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Black women should be "Grateful" White men want them?; What I was told last week....
Topic Started: Sep 16 2012, 11:45 AM (1,406 Views)
G. A. W.
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Rick1
Sep 17 2012, 08:33 AM
Im sorry you experienced that situation but am glad that you didn't give him the opportunity to show his true colors in an environment you're not accustomed to. (out of town) I've always said you never know if a white man really wants or love a black woman or is he just out to get some black pussy. I always try to tell women that men act or say things to get what they want and white men are no different than black ones.
Rick, thank you...

You are quite honest about this topic, indeed......

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Snidely Whiplash
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So, my shock when he asked me to go with him to Chicago. He made it sound soooooooo lovely.... museums, restaurants he named, art galleries and shows, etc... These are things I indeed am interested in...


If he's offering all that, you know what he's expecting :D
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tayter80
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Ugh dating sucks sometimes. At least he showed his true colors before you really got invested.

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William

hhmm....

not surprised.
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cisslybee2012
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Sari
Sep 16 2012, 11:45 AM
Etienne, a curator for an art gallery, asked me to accompany him on a business trip to Chicago. This stunning looking white guy with coal black hair and ice cold blue eyes framed in long black eye lashes, tall and smart looking dressed in his Brioni and Miyake threads........is a man I see every single work day morning on my way to the office.

We have a "morning" relationship, where we greet and flirt as I walk past his art gallery on my way to the elevators to ascend to the floor that holds my office. On occasion, I've even given him a homemade muffin I'd baked to share with my co-workers. Over the years, he and I would spend no more than 10 mins every morning together, Mon - Friday.

So, my shock when he asked me to go with him to Chicago. He made it sound soooooooo lovely.... museums, restaurants he named, art galleries and shows, etc... These are things I indeed am interested in...

I politely thanked him for offering, then gently declined. And to my surprise, he was NOT happy with my answer....

He became indignant and was obviously slighted by the fact I would not go with him. I expressed how in actuality, we did not truly even know each other. We've never even sat down together to have a cup of coffee....how could he believe I'd run off to Chicago for a week?

His cold blue eyes, already icy looking, became hard and wicked looking, boring into me. He informed me that I should feel "Lucky" that he asked me to go with him and that I was an "arrogant black bitch!"

Ok..................................................

I was truly shocked and dumbfounded and my brain was racing 1000 miles an hour trying to soak in how this idiot could have the audacity to say this to me....

After controlling my first reaction to take an ink pen from his desk and stab him in the throat with it, I glared at him with my black eyes (my eyes are black, not brown...) and informed him that I hoped he had a good day and with clenched hands, I left...

After spending 20 minutes in the Ladie's Water Closet, just letting my adrenalin surge through my nervous system.... and talking myself out of going back down stairs to tell him what I really thought of him.......

I started to think about what he said.... that I, as a black woman, should be "grateful" he asked me to be with him. I have dated white men before. I've slept with white men. I've NEVER EVER EVER had a white guy inform me I should be grateful for it, however....

So, I'm simply sharing my first experience of being a black bitch who doesn't appreciate the attentions of a pompous well dressed white bastard...

Who never had the guts to ask me for a cup of coffee, or dinner, or a movie... or anything... but yet "expects" me to run off to Chicago with him for a week!!!

How totally, absurd............
I keep telling yall that white man are no different from any other. :D

:D :D :D :D
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cisslybee2012
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Although a white man never psyched out on me like that. LOL! :D
Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 18 2012, 01:14 PM.
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G. A. W.
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Interestingly enough, Etienne apologized to me this morning!!!

I told him to leave me alone and give me space... I might forgive him eventually but now I didn't even want to talk to him...

He said, "that's an honest answer...."

I just replied, "yea, so it is..."

And I walked off...
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Sari
Sep 18 2012, 01:47 PM
Interestingly enough, Etienne apologized to me this morning!!!

I told him to leave me alone and give me space... I might forgive him eventually but now I didn't even want to talk to him...

He said, "that's an honest answer...."

I just replied, "yea, so it is..."

And I walked off...
Good on you Sari. I guess he realized he fucked up :)
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psalongo
Sep 18 2012, 01:53 PM
Sari
Sep 18 2012, 01:47 PM
Interestingly enough, Etienne apologized to me this morning!!!

I told him to leave me alone and give me space... I might forgive him eventually but now I didn't even want to talk to him...

He said, "that's an honest answer...."

I just replied, "yea, so it is..."

And I walked off...
Good on you Sari. I guess he realized he fucked up :)
Yes, yes he did.....
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Rick1
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Was he about to get some muffin?
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