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Black women should be "Grateful" White men want them?; What I was told last week....
Topic Started: Sep 16 2012, 11:45 AM (1,407 Views)
G. A. W.
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My black sisters,

Have any of you had a white man treat you as if you should be soooooooooooooooooo happy he even spoke with you?

How did you handle it?

What was the outcome...??

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negroplease

I can't say that I have Sari!

Im sorry you had to experience this.

But this is indeed the mentality of many white men and many white women who we swear love us so much!!

And hey ladyfireball!

Humansense would love this story.

I think you handled yourself awesome.

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Cartman
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I've never had the experience with a White woman, but I have had that experience with Black women. They felt I should worship them just because they gave me some attention.

BTW, these Black women thought they were attractive just because they weren't obese.
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Cartman
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Who wants to get donkey punched?
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Snidely Whiplash
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Well, at least you found out before things went further Sari. You were supposed to be the black notch on his belt that he probably bragged he could nail.

It's not the fucking that is bad, it's his condescending view of you and other black women that's an issue IMHO.
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nevergiveup
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That's crazy.
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Sari
Sep 16 2012, 01:53 PM
Glenn, thank you.. indeed you are correct about the Plantation Mentality issue.

I do not deny there was friendly flirting each morning, "Why Etienne, that blue tie makes your eyes pop out!" or something close to the same..... all I can imagine, is that any attention at all I showed him must have created in his mind, I was open for him. What a fool......

My brother, Jonah, is actually so upset he's made me promise next week I complain to his superiors. Which I've agreed to do.... Jonah threatened that if I didn't do it, he would. And Jonah, will drive all the way to my work just to have a chat with not only Etienne, but with his boss, as well.

I do know, that an individual who is quite close to me....when I told him of the situation he was not happy either.... and spoke horrible of Etienne! If he was capable of showing up at the art gallery the next day, I would actually be worried of a physical confrontation....... he said something about Etienne losing teeth and his head being kicked in....and.......

oh my................


@ LFB, Thank you.... I was furious on the inside but I remained calm and didn't say or do anything that would cause me regret later... personally or professionally or legally.

To answer about crossing paths again, well that is interesting. I was considering parking in the back of the building and simply going up the back stair well vs. using the parking garage and going by the art gallery to the elevators again.... not wanting to bump into him....

But I thought about it for a while and decided, NO WAY. I'm not going to allow that creep to change my routine, I've been using this parking garage for several years, I always walk to the elevators...I always pass the art gallery.... I am NOT going to change, because of him.

So actually, the whole "Black bitch / you should be grateful to me" scene happen on Thursday... so Friday morning I did my normal on the way to the office route.

As I walked pass the Art Gallery, obviously Etienne was not around to greet me, as per the past few years. I did see him, though.. in the window....and I just looked at him... straight on looked at him... He lowered his head.....

That weak pathetic bastard did not have the ability to man up and look me in the eyes.........

I just kept walking down the hall, to the elevators... with my head held high......shoulders back..... with a bright smile, on my face.

It was going to be a great Friday............ and... it was.

That is right Sari, never fear a male wearing an invisible skirt.
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G. A. W.
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psalongo
Sep 16 2012, 11:51 PM
Well, at least you found out before things went further Sari. You were supposed to be the black notch on his belt that he probably bragged he could nail.

It's not the fucking that is bad, it's his condescending view of you and other black women that's an issue IMHO.
True......

It never would have went further, however........I was never "interested" in him as such......I had no desire to make our morning routine any "more" than it was already.... I was quite content to walk to the elevators mon - fri and say hello, smile, boost his stupid dumb ego about how good he looked, and get on with my work day.

But yes, his attitude toward black women / people in general is what angered me the most...........
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sam_wilson
Sep 17 2012, 07:20 AM
That is right Sari, never fear a male wearing an invisible skirt.
Fear.......

What a word............

You know me........ and you know my response to fear....... remember the pit bull who came at me......... ?

Fear........

Sam..........indeed............

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Im sorry you experienced that situation but am glad that you didn't give him the opportunity to show his true colors in an environment you're not accustomed to. (out of town) I've always said you never know if a white man really wants or love a black woman or is he just out to get some black pussy. I always try to tell women that men act or say things to get what they want and white men are no different than black ones.
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