again. I asked her what the fuck was she thinking and she says she don't care. |
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| VoiceofReason | Nov 19 2012, 10:33 AM Post #57 |
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I'm glad you asked her that. She cares. Hopefully she will tie her tubes this time. |
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| Rick1 | Nov 19 2012, 10:41 AM Post #58 |
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She is having unprotected sex, is already on food stamps (like 300 dollars) and i thought she was doing good by working 2 jobs and was thinking about going back to school. Some women just don't get it. 4 kids is enough, especially without a husband. |
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| VoiceofReason | Nov 19 2012, 10:50 AM Post #59 |
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Yeah, it sounds as though she was getting it together. But still lacking in the common sense department. That's too bad. She is a caricature of part of the problem.
Edited by VoiceofReason, Nov 19 2012, 10:51 AM.
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| Black Republican | Nov 20 2012, 11:09 PM Post #60 |
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In my opinion Liberal values is the root cause of the break down of the black family. Liberal values say it's to have kids and not be married. |
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