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The root cause of the break down of the black family
Topic Started: Nov 12 2012, 05:28 AM (2,136 Views)
VoiceofReason

Maybe we don't have a breakdown of the "family".

Granted, our community has too many single females raising kids alone. To me, that's the problem because they also make up the largest impoverished group within our community. That's what needs to be fixed.
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Rick1
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This is where the older females come in to play. Most aren't schooling these young girls and telling them not to get pregnant and believe nothing coming from a man's mouth.
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Rick1
Nov 14 2012, 10:32 AM
This is where the older females come in to play. Most aren't schooling these young girls and telling them not to get pregnant and believe nothing coming from a man's mouth.
There's a lot of truth to that Rick and Truth. Without doing any black woman bashing SUA, women have to realize the quickest route to poverty is having children when you're single. Use birth control and make those brothas strap it up every time,or just say NO. While in a perfect world men should have the common sense to do so, a woman can't depend on a man when ultimately, she'll be the one dealing with the consequences
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negroplease

kennyinbmore
Nov 14 2012, 10:53 AM
Rick1
Nov 14 2012, 10:32 AM
This is where the older females come in to play. Most aren't schooling these young girls and telling them not to get pregnant and believe nothing coming from a man's mouth.
There's a lot of truth to that Rick and Truth. Without doing any black woman bashing SUA, women have to realize the quickest route to poverty is having children when you're single. Use birth control and make those brothas strap it up every time,or just say NO. While in a perfect world men should have the common sense to do so, a woman can't depend on a man when ultimately, she'll be the one dealing with the consequences
LMAO!

Im so mad you had to add me as a disclaimer.

I know you arent bashing.

I agree women need to get it together.

And so do men.

Lets not act like since day one, I havent been saying women need to make better choices and men need to be a better choice.

No excuses for each other.

The End!
Edited by negroplease, Nov 14 2012, 11:00 AM.
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negroplease

But I do have to ask, who is schooling the young men though?

Yes women be smarter and beware, but why are yall just letting men run amuck and think that shit is ok?

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!! I know I couldnt help it.
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Rick1
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Men can run amuck all they want. There is a place for them but as long as they aren't leaving kids behind, it's his own life he's messing with. Bringing kids into this world knowing you can't provide for them is wrong.
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negroplease

Rick1
Nov 14 2012, 11:08 AM
Men can run amuck all they want. There is a place for them but as long as they aren't leaving kids behind, it's his own life he's messing with. Bringing kids into this world knowing you can't provide for them is wrong.
You arent thinking of running amuck the same as I am then.

Running amuck and ditching responsibility is just as much a problem as dumb women birthing babies for the idiots.

So when you want to have some old ladies sitting down telling Taniqua and Rasheeda to be careful, someone needs to be telling Raheem and Devaughn to be careful too. But more people are encouraging hypermasculinity and fucking as manhood and eliminating the take responsibility part and you wonder why Taniqua got 80 kids on welfare.


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Shaniqua has to say yes before Raheem gets any pussy. Women that have been thru raising kids alone when they thought they were in love needs to be out front with these young girls telling their stories. Since soo many mother daughter relationships are a mess, the message will never get across because young girls are too grown.
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negroplease

Of course Shaniqua has to say yes.

I have established that already. I established these women could use a good bit advice and need to reevaluate themselves.

Can you however, acknowlege that Dante could use some as well.

I cant fathom how people want to give women advice and not give men any. Just letting them run amuck as I said before.

Is it that hard to sit homeboy down as well and tell him he needs to get it together too?
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Both men and women are wrong. A lot of times when young boys meet girls, grown men ask the boy if he fucked her yet and women have been known to ask young girls, "how is the dick"?

I can deal with young people making mistakes but not if you are 30 plus making the same mistakes bringing kids into the world while just dating and no committment in sight.
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